how long do u wait b4 u call

Explorer3253 · 04-09-2006, 06:45 PM

Hey...So i've been out of the dating scene for a while...just got back in and was curious..if you get a number on friday night..when is the right time to call...is it still the 72 hour rule?

BMW F22 · 04-09-2006, 06:49 PM

Tuesday or Wednesday. Thursday is too late and Monday is too desperate.

Explorer3253 · 04-09-2006, 07:06 PM

Hmm..I guess tuesday it is....I thought Monday was a safe bet..guess not =)

deutschmann59 · 04-09-2006, 07:45 PM

Yeah, there's the "desperate" stigma about calling too early. Probably tuesday is your best bet.

However, I got a number once and I was so into this girl I couldn't wait all that time. I called her the very next day and everything went ok...she wasn't weird-ed out or anything. She didn't even think I seemed desperate. She was actually glad I called her as soon as I did.

<Sigh> those were the days

Ryan@Motorwerks · 04-09-2006, 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by BMWE90

Tuesday or Wednesday. Thursday is too late and Monday is too desperate.

Thats a direct quote from Maxim

shimshimhada · 04-09-2006, 09:36 PM

Call next month.

Explorer3253 · 04-09-2006, 09:40 PM

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Originally Posted by 335e90

Thats a direct quote from Maxim

i knew i read that somewhere! lol

Explorer3253 · 04-09-2006, 09:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shimshimhada

Call next month.

yeah..i was thinking that! but then i might not get any

shimshimhada · 04-09-2006, 09:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Explorer3253

yeah..i was thinking that! but then i might not get any

Well SURELY, you aren't going to take advice from BMWE90 regarding dating.

Explorer3253 · 04-09-2006, 09:45 PM

lol..just tryen to take a concensus on whether I should call Monday, Tuesday, or my new option..next month =)

shimshimhada · 04-09-2006, 09:48 PM

What you do is month-to-month program, you get 30/31 numbers in one month, then proceed to have a number to call everyday for the next month. You're bound to get at least some hits.

BMW F22 · 04-09-2006, 09:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 335e90

Thats a direct quote from Maxim

Haha I was waiting for someone to catch this. I've been thinking about this...for a reason. So that quote is pretty much stuck in my head now.

Quote:

Originally Posted by shimshimhada

Well SURELY, you aren't going to take advice from BMWE90 regarding dating.

I knew someone was gonna get me on that.

Explorer3253 · 04-09-2006, 09:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shimshimhada

What you do is month-to-month program, you get 30/31 numbers in one month, then proceed to have a number to call everyday for the next month. You're bound to get at least some hits.

hmm..i like your thinking!! btw...that orange looks so damn good!

shimshimhada · 04-09-2006, 09:58 PM

Yeah, I made that up too, unlike...

But honestly, I'm the last person you should take advice from...regarding anything.

BMW F22 · 04-09-2006, 10:01 PM

^ it's like taking advice from an orange. HAHA

Explorer3253 · 04-09-2006, 10:10 PM

when all else fails....Bella?! help? hahahah

nabutes · 04-09-2006, 10:42 PM

From the movie Swingers:

Mike: So how long do I wait to call?
Trent: A day.
Mike: Tomorrow.
Sue: Tomorrow, then a day.
Trent: Yeah.
Mike: So two days?
Trent: Yeah, I guess you could call it that, two days.
Sue: Definitely, two days is like industry standard.
Trent: You know I used to wait two days to call anybody, but now it's like everyone in town waits two days. So I think three days is kind of money. What do you think?
Sue: Yeah, but two's enough not to look anxious.
Trent: But I think three days is kind of money. You know because you...
Mike: Yeah, but you know what, mabey I'll wait 3 weeks. How's that? And tell her I was cleaning out my wallet and I just happened to run into her number.
Charles: Then ask her where you met her.
Mike: Yeah, I'll ask her where I met her. I don't remember. What does she look like? And then I'll asked if we fucked. Is that... would that be... T, would that be the money?
Trent: You know what. Ha ha ha Mike, laugh all you want but if you call too soon you might scare off a nice baby who's ready to party.
Mike: Well how long are you guys gonna wait to call your babies?
Trent, Sue: Six days.

