[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by BMW F22

Truth: someone (of any race) comes up and says to me "fuck you fucking chink/gook/nip," I'd be like "okay...?" And walk off. Seriously I have no issue with that.

Someone comes up and calls me a dumb shit I would grab the closest beer mug and bash their head in. I don't get caught up in the race name calling. It's when I am personally insulted that gets me bananas.

Shit is nonsense to me. I understand it has deep rooted symbolism and relevance to specific demographics and geographical distributions, and for those instances by all means, handle the situation as best you can. I'm thankful to be one of those people who is unperturbed by it, and plan to continue being one.

[BMW F22]

Originally Posted by Verbiage

Shit is nonsense to me. I understand it has deep rooted symbolism and relevance to specific demographics and geographical distributions, and for those instances by all means, handle the situation as best you can. I'm thankful to be one of those people who is unperturbed by it, and plan to continue being one.

Yeah. I feel that most people just go along with what was told to them. They see other people react negatively to the n word and so they believe it to be bad without even understanding why.

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Tmi bro.

I just saw this. I apologize and I'll go back to my deadlift torque curls......



......tomorrow.


Wait, I don't have another total body routine until next Wednesday, so that'll be Friday for upper and core. Okay, I got this.


BTW, I'm in the process of developing a creatine/Kool-Aid mix. PM for details on group buy.



Carry on.

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by BMW F22

Yeah. I feel that most people just go along with what was told to them. They see other people react negatively to the n word and so they believe it to be bad without even understanding why.

Ah well. Win some lose some. Onward and upward.

[Mywifes335]

Originally Posted by Verbiage

Shit is nonsense to me. I understand it has deep rooted symbolism and relevance to specific demographics and geographical distributions, and for those instances by all means, handle the situation as best you can. I'm thankful to be one of those people who is unperturbed by it, and plan to continue being one.

Verbiage,

As much as most White folks want to or think they understand being non-white, most just have no idea. And this is not to be offensive. It's a conclusion I've solidified over a long time.

I observe. And in the NY Metro area, most white people are pretty chill and have a mix of real friends. But as you move away from that spectrum...where there's a more homogenous White community, the "ignorance" is very apparent.

I don't use ignorance here as a CW term or in a derogatory way. I use it in the pure defintion of "not knowing".

I employ empirical evidence that I've observed in Dallas. You'd be surprised how unknowing some White people are of other cultures, let alone knowing they could say or do something offensive to other races. Something simple like wearing a sombrero and thick mustache and posing for a Mexican Tuesday photo is all in good fun but ended up
Pissing off a bunch of Latinos.

I chalk it up to the lack of exposure and lack of "ethnic" experience.

Growing up among 33% Asians in my HS and then 25% Asian in college, I really got a firsthand view of what it means to be Asian in the US. Hanging out with my Puerto Rican friends and their families through college helped me gain insight on their culture. Same goes for Nigerian American, Indian, and Black. All perspectives different than growing up in a purely White American framework.

My 2 cents.

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by Mywifes335

Verbiage,

As much as most White folks want to or think they understand being non-white, most just have no idea. And this is not to be offensive. It's a conclusion I've solidified over a long time.

I observe. And in the NY Metro area, most white people are pretty chill and have a mix of real friends. But as you move away from that spectrum...where there's a more homogenous White community, the "ignorance" is very apparent.

I don't use ignorance here as a CW term or in a derogatory way. I use it in the pure defintion of "not knowing".

I employ empirical evidence that I've observed in Dallas. You'd be surprised how unknowing some White people are of other cultures, let alone knowing they could say or do something offensive to other races. Something simple like wearing a sombrero and thick mustache and posing for a Mexican Tuesday photo is all in good fun but ended up
Pissing off a bunch of Latinos.

I chalk it up to the lack of exposure and lack of "ethnic" experience.

Growing up among 33% Asians in my HS and then 25% Asian in college, I really got a firsthand view of what it means to be Asian in the US. Hanging out with my Puerto Rican friends and their families through college helped me gain insight on their culture. Same goes for Nigerian American, Indian, and Black. All perspectives different than growing up in a purely White American framework.

My 2 cents.

Agree with this and most of what led up to it. HOWEVER. Ignorance is not really a good excuse. I will usually give someone a pass once on something like that.
"Dude, that is seriously offensive." People generally get one of those. And I can chalk that to being raised in some backwater or having parents who did not raise them right. But after that, shit don't fly. And that is most everyone on most everything. "My background" or "my upbringing" is (largely) a bullshit excuse used to justify just not trying. I wish I were perfect. I learn of ways now and then that I can improve. When I do, I make a choice whether to get better in that area. If I choose not to, I have communicated that it is not important enough to me. From there out, I have no choice but to own that imperfection, because I chose it. Choosing to do nothing about it is the same thing as choosing it.

/rant

Edit: I sound bitchy. I know you weren't saying that ignorance excused things. This was a kneejerk reaction to having heard this excuse like a brazillion times.

[Mywifes335]

Nah, jtodd_fl , I got you.

It's totally not an excuse to claim ignorance, but it just happens so much, I often ignore it rather than explain it.

