I don't think it should matter whether or not you were chosen to be in someone else's wedding party.
I decided you should either pick the one or two really good friends (a real friend, not just a drinking buddy), or you should exclude whoever's feelings would be hurt the least.
I have friends who'll understand if I say "hey, i would've really liked you in my wedding party, but it would be a nightmare for life if I didn't ask so-and-so".
Or....you can play the financial card and say that you didn't choose someone because you didn't want to put them in the financial bind of renting a tux, and paying for "other wedding related items".
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