deutschmann59 · 04-09-2006, 10:46 PM

Ha ha ha! Then when you're going out with her, you can tell her this story from the jerk (it was on again all weekend on AMC

)

"I know we've only known each other four weeks and three days, but to me it seems like nine weeks and five days. The first day seemed like a week and the second day seemed like five days. And the third day seemed like a week again and the fourth day seemed like eight days. And the fifth day you went to see your mother and that seemed just like a day, and then you came back and later on the sixth day, in the evening, when we saw each other, that started seeming like two days, so in the evening it seemed like two days spilling over into the next day and that started seeming like four days, so at the end of the sixth day on into the seventh day, it seemed like a total of five days. And the sixth day seemed like a week and a half. I have it written down, but I can show it to you tomorrow if you want to see it. "

ward · 04-09-2006, 11:03 PM

I sure hope she's not on this board reading this thread!!

Explorer3253 · 04-09-2006, 11:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nabutes

From the movie Swingers:

Mike: So how long do I wait to call?
Trent: A day.
Mike: Tomorrow.
Sue: Tomorrow, then a day.
Trent: Yeah.
Mike: So two days?
Trent: Yeah, I guess you could call it that, two days.
Sue: Definitely, two days is like industry standard.
Trent: You know I used to wait two days to call anybody, but now it's like everyone in town waits two days. So I think three days is kind of money. What do you think?
Sue: Yeah, but two's enough not to look anxious.
Trent: But I think three days is kind of money. You know because you...
Mike: Yeah, but you know what, mabey I'll wait 3 weeks. How's that? And tell her I was cleaning out my wallet and I just happened to run into her number.
Charles: Then ask her where you met her.
Mike: Yeah, I'll ask her where I met her. I don't remember. What does she look like? And then I'll asked if we fucked. Is that... would that be... T, would that be the money?
Trent: You know what. Ha ha ha Mike, laugh all you want but if you call too soon you might scare off a nice baby who's ready to party.
Mike: Well how long are you guys gonna wait to call your babies?
Trent, Sue: Six days.

hahahahaha...thats classic!!

Explorer3253 · 04-09-2006, 11:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ward

I sure hope she's not on this board reading this thread!!

hmmm..that would be a double edged sword... one side would be happy that shes a e90 owner....but the other side would say..crap! i guess i lost the e90 owner

