[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by someguywithanm3

I'm going to buy her roses and give them to her on the 13th and 14th. I'm not expecting anything in return, but I'll gauge her response.

I'll keep you guys updated.

Roses are always nice, but in my experience something personal like a handwritten card with a poem or something goes a long way.

[someguywithanm3]

Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Roses are always nice, but in my experience something personal like a handwritten card with a poem or something goes a long way.

Yeah, I'm writing her a note. I'm not sure what to write, but it's going to go something like, "I know you don't feel the same way I feel about you, so I'm giving you these without asking for anything in return....your friendship means a lot to me."

I'm still working on it. I'll look at your suggestions on the train ride home. Bye for now.

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by someguywithanm3

Ha ha. You guys are funny.

I'm going to buy her roses and give them to her on the 13th and 14th. I'm not expecting anything in return, but I'll gauge her response.

I'll keep you guys updated.

Make sure you tell her, Happy VD, Spread the Joy. It's a little less pressure. Trust me on this!

[Grumpy Old Man]

Originally Posted by MrGatsby

The good:

My current relationship is fantastic beyond my wildest dreams. I can honestly say I am with my dream girl. She's stunning. Tall, great legs, bright blue eyes, blonde hair, incredible body. She's a brilliant writer, working on feature films for Netflix. She has great taste in cars, drinks whiskey, and knows how to party, yet knows when its time to work and gets things done. Oh and she is fully supportive of my car obsession.

The bad:

Many years ago I owned a mobile car detailing company. I was contacted by this middle aged woman who asked me to detail her pride and joy, her Porsche. Very rare to find such a woman. I agreed to the job and subsequently went to her home the following week to start the work. About an hour in, her daughter, roughly my age, came out with a beer for me, and we started chatting. She told me all about the Porsche. It was her fathers, who passed a few years back and it fostered a real love for cars within this girl. I was fascinated by her in all aspects, but her genuine love for cars was a HUGE plus.

After the job was done, I got this girls number and we went out the next Friday. I took her to this quaint wine bar for a low key evening. We drink, eat, talk, and just have a fantastic time. We start dating and things went very well for the first 2 months. Now around that 2 month mark, she starts to get very clingy. To the point where she would ask for the address of customers homes where I would be detailing. I was not okay with this type of jealousy. We had a talk and she brought up her father and her being scared to lose me. It was a very rough conversation for me, as I knew I was right to stand my ground about her antics, yet there is a fine line i did not want to cross, as I understand her pain as well.

We continued on for another month or so, where one evening at her house, a guy shows up to the door. I open the door to find this guy calling her name and asking who I am, and whats going on. Confused and angry, I step towards him and tell her to get downstairs now. He tells me she is his girlfriend. I say the same. She now runs to her room and locks the door. An absolute mess, I tell her not to contact me again, and leave the home immediately for them two to sort out this mess.

At about 3 am, I get a knock on my door. She's drunk, with the Porsche. Angry and fed up, I tell her to leave. I still regret this, as she was far too drunk to drive. I was caught up in my emotions and not thinking clearly.

About an hour later I get a call from her mother saying she has been in an accident. She crashed the Porsche, yet thankfully was okay. I picked up the mother and we met her at the hospital. She tells me how sorry she is, and how this has been a life changing experience. I was simply at a loss of what to do. I stayed with her that night at the hospital, and left the next morning. We haven't spoken since.

This was certainly the most emotionally draining relationship I have had, and will always be a memory of my past. She was a troubled girl, who I certainly hope has found happiness.

What'd the mother look like?

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by someguywithanm3

Yeah, I'm writing her a note. I'm not sure what to write, but it's going to go something like, "I know you don't feel the same way I feel about you, so I'm giving you these without asking for anything in return....your friendship means a lot to me."

I'm still working on it. I'll look at your suggestions on the train ride home. Bye for now.

DO NOT SAY THAT. She does feel the same way. She just had second thoughts in the beginning, risking the friendship. But she's definitely wanting you now. I think roses are a little cliche. Any guy could give her that. If you're a true friend, you should know her better and be creative.

