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View Poll Results: Infidelity
Never Cheated / Never Cheated On 47 39.50%
Never Cheated / Been Cheated On 39 32.77%
Cheated / Never Cheated On 10 8.40%
Cheated / Been Cheated On 23 19.33%
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      03-21-2011, 01:45 PM   #1
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Infidelity

writing a paper on infidelity.

please answer to which suits your situation best, thanks guys.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infidelity

surprised at how extensive the wiki article is; gl
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What is it when you break a couple up for your own personal gain?


Hypothetically speaking, that is...
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^douche bag move? lol

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What is it when you break a couple up for your own personal gain?


Hypothetically speaking, that is...
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^douche bag move? lol

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Really? ...I thought it was another "Survival of the Fittest" moves.
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What is it when you break a couple up for your own personal gain?


Hypothetically speaking, that is...
Smart move
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What is it when you break a couple up for your own personal gain?


Hypothetically speaking, that is...
A guarantee she will slob another guys joystick later when you are dating her
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A guarantee she will slob another guys joystick later when you are dating her
who said anything about dating
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"once a cheater always a cheater" do you guys think this statement is true?
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who said anything about dating
Then I feel sorry for the other guy, because she would of done it with another guy if it wasn't you. Douchebag for doing it, but not entirely to blame for it either.
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"once a cheater always a cheater" do you guys think this statement is true?
yes
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"once a cheater always a cheater" do you guys think this statement is true?
not necessarily.
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"once a cheater always a cheater" do you guys think this statement is true?
IMO, yes
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Looks like a lot of dudes got played. Am I seriously one of two dudes who have cheated but have never gotten cheated on?
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This. Unless the woman is a whore.
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"once a cheater always a cheater" do you guys think this statement is true?
Absolutely not although I'm sure that's the case most of the time.

I've cheated once a long time ago and I felt like a complete tool and vowed to never do it again.
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Absolutely not although I'm sure that's the case most of the time.

I've cheated once a long time ago and I felt like a complete tool and vowed to never do it again.
There are always exceptions to anything, but as an overall consensus I believe it to be true. Because to me cheating isnt an act, its a mindset. If you are the person who would cheat in a heartbeat but put in a location with zero chance, you wouldnt cheat, but put that person in an area where it is easy, they will. Same with a person who would never cheat, you put them in a scenario they could cheat all day, but have the mental strength and morals to turn it down, they of course wouldnt. Just because you havent cheated, doesnt mean you wouldnt if you had the chance, the chance just might have not came yet, and vice versa.

Say you and your wife in the future turn for the worse relationship wise, and the option of cheating arises, most likely you would still do it because you were able to let yourself do it in the past.

Personally, I couldnt let myself go through with it.
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There are always exceptions to anything, but as an overall consensus I believe it to be true. Because to me cheating isnt an act, its a mindset. If you are the person who would cheat in a heartbeat but put in a location with zero chance, you wouldnt cheat, but put that person in an area where it is easy, they will. Same with a person who would never cheat, you put them in a scenario they could cheat all day, but have the mental strength and morals to turn it down, they of course wouldnt. Just because you havent cheated, doesnt mean you wouldnt if you had the chance, the chance just might have not came yet, and vice versa.

Say you and your wife in the future turn for the worse relationship wise, and the option of cheating arises, most likely you would still do it because you were able to let yourself do it in the past.

Personally, I couldnt let myself go through with it.
some of my friends who's cheated says it's hard not to cheat again once you've cross that line.
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some of my friends who's cheated says it's hard not to cheat again once you've cross the line.
I imagine you get better in hiding it or making it feel more normal but I don't think it gets any easier if you have a conscious.
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There are always exceptions to anything, but as an overall consensus I believe it to be true. Because to me cheating isnt an act, its a mindset. If you are the person who would cheat in a heartbeat but put in a location with zero chance, you wouldnt cheat, but put that person in an area where it is easy, they will. Same with a person who would never cheat, you put them in a scenario they could cheat all day, but have the mental strength and morals to turn it down, they of course wouldnt. Just because you havent cheated, doesnt mean you wouldnt if you had the chance, the chance just might have not came yet, and vice versa.

Say you and your wife in the future turn for the worse relationship wise, and the option of cheating arises, most likely you would still do it because you were able to let yourself do it in the past.

Personally, I couldnt let myself go through with it.
i feel 120% the same.
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I imagine you get better in hiding it or making it feel more normal but I don't think it gets any easier if you have a conscious.
THIS! Gotta learn from your mistakes, and not repeat them again.
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