oc24 · 04-10-2006, 01:33 AM

it's a straight crapshoot man - all girls are different. i'd say tues/wed also

04-09-2006, 06:45 PM	#1
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BMW F22 Major General 3668 Rep 9,783 Posts Drives: ///M235i Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Bay Area iTrader: (8)	Tuesday or Wednesday. Thursday is too late and Monday is too desperate.
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Explorer3253 Lieutenant 66 Rep 557 Posts Drives: 2014 f32 Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Westchester County, NY iTrader: (4)	Hmm..I guess tuesday it is....I thought Monday was a safe bet..guess not =) __________________ '06 325Xi - Jet Black - SOLD, '08 328Xi - Jet Black, Coral, 6spd - SOLD, '07 328Xi - Jet Black, SOLD, '11 328Xi, Deep Sea Blue, Oyster/Black - SOLD '14 428XI, Alpine White, Coral, MSport, Auto, Premium, Tech, Heated Seats/Steering, Drivers Ass, Drivers+ - On Order for ED
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deutschmann59 Captain 182 Rep 737 Posts Drives: 2006 325i Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: e90post.com iTrader: (0)	Yeah, there's the "desperate" stigma about calling too early. Probably tuesday is your best bet. However, I got a number once and I was so into this girl I couldn't wait all that time. I called her the very next day and everything went ok...she wasn't weird-ed out or anything. She didn't even think I seemed desperate. She was actually glad I called her as soon as I did. <Sigh> those were the days
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shimshimhada Brigadier General 493 Rep 4,838 Posts Drives: Portal Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Portal iTrader: (2)	Call next month.
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Explorer3253 Lieutenant 66 Rep 557 Posts Drives: 2014 f32 Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Westchester County, NY iTrader: (4)	lol..just tryen to take a concensus on whether I should call Monday, Tuesday, or my new option..next month =) __________________ '06 325Xi - Jet Black - SOLD, '08 328Xi - Jet Black, Coral, 6spd - SOLD, '07 328Xi - Jet Black, SOLD, '11 328Xi, Deep Sea Blue, Oyster/Black - SOLD '14 428XI, Alpine White, Coral, MSport, Auto, Premium, Tech, Heated Seats/Steering, Drivers Ass, Drivers+ - On Order for ED
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shimshimhada Brigadier General 493 Rep 4,838 Posts Drives: Portal Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Portal iTrader: (2)	What you do is month-to-month program, you get 30/31 numbers in one month, then proceed to have a number to call everyday for the next month. You're bound to get at least some hits.
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shimshimhada Brigadier General 493 Rep 4,838 Posts Drives: Portal Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Portal iTrader: (2)	Yeah, I made that up too, unlike... But honestly, I'm the last person you should take advice from...regarding anything.
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BMW F22 Major General 3668 Rep 9,783 Posts Drives: ///M235i Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Bay Area iTrader: (8)	^ it's like taking advice from an orange. HAHA
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Explorer3253 Lieutenant 66 Rep 557 Posts Drives: 2014 f32 Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Westchester County, NY iTrader: (4)	when all else fails....Bella?! help? hahahah __________________ '06 325Xi - Jet Black - SOLD, '08 328Xi - Jet Black, Coral, 6spd - SOLD, '07 328Xi - Jet Black, SOLD, '11 328Xi, Deep Sea Blue, Oyster/Black - SOLD '14 428XI, Alpine White, Coral, MSport, Auto, Premium, Tech, Heated Seats/Steering, Drivers Ass, Drivers+ - On Order for ED
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04-09-2006, 10:42 PM	#17
nabutes career student 11 Rep 204 Posts Drives: '08 335xi Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: NJ >> VA/DC iTrader: (0)	From the movie Swingers: Mike: So how long do I wait to call? Trent: A day. Mike: Tomorrow. Sue: Tomorrow, then a day. Trent: Yeah. Mike: So two days? Trent: Yeah, I guess you could call it that, two days. Sue: Definitely, two days is like industry standard. Trent: You know I used to wait two days to call anybody, but now it's like everyone in town waits two days. So I think three days is kind of money. What do you think? Sue: Yeah, but two's enough not to look anxious. Trent: But I think three days is kind of money. You know because you... Mike: Yeah, but you know what, mabey I'll wait 3 weeks. How's that? And tell her I was cleaning out my wallet and I just happened to run into her number. Charles: Then ask her where you met her. Mike: Yeah, I'll ask her where I met her. I don't remember. What does she look like? And then I'll asked if we fucked. Is that... would that be... T, would that be the money? Trent: You know what. Ha ha ha Mike, laugh all you want but if you call too soon you might scare off a nice baby who's ready to party. Mike: Well how long are you guys gonna wait to call your babies? Trent, Sue: Six days.
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deutschmann59 Captain 182 Rep 737 Posts Drives: 2006 325i Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: e90post.com iTrader: (0)	Ha ha ha! Then when you're going out with her, you can tell her this story from the jerk (it was on again all weekend on AMC ) "I know we've only known each other four weeks and three days, but to me it seems like nine weeks and five days. The first day seemed like a week and the second day seemed like five days. And the third day seemed like a week again and the fourth day seemed like eight days. And the fifth day you went to see your mother and that seemed just like a day, and then you came back and later on the sixth day, in the evening, when we saw each other, that started seeming like two days, so in the evening it seemed like two days spilling over into the next day and that started seeming like four days, so at the end of the sixth day on into the seventh day, it seemed like a total of five days. And the sixth day seemed like a week and a half. I have it written down, but I can show it to you tomorrow if you want to see it. "
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ward Major General 161 Rep 6,158 Posts Drives: F Join Date: May 2005 Location: T iTrader: (0)	I sure hope she's not on this board reading this thread!!
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04-10-2006, 01:33 AM	#22
oc24 Lieutenant Colonel 189 Rep 1,853 Posts Drives: White Lightning Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Agrestic iTrader: (2)	it's a straight crapshoot man - all girls are different. i'd say tues/wed also __________________ 2008 335i
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