[Germanauto]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

Yes, yes, yes.... Germanauto we'll wait.....

LOL I'm not going to share some girl's photos online.

You're all trolls [and I love it].

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

so turn of events
went in (no ghost costume, sorry), saw the shop was crowded and said "lets get my car and go to the starbucks near your place" so we went to my place to get my keys, this happened:

BOOM!!! What did I tell you??? I expect a full report in about 15 minutes.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Germanauto

LOL I'm not going to share some girl's photos online.

You're all trolls [and I love it].

Then how can you expect us to advise you on what you need to do here.







......also how are we to determine whether or not we think she's cute....er...I mean whether or not she's good enough for you.

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

BOOM!!! What did I tell you??? I expect a full report in about 15 minutes.

that was an hour ago, im chillin right now. neither of us have anything until 6pm so expect full report then

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

BOOM!!! What did I tell you??? I expect a full report in about 15 minutes.

That's a little generous on the time isn't it? I mean, even if you were accounting for the making of and subsequent consumption of a full sandwich....

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

That's a little generous on the time isn't it? I mean, even if you were accounting for the making of and subsequent consumption of a full sandwich....

Time inclusion of sammich eatery was not considered........17 minutes.....

[King Rudi]

I'm loving that this thread has progressed to real time updates with photos. Well done Bayerische Motoren Werke you are a dating thread innovator and hero!

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

I'm loving that this thread has progressed to real time updates with photos. Well done Bayerische Motoren Werke you are a dating thread innovator and hero!

Well...they are photos, but do not feature tango. So they need a little work in that regard...a snuck pic would be helpful.

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

so turn of events
went in (no ghost costume, sorry), saw the shop was crowded and said "lets get my car and go to the starbucks near your place" so we went to my place to get my keys, this happened:

You're cleaning the kitchen together? Fun!

[Joekerr]

If you look up the definition of "tease" in the dictionary, I do believe you'll find a picture of Bimmette...

[DETRoadster]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

so turn of events
went in (no ghost costume, sorry), saw the shop was crowded and said "lets get my car and go to the starbucks near your place" so we went to my place to get my keys, this happened:

Oh man, I see what happened. She took you shopping at Costco for keg cups because you left your purse behind on the counter. Damn. Hate when that happens.

[G35POPPEDMYCHERRY]

yoooo this shit is wildddd. this thread must never die. bayersherin motor works good shit; although its very diffcult to have your cake and it it too. all the best. but just remember

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

Had to look him up. Still not sure I understand. So probably not?

Movie Title. In the movie, you go thru this half-door on the landing between flights of stairs and for a short period of time, you are him. Near the end, he is so confused by all his "visitors" and finds out about the door and goes thru himself.

I think Flo stole this idea from his movies for the end of her ads where everything/one becomes Flo

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

If you look up the definition of "tease" in the dictionary, I do believe you'll find a picture of Bimmette...

Wutchu talkin bout Willis?

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by G35POPPEDMYCHERRY

yoooo this shit is wildddd. this thread must never die. bayersherin motor works good shit; although its very diffcult to have your cake and it it too. all the best. but just remember

yeah youre right, we'll see how it goes. after it was all said and done i told her that i felt like i was more invested in this than she was, she apologized and said that she'd work on that more, and told me many things about the ex. not bad things on him but how they stopped seeing each other after that one time when he returned because he confessed his love mid sex.

now im a guy that trusts people hard, and girls even harder (shoutout to being burned a lot). so im not taking her word on being completely done with the ex, but given i was physically in her a few mins after we met up today i'm believing her word since actions do kinda match her words. if youll recall, we pretty much drifted apart after the ex became a thing again, im not sticking around for that. it took very minimal effort on my end after we went into my apartment

so in an unexpected turn of events she said she'd be more closer to me emotionally as well instead of using each other for physical wants... this is VERY uncharted territory for me and i'm VERY lost. please advise.

