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Originally Posted by BellasBmw
I will let you know whats up, good or bad. Dont ever look back and regret telling someone how you feel, its better to regret doing it, then to regret never saying anything. Your young too, and this was always the hardest thing people told me, but they always say dont worry about how he is gonna feel, worry about yourself.. lifes too short to be with someone who doesnt do it for you.
As for the rejection issue, i dont know enough on the situation btwn u and the other guy. If he is a really good friend of yours, he could honestly not want to taint the friendship. Or he could be a great guy, knowing that you have a bf, and doesnt want to be that "guy who broke your relationship up".
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She's right on. The WORST thing is life is regret NOT saying it than saying it. Cus then you spend the rest of your life wondering "what if...". Might as well take a chance and find out. As for the other guy, he should just stay out if he knows you're in a relationship. That's the right thing to do. I have a friend whose gf just left him for another guy after a 5 year relationship. IT was fucked up. The guy shouldnt have been involved. And if your bf doesnt do as much for you as you do for him, dump him. Someone told me "the person you want is the one that wants you".
Now about you: Im not trying to be mean or anything but if you did something with your friend (not bf), why would he want to be with you. Take my friend's example: why would the other guy want to be with her since she could easily leave him for another guy after another 5 years of dating. Im not saying that you are like this because I dont personally know you. Personally I wouldnt go for someone who hits on others when she already has a bf.
I dont know if this is relevant to the issue at hand here. Im too lazy to read the whole thread. This is just my opinion lol. Dont hate me.