ANOTHER relationship question

Robin_NL · 06-02-2006, 10:35 AM

Here is another one. My ex still calls me. I don't respond.

Next. Another date I had a while back wants to go out with me next week. Her sister is there too(keep on guessing guys LOL) and it's just for the fun of it, having a nice time etc. I said yes. No worries. Just like friends.(but we already had some things going on in the past.No further details

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LISTEN:
My real GF lives in Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic. I'm going to see here this august/september. I really am crazy about her. Serious.Period.

Should I tell her this or is it better not to tell her(she can be very jealouse) and we call eachother like 2 times a week and pm eachother almost every day.

My opinion:No. Just for our sake(nothing happened and nothing will)

NEXT:
This morning I had an appointment with a client. 4 years ago she moved to The Hague to live there. She is from Vietnamese/Japanese descent and she is a hottie.

Back then she told me about her problems with her(now ex) husband.

After our chitchat we were againtalking about relationships. Her 'new' friend(from the UK) is very dominant. She is too soft(culture?)she said. Her Dutch GFs told her to get rid of him blablabla.But they have a baby. She has left him before. She sometimes goes on a holiday to Hanoi where she posesses a few houses etc. I told her I want to go to Asia sometimes. EDIT
She wants me to go with her to Vietnam for 2 weeks on a holiday.Just as friends

EDIT I told her that 4 years ago when she was struggling with her relationship and she gave me her phone number I was too afraid to call her. She said: "Why didn't you do that in the first place...." aaaah

What?.

Squawks · 06-02-2006, 11:44 AM

If you truly love Shary you'll know what to do. You have two heads - and you can only use one.

Curt3s · 06-02-2006, 03:51 PM

Bang them all.

aapriadi · 06-02-2006, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Curt3s

Bang them all.

Saosin17 · 06-02-2006, 04:19 PM

you go out on the friend date. dont say anything unless something sexual happens, in which case the best thing to do is be honest, when ure not, trust me, it almost always comes back to fuck you. DO NOT go on the vacation however, there is no fucking way that you can explain that to a jealous person and have them understand.

Squawks · 06-02-2006, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Saosin17

be honest, when ure not, trust me, it almost always comes back to fuck you.

What always comes back? The girls? Hey, that doesn't sound too bad afterall, then!

Ok, the joking has to subside a bit...

Saosin17 · 06-02-2006, 04:32 PM

the act, not the girl, if it was the girl it wouldnt be sooo bad haha. but just one thing. if she is jealous... remember john bobbit????

Robin_NL · 06-03-2006, 02:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Saosin17

remember john bobbit????

Yep, and I remember Dick Turpin too

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Robin_NL S0THPAW 8996 Rep 7,867 Posts Drives: HS M2 Competition Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: The Netherlands iTrader: (0)	ANOTHER relationship question Here is another one. My ex still calls me. I don't respond. Next. Another date I had a while back wants to go out with me next week. Her sister is there too(keep on guessing guys LOL) and it's just for the fun of it, having a nice time etc. I said yes. No worries. Just like friends.(but we already had some things going on in the past.No further details ) LISTEN: My real GF lives in Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic. I'm going to see here this august/september. I really am crazy about her. Serious.Period. Should I tell her this or is it better not to tell her(she can be very jealouse) and we call eachother like 2 times a week and pm eachother almost every day. My opinion:No. Just for our sake(nothing happened and nothing will) NEXT: This morning I had an appointment with a client. 4 years ago she moved to The Hague to live there. She is from Vietnamese/Japanese descent and she is a hottie. Back then she told me about her problems with her(now ex) husband. After our chitchat we were againtalking about relationships. Her 'new' friend(from the UK) is very dominant. She is too soft(culture?)she said. Her Dutch GFs told her to get rid of him blablabla.But they have a baby. She has left him before. She sometimes goes on a holiday to Hanoi where she posesses a few houses etc. I told her I want to go to Asia sometimes. EDIT She wants me to go with her to Vietnam for 2 weeks on a holiday.Just as friends EDIT I told her that 4 years ago when she was struggling with her relationship and she gave me her phone number I was too afraid to call her. She said: "Why didn't you do that in the first place...." aaaah What?. __________________ 'I won't say anything 'cause no one listens to me anyway....I might as well be a Leonard Cohen record' -Neill
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Squawks One of my two dachshunds: 56 Rep 663 Posts Drives: B6 A4 3.0 Quattro Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Ithaca, NY iTrader: (0)	If you truly love Shary you'll know what to do. You have two heads - and you can only use one. __________________ I'm sorry about my outlandish behavior - there's too much blood in my alcohol system.
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Saosin17 Private First Class 35 Rep 138 Posts Drives: e90 330i Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: baltimore iTrader: (0)	you go out on the friend date. dont say anything unless something sexual happens, in which case the best thing to do is be honest, when ure not, trust me, it almost always comes back to fuck you. DO NOT go on the vacation however, there is no fucking way that you can explain that to a jealous person and have them understand.
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Saosin17 Private First Class 35 Rep 138 Posts Drives: e90 330i Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: baltimore iTrader: (0)	the act, not the girl, if it was the girl it wouldnt be sooo bad haha. but just one thing. if she is jealous... remember john bobbit????
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