[G35POPPEDMYCHERRY]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

yeah youre right, we'll see how it goes. after it was all said and done i told her that i felt like i was more invested in this than she was, she apologized and said that she'd work on that more, and told me many things about the ex. not bad things on him but how they stopped seeing each other after that one time when he returned because he confessed his love mid sex.

now im a guy that trusts people hard, and girls even harder (shoutout to being burned a lot). so im not taking her word on being completely done with the ex, but given i was physically in her a few mins after we met up today i'm believing her word since actions do kinda match her words. if youll recall, we pretty much drifted apart after the ex became a thing again, im not sticking around for that. it took very minimal effort on my end after we went into my apartment

so in an unexpected turn of events she said she'd be more closer to me emotionally as well instead of using each other for physical wants... this is VERY uncharted territory for me and i'm VERY lost. please advise.

cant even tell you how many times I've done the bolded only to get the talk after........i was with the baddest fillpina/italian girl and school; literally worked her for a year and i blew it. but hey you live and learn

although in ur situtation... i may be completelty wrong.... but since u said ur more invested than her... and she just brought up how she got feaked by the ex confessing "love" aka committment... it scared her away..

so maybe shes telling u all u are is a fuck buddy. some girls have the balls to just say it... she seems to be doing is subliminally...

anyways lots of mixed feelings in your case and in general nowadays in relationships because sex typically comes before dating. i dont know how it used to be; but its hard to get attracted to someone unless i kind of get to know them; regardless how hot you are...

i say just play along with it; but don't do what u normally do; or shell run as thats what caused her to run from her ex...

play it by ear, u live and learn.

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by G35POPPEDMYCHERRY

cant even tell you how many times I've done the bolded only to get the talk after........i was with the baddest fillpina/italian girl and school; literally worked her for a year and i blew it. but hey you live and learn

although in ur situtation... i may be completelty wrong.... but since u said ur more invested than her... and she just brought up how she got feaked by the ex confessing "love" aka committment... it scared her away..

so maybe shes telling u all u are is a fuck buddy. some girls have the balls to just say it... she seems to be doing is subliminally...

anyways lots of mixed feelings in your case and in general nowadays in relationships because sex typically comes before dating. i dont know how it used to be; but its hard to get attracted to someone unless i kind of get to know them; regardless how hot you are...

i say just play along with it; but don't do what u normally do; or shell run as thats what caused her to run from her ex...

play it by ear, u live and learn.

I was texting Now_Rudi about this, and honestly if all i am is a fuck buddy i'll take it bc it's fun. Issue is she's kinda chill too but that's more of a when she feels like kinda ordeal, kinda removes all of my interest because I only know her when she's feeling good, haven't really seen her "bad" side. Relationship etc is completely off the table at least until I can get a better reading of this girl.

One thing she said today was that she doesn't talk about this interesting stuff with her girl bff's which was odd, but as I said deliberating this with rudi made me realize something: I'm completely lost in my own shit and I need to figure that out before branching out on anything.

im with you on that i also need to know someone a bit better to get into a relationship. last thing i need this to become is my dynamic with her to become an oneitis kinda situation, which is weird because generally the doctor prescribes seeing other people on the side to not get caught up but i haven't been slacking on my prescription either

I don't know, I really don't know. I shouldn't be thinking about this especially with a midterm coming up tomorrow. I'm at least glad I took you guys' advice and went up to meet up with her, just wish it didn't turn out this way so I could've at least cleared my mind off it completely. Ghosting would have been the easy way out, just forget and move on kinda thing. Slightly wish that happened instead of this whole bullshit won't lie.

On the bright side, I feel like I laid out stuff pretty openly. I don't mean involved in like "i want to spend the rest of my life with you forever", but more of a "I feel like you know me more than I know you". If she does open up we'll see what happens, if she doesn't I'll ride it out until she graduates in a few months. After that who knows what'll happen, ya know? She's going to grad school in the city, I'm going to be stuck here for another year, but given not much about my future is set (I have a decent path I'm on, but nothing is set in stone yet. Don't have a job offer that starts in a year and a half) I also feel like getting caught up and thinking of the future is not doing me good when I can easily just live in the moment, at least in a relationship basis. but as a side note, I feel like not having something remotely constant is taking a toll on me because nearly the only thing that has stayed constant since my college journey has been my computer, family, a few good friends from back home and my major.