Especially to middle aged women whom look like Mrs. Bush and drive a Suburban when she has 2 kids.

[Lucky John]

Originally Posted by Verbiage

Shit is nonsense to me. I understand it has deep rooted symbolism and relevance to specific demographics and geographical distributions, and for those instances by all means, handle the situation as best you can. I'm thankful to be one of those people who is unperturbed by it, and plan to continue being one.

For me it says more about the person saying the derogatory term then it does about the person it is being said to. That covers all races and both directions.

Verbi, cool thread, props for doing it. I hope the discussion continues.

[jtodd_fl]

OK - new question. The Confederate Flag. What think you?

[1MOREMOD]

Yee haw, dukes of hazard!

[Mywifes335]

Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Yee haw, dukes of hazard!

I was thinking of getting an orange 1970 Dodge Charger, putting the Korean flag on top, painting "General Lee" on the roof, and installing a Gangnam style horn...and see what the reactions would be. In Texas.

Then I woke up and realized it would cost too much.

[Mywifes335]

Originally Posted by Verbiage

I just saw this. I apologize and I'll go back to my deadlift torque curls......



......tomorrow.


Wait, I don't have another total body routine until next Wednesday, so that'll be Friday for upper and core. Okay, I got this.


BTW, I'm in the process of developing a creatine/Kool-Aid mix. PM for details on group buy.



Carry on.

I'd be all over Kool aid flavored Creatine. Fruit punch C4 is palatable.

Now, would you still need to ADD sugar?

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by Mywifes335

I was thinking of getting an orange 1970 Dodge Charger, putting the Korean flag on top, painting "General Lee" on the roof, and installing a Gangnam style horn...and see what the reactions would be. In Texas.

Then I woke up and realized it would cost too much.

Chinese Flag... General Tso.

two benefits:
- Texans would get the joke
- Texans could not tell the difference between a Korean and a Chinese person anyway

[ASBSECU E93]

Originally Posted by Mywifes335

I was thinking of getting an orange 1970 Dodge Charger, putting the Korean flag on top, painting "General Lee" on the roof, and installing a Gangnam style horn...and see what the reactions would be. In Texas.

Then I woke up and realized it would cost too much.

Fuq - that would be HILARIOUS!!!

DO IT!!!

[Xiaoxi]

Originally Posted by Verbiage

Popeyes reigns supreme, but Church's is a close second.


KFC is somehow the designated "black people" chicken, but it is the most grease-ridden fried flaked skin I've ever consumed. It's horrid.


Popeyes satisfies the black majority by its perfect blend of texture, juiciness, and spiced varieties. However, due to its price, most blacks must gather their funds together to split a bucket that will last approximately 7 minutes.

Thank you thank you thank you.

[Xiaoxi]

Have you seen The Wire? And if so, what are your thoughts on it?

[1MOREMOD]

Shit I've never had Popeyes don't have them here

[ASBSECU E93]

Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Shit I've never had Popeyes don't have them here

NOPE!!

Best Fried Chicken (on planet ERF) is Yogi Bear Honey Fried Chicken in Hartsville, SC...

[ASBSECU E93]

Originally Posted by Broken_Gearbox

1. Is it true: Once you go black you never go back?

2. What is your favourite baby making music artist / song?

3. Is it true: Father's day in the ghetto is the most confusing day?

4. Why are black people so fixated on the booty?

5. Who is the real God father of hip hop (if you listen to it)?

6. Best black comedian in your opinion?

7. What is the funniest black movie in your opinion? e.g. Harlem nights, Black Dynamite, Pootie Tang etc.

1. Yes - and Black don't Crack...
2. R. Kelley - Honey Love or Dedicated.
3. WTF is Fathers's Day?!?!
4. It ain't your beauty....it's your BOOTY (Can't tell if this is a real question...)
5. James Brown
6. Alive - Kevin Hart; Of all time - Richard Pryor
7. Friday...followed by I'm Gonna Get You Sucka in a CLOSE 2nd.

[swagon]

Shit, 10 pages... Do you guys do anything else?

Q:
My ***** Verbiage, how many times a day do you say the word "*****"? I listen a lot to rap/hip hop and they use it very frequently, nomsayin.

Oh, it's actually censored. Let me write it backwards: aggin

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by 1MOREMOD

Shit I've never had Popeyes don't have them here

Originally Posted by ASBSECU E93

NOPE!!

Best Fried Chicken (on planet ERF) is Yogi Bear Honey Fried Chicken in Hartsville, SC...

Gents, you guys get the exported, 'Civilian Popeye's'.

Ours is MUCH more spicy. We had a grant writer from D.C. in when I was in grad school and he begged to go to our Popeye's because he wanted the 'authentic experience'. LOL...He couldn't even eat the mild version.

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

Gents, you guys get the exported, 'Civilian Popeye's'.

Ours is MUCH more spicy. We had a grant writer from D.C. in when I was in grad school and he begged to go to our Popeye's because he wanted the 'authentic experience'. LOL...He couldn't even eat the mild version.

DO WANT! I'm going to hit you up for this if I get down that way. Love me some spicy fried chicken.

Inb4 secretly black or "wigger".