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Originally Posted by JayKay335i
It could be that she fucked him. It could be that hes just strange and obsessed. I've dealt with similar situations. First off, at the end of the day, you're fucking and dating her and hes just some dude trying to creep in and failing. What I would suggest is getting her some mace or some shit. Hes just leaving little things and shit. You cant do anything legally until there is an actual threat to her safety. Until he proves to be a fucken psycho I dont think theres anything you need to do.
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Not true. There are plenty of laws that apply here, and the first step is documented proof that she told him to stop. I.e., call the police and have a report taken. Stalking laws have seriously tightened up in the last few years and the report is the first step. If they "dataed" then domestic laws might apply and enhance the consequences of breaking the law. Either way, you "Laying down the rules" is a collosal waste of time.