Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

Chihuahua · 02-24-2020, 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by aozer

turned 31 last month and feel like im kind of running out of time to meet my significant other.

ive started to branch out and meet some older women, but it turns out they are just as immature as the girls i meet that are in their mid 20s.

44, never been married. You're not ever 'out of time' to meet your significant other, that's a social construct. Keep being you, it'll happen when the time and person are right.

nyalpine90 · 02-24-2020, 09:40 AM

FuriouslyFast · 02-24-2020, 10:21 AM

Am I the only one that gets blocked in the middle of a normal conversation? WTF?

nyalpine90 · 02-24-2020, 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

Am I the only one that gets blocked in the middle of a normal conversation? WTF?

well what did u say lol

premier3is · 02-24-2020, 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

Am I the only one that gets blocked in the middle of a normal conversation? WTF?

No but I've had instances of where the convo is going well and all off a sudden the person is unmatched. I'm like wtf we were just talking.... and yes before you ask, totally normal conversation.

Turkish Pickle · 02-24-2020, 11:52 AM

Onto the next one, boys

If she won't take the time to even reply to you why should you waste your time thinking about her?

FuriouslyFast · 02-24-2020, 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by premier3is

No but I've had instances of where the convo is going well and all off a sudden the person is unmatched. I'm like wtf we were just talking.... and yes before you ask, totally normal conversation.

SMH why do we bother then?

FuriouslyFast · 02-24-2020, 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by nyalpine90

well what did u say lol

lol just normal getting to know you type talk. I don't talk sexual or send dick pics.

pennsiveguy · 02-24-2020, 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by premier3is

No but I've had instances of where the convo is going well and all off a sudden the person is unmatched. I'm like wtf we were just talking.... and yes before you ask, totally normal conversation.

She got a couple of morsels of attention from you, and that may very well be her only purpose for being on the site. She's moved on to other sources.

premier3is · 02-24-2020, 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

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Originally Posted by premier3is

No but I've had instances of where the convo is going well and all off a sudden the person is unmatched. I'm like wtf we were just talking.... and yes before you ask, totally normal conversation.

SMH why do we bother then?

Because we unfortunately are bored, horny and want to find the right lady.... and we turn to shit apps to find potential answers to our problems lol.

*so far, no luck for the most of us on here lol*

Turkish Pickle · 02-24-2020, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by premier3is

Because we unfortunately are bored, horny and want to find the right lady.... and we turn to shit apps to find potential answers to our problems lol.

*so far, no luck for the most of us on here lol*

My dude, keep yourself occupied! Have so much shit stressing you out on a daily basis that you don't even time to swipe because you stop taking your phone with you when going to the bathroom!

You know what they say, more espresso less depresso!!!

help

CTinline-six · 02-24-2020, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by pennsiveguy

She got a couple of morsels of attention from you, and that may very well be her only purpose for being on the site. She's moved on to other sources.

Yup.

I was talking to a chick recently. Met online, was texting for about a week and everything seemed to be going well, then she hits me with the "TBH, I'm a bit overwhelmed by how much you've been messaging me".

Ok, GFY.

Rmtt · 02-24-2020, 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

My dude, keep yourself occupied! Have so much shit stressing you out on a daily basis that you don't even time to swipe because you stop taking your phone with you when going to the bathroom!

You know what they say, more espresso less depresso!!!

help

If more would do this. I've been through my scenarios more than once on here....but when you really don't give a shit.....you can't get them to leave you alone!

Then that one comes along.....and you find yourself caring after awhile. Then your trapped!

pennsiveguy · 02-24-2020, 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Yup.

I was talking to a chick recently. Met online, was texting for about a week and everything seemed to be going well, then she hits me with the "TBH, I'm a bit overwhelmed by how much you've been messaging me".

Ok, GFY.

Sounds like you may be coming on a little strong, a little too soon. Pace yourself. It's not a race. If it's a good match, a relaxed pace keeps everyone calm. And if it's not a good match, rushing it won't fix it.

FuriouslyFast · 02-24-2020, 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Yup.

I was talking to a chick recently. Met online, was texting for about a week and everything seemed to be going well, then she hits me with the "TBH, I'm a bit overwhelmed by how much you've been messaging me".

Ok, GFY.

How often did you text her & did she always reply in a timely manner?

Turkish Pickle · 02-24-2020, 03:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Rmtt

If more would do this. I've been through my scenarios more than once on here....but when you really don't give a shit.....you can't get them to leave you alone!

Then that one comes along.....and you find yourself caring after awhile. Then your trapped!

I see what you're saying but I feel like I'm at a point where I don't even meet enough new people to create that attraction

Like I'm not not caring because I'm too cool it's literally because I don't even have a reason to care lol I guess I'm just unapproachable for whatever reason because I'm pretty extroverted too

CTinline-six · 02-24-2020, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by pennsiveguy

Sounds like you may be coming on a little strong, a little too soon. Pace yourself. It's not a race. If it's a good match, a relaxed pace keeps everyone calm. And if it's not a good match, rushing it won't fix it.

I'd agree but I'm not coming on strong at all haha. Very strange.

CTinline-six · 02-24-2020, 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

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Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Yup.

I was talking to a chick recently. Met online, was texting for about a week and everything seemed to be going well, then she hits me with the "TBH, I'm a bit overwhelmed by how much you've been messaging me".

Ok, GFY.

How often did you text her & did she always reply in a timely manner?

A few times a day with nothing serious lol. And yes usually she would reply right away. Even asked for snapchat.

pennsiveguy · 02-24-2020, 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by CTinline-six

A few times a day with nothing serious lol. And yes usually she would reply right away. Even asked for snapchat.

Wow, talk about mixed signals. Would be really refreshing to run into a woman candid and gutsy enough to say that they didn't think we were a good match for them because we're too good looking, too smart, too funny, too kind, and our schwantzstuckers and wallets are both are too big. But no, the gutless bitches just ghost us.

Turkish Pickle · 02-24-2020, 04:47 PM

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CTinline-six · 02-24-2020, 05:26 PM

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A few times a day with nothing serious lol. And yes usually she would reply right away. Even asked for snapchat.

Wow, talk about mixed signals. Would be really refreshing to run into a woman candid and gutsy enough to say that they didn't think we were a good match for them because we're too good looking, too smart, too funny, too kind, and our schwantzstuckers and wallets are both are too big. But no, the gutless bitches just ghost us.

The best part? She is a mental health counselor.

Joekerr · 02-24-2020, 05:37 PM

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The best part? She is a mental health counselor.

Oh, well there's your answer. She's just trying to drum up business. Can't fault her for that.

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