[******]

Originally Posted by someguywithanm3

Yeah, I'm writing her a note. I'm not sure what to write, but it's going to go something like, "I know you don't feel the same way I feel about you, so I'm giving you these without asking for anything in return....your friendship means a lot to me."

I'm still working on it. I'll look at your suggestions on the train ride home. Bye for now.

I would listen to Bimmette if I were you.

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by someguywithanm3

Yeah, I'm writing her a note. I'm not sure what to write, but it's going to go something like, "I know you don't feel the same way I feel about you, so I'm giving you these without asking for anything in return....your friendship means a lot to me."

I'm still working on it. I'll look at your suggestions on the train ride home. Bye for now.

Sounds like desperate pressure to me.

Want to buy some original poetry? "Just a smile . . . "

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by someguywithanm3

I wish I would have bet something else. Lol. She was wearing these pants on Sunday that might as well been painted on...I had to think of random aircraft and motorcycle facts to keep from my imagination from going crazy. I'm usually not a horndog, but it's been a while.

Yes, I was a gentleman and did not stare (too much).

Well done sir.

Originally Posted by bimmette

She loves you.

I'm thinking the same. This explains the comment of her regretting their sexual encounter. She didn't regret that it happened, she regretted that it wasn't under different circumstances.

Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Roses are always nice, but in my experience something personal like a handwritten card with a poem or something goes a long way.

This. Screw the roses, go for personal touch......then go for personal touches.

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by bimmette

DO NOT SAY THAT. She does feel the same way. She just had second thoughts in the beginning, risking the friendship. But she's definitely wanting you now. I think roses are a little cliche. Any guy could give her that. If you're a true friend, you should know her better and be creative.

+1

Definitely don't say that. In fact leave yourself out of the poem completely. Instead, make it about her and the wonderful qualities she has and what you like about her.

[nyalpine90]

Originally Posted by someguywithanm3

Yeah, I'm writing her a note. I'm not sure what to write, but it's going to go something like, "I know you don't feel the same way I feel about you, so I'm giving you these without asking for anything in return....your friendship means a lot to me."

I'm still working on it. I'll look at your suggestions on the train ride home. Bye for now.

Dude stop playing around be straight foward with her. She has given you plenty of signals she wants u. And here you are playing in friendzone expecting her to do more lol. Grow some balls and ask her to be your lady.

[DETRoadster]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

I'm a former tattoo artist and as always I seem to have something to say about damn near everything. Here's my opinion: Discreet and tasteful can be very sexy. To me, a dainty classy looking girl with an expensive, well thought out and executed sleeve/s are a HUGE turn-on. I think this is a turn on to me due to being a former tattooist and understanding the pain, the cost and planning that goes into it, along with the fact that seeing something like a full sleeve/s on a classy type female is confusing yet alluring. I'm guessing the same way women find men with long hair/man buns are attractive. As manly men, most guys laugh and mock the man bun but if women didn't like it, men wouldn't do it.

Now moving on the topic at hand, breast tattoos. Not a fan. It distracts from the joy of actually (finally) getting to see the breast that you have been wanting to see for whatever time frame. It's much like the anticipation of wanting to see a movie and then getting to the theater and not being able to enjoy it because someone is talking loudly through the entire film....it just draws too much attention away from the blessing you are being shown.

Pierced nipples....completely different story depending on the piercing and jewelry. Barbells through both nipples is very sexy if the breasts are proportionate and nice. Hoops/Slave jewelry (cmyx6go I can already see you googling ) on large, deflated balloon-esque type breasts simply scream old biker chick with no class and poor decision making skills. These types are typically married to old biker men with weird nicknames, wear baseball caps every second their eyes are open and say very little.



As stated above the right tattoo on the right woman is very sexy. More often than not this is rarely the case. Nasty, trashy, junk ass tattoos adorn the bodies of too many very attractive women; which in my opinion lessens their value and their potential suitors to be honest. Tattoos done in memorandum of a loved one are acceptable. The unacceptable list is as follows: Tramp stamps, neck tattoos, bear/dog paw prints anywhere, face tattoos (unless you're Mike Tyson), vulgar tattoos (be it depictions or verbiage) and the for whatever reason the very popular Browning rifle deer logo or the male/female spin off of said logo that makes a heart.....any company logo for that matter just makes you look like a mindless idiot.