So pretty much, I think I'll continue with what I was doing. It was nice to have someone kinda regular instead of one night stands, but when that dwindled down I got caught up and started overthinking stuff. I also can't say for sure how this'll go, she might be actually sincere about what she said, or might be a very good actress. Can be either...

tldr for you lazy asses: I'm confused because I'm making myself confused by overthinking stuff. hope this doesn't sound like me rambling but if it does i can't say I'm sorry about it

jesus christ i wrote an essay, but i hope this gives those who were interested a preview into my life as of now

[******]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

I was texting Now_Rudi about this, and honestly if all i am is a fuck buddy i'll take it bc it's fun. Issue is she's kinda chill too but that's more of a when she feels like kinda ordeal, kinda removes all of my interest because I only know her when she's feeling good, haven't really seen her "bad" side. Relationship etc is completely off the table at least until I can get a better reading of this girl.

One thing she said today was that she doesn't talk about this interesting stuff with her girl bff's which was odd, but as I said deliberating this with rudi made me realize something: I'm completely lost in my own shit and I need to figure that out before branching out on anything.

im with you on that i also need to know someone a bit better to get into a relationship. last thing i need this to become is my dynamic with her to become an oneitis kinda situation, which is weird because generally the doctor prescribes seeing other people on the side to not get caught up but i haven't been slacking on my prescription either

I don't know, I really don't know. I shouldn't be thinking about this especially with a midterm coming up tomorrow. I'm at least glad I took you guys' advice and went up to meet up with her, just wish it didn't turn out this way so I could've at least cleared my mind off it completely. Ghosting would have been the easy way out, just forget and move on kinda thing. Slightly wish that happened instead of this whole bullshit won't lie.

On the bright side, I feel like I laid out stuff pretty openly. I don't mean involved in like "i want to spend the rest of my life with you forever", but more of a "I feel like you know me more than I know you". If she does open up we'll see what happens, if she doesn't I'll ride it out until she graduates in a few months. After that who knows what'll happen, ya know? She's going to grad school in the city, I'm going to be stuck here for another year, but given not much about my future is set (I have a decent path I'm on, but nothing is set in stone yet. Don't have a job offer that starts in a year and a half) I also feel like getting caught up and thinking of the future is not doing me good when I can easily just live in the moment, at least in a relationship basis. but as a side note, I feel like not having something remotely constant is taking a toll on me because nearly the only thing that has stayed constant since my college journey has been my computer, family, a few good friends from back home and my major.

So pretty much, I think I'll continue with what I was doing. It was nice to have someone kinda regular instead of one night stands, but when that dwindled down I got caught up and started overthinking stuff. I also can't say for sure how this'll go, she might be actually sincere about what she said, or might be a very good actress. Can be either...

tldr for you lazy asses: I'm confused because I'm making myself confused by overthinking stuff. hope this doesn't sound like me rambling but if it does i can't say I'm sorry about it

jesus christ i wrote an essay, but i hope this gives those who were interested a preview into my life as of now

I’m not sure you have enough red solo cups... that’s what’s missing...

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by ******

I’m not sure you have enough red solo cups... that’s what’s missing...

I'm not sure what you're alluding to, but I hope it's not finding the answers in booze because that's literally the worst advice anyone can give

edit: I realized the kitchen picture oops. Yeah, I have a lot of people over and glasses are just too hard to upkeep

[******]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

I'm not sure what you're alluding to, but I hope it's not finding the answers in booze because that's literally the worst advice anyone can give

edit: I realized the kitchen picture oops. Yeah, I have a lot of people over and glasses are just too hard to upkeep

Lol, I just thought it was funny that you had that many red solo cups... but also a very good idea!

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

[Yeah, I have a lot of people over and glasses are just too hard to upkeep

I have the same cups, and I don't even drink or have people over


As for the turn of events today... I don't even know what to say. I'm pretty sure she's confused, you're confused and I'm confused.
Whatever, you're young, have fun, don't hurt anybody's feelings and don't get her pregnant.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by bimmette

I have the same cups, and I don't even drink or have people over


As for the turn of events today... I don't even know what to say. I'm pretty sure she's confused, you're confused and I'm confused.
Whatever, you're young, have fun, don't hurt anybody's feelings and don't get her pregnant.

This.......and stay focused on school young man. People will come and go in life. Remember to stay on task, stay focused on long term goals and most importantly keep yourself sane and happy.