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Originally Posted by kits135i
Looks play a role! Trust me. I though I was an OK looking guy, but I have been told by women and men I am ugly as sin. Plus I have some extra padding. I cannot get a female no matter how much money I have. I can pull up in a 300k car with money falling out of my pockets in a Zegna suit and women give me the gag face and move on. Looks is still a huge role. I have had women many times seriously act like they were throwing up just because I looked in their direction! When I go to a strip club they don't even come up to me.
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What attracts a female depends on what stage of life they are in. A lot of younger girls tend to be a little "gold digger-ish" because society and media portray that it is cool to party all the time, without facing responsibility, and of course the more money that guy has, the better the party will be! You know, more drinks, exciting venues, nicer place, cool car, maybe weekend get aways, ETC. Money starts realy looking REALLY attractive when a girl is looking at what a guy can do for her, or what he can contribute to her lifestyle.
A lot of the more mentally mature, or a little bit older in age women, will generally be attracted to what a guy looks like, or how he carries himself, because she is probably at a stage in her life where she can financially support her own lifestyle, and pay for her own habbits and hobbies, so the guy's financial status is not top on the her list of attractions. Of course if the guy she is attracted to has a decent cash flow, that would most likely be considered a good thing, but when a woman can support herself finacially, she will probably go for the guy she thinks is hot, whether he has money or not.