Just my opinion.



Tattoos that empower the wearer by covering scar tissue from a traumatic life event such as a mastectomy I am all for. I have also seen where women have had their nipples tattoo'd back on after surgery. This also brings me to another subject that I personally find cute/hot is women that have had heart shaped areola's tattoo'd. Google it, pretty damn cute.

You know I gotta take it 1 step further. I'm such a fan of tats on women that I got a tattoo of my wife on my left sleeve that shows her tattoo on her 1/2 sleeve. That sh*t is deep man. Like a reflection of a reflection.

[Turkish Pickle]

slightly envious my man, go get em!

if you really want to be unique, and know a few of her friends, ask them a few extremely basic questions. stuff like her favorite animal, color, ice cream. only do this if you're in similar friend groups and it won't be like a random dude reaching out to learn about this girl's preferences. by doing so youre involving the friends and their imaginations too, not just the girl in question. we all know how much girls like gossip and filling in the blanks

show up with something simple like a toy animal and a hand written card with a sentence or two (don't write an essay). idk your personality but i'm the kind of guy who can find humor in anything, i wrote "i like cars", if she likes you enough (which, duh) she'll just laugh and you'll lean in for a kiss

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

slightly envious my man, go get em!

if you really want to be unique, and know a few of her friends, ask them a few extremely basic questions. stuff like her favorite animal, color, ice cream. only do this if you're in similar friend groups and it won't be like a random dude reaching out to learn about this girl's preferences. by doing so youre involving the friends and their imaginations too, not just the girl in question. we all know how much girls like gossip and filling in the blanks

show up with something simple like a toy animal and a hand written card with a sentence or two (don't write an essay). idk your personality but i'm the kind of guy who can find humor in anything, i wrote "i like cars", if she likes you enough (which, duh) she'll just laugh and you'll lean in for a kiss

I have to disagree. Don't ask friends. He is supposedly her friend plus it will get back to her and will ruin the surprise.
And the card should say "I like you, almost as much as I like my car"

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by bimmette

I have to disagree. Don't ask friends. He is supposedly her friend plus it will get back to her and will ruin the surprise.
And the card should say "I like you, almost as much as I like my car"

or do something completely unrelated to those answers
idk i haven't had someone past physical relations in a hot minute

[Alfisti]

Mate i had to wait for a girl to fly half way around the world and even then she made the first move, but even i think you're dicking around.

Move, move now. As in drive to her place and make a goddamn move.

[******]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

She didn't regret that it happened, she regretted that it wasn't Under different circumstances

Or she’s regretting that she acted like she regretted it happened... I think she’s saying doh, wtf was I thinking, that wasn’t half bad! Lol...that’s my two cents worth..

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by DETRoadster

You know I gotta take it 1 step further. I'm such a fan of tats on women that I got a tattoo of my wife on my left sleeve that shows her tattoo on her 1/2 sleeve. That sh*t is deep man. Like a reflection of a reflection.

I can't help but feel like this guy should be in this post. You dawg, I heard you like tattoos and girls with tattoos so you got a tattoo of your girl and your girls tattoo in your tattoo.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by ******

Or she’s regretting that she acted like she regretted it happened... I think she’s saying doh, wtf was I thinking, that wasn’t half bad! Lol...that’s my two cents worth..

Valid point. I personally think that she wanted it to happen and took at at whatever opportunity that she had although she would rather it happen to have a deeper meaning.

[******]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

Valid point. I personally think that she wanted it to happen and took at at whatever opportunity that she had although she would rather it happen to have a deeper meaning.

So she basically wanted him to protest when she declared it regrettable... I can see that.

[Matt@EuroJerks]

It's all a game. Run! She knows she has you on a string.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Matt@EuroJerks

It's all a game. Run! She knows she has you on a string.

All of it is a game. All women. Any woman that has a man has him on a sting of some form.

[gabriel.psd]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

All of it is a game. All women. Any woman that has a man has him on a sting of some form.

I’m on the side of thinking that sadly, men put themselves on that string.