09-12-2024, 11:54 AM | #23 | |
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How old are you? Once I got into my late 30s, age really catches up with you, even if you're in great shape. Muscle mass is pretty easy to maintain, but ligaments just aren't the same and they are at a much higher risk of injury. When you get into your late 40s, then you start to lose muscle mass and chances of injury increase dramatically. Your best bet is to keep moving, exercise, and eat well. I no longer lift heavy. It's all 50% max and below. High rep; lots of full body, no weight stuff; and stretching.
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09-12-2024, 12:01 PM | #24 | |
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Based on your experiences what would you do in my case? I also have two young kids and want nothing to stop me from being able to play hard with them as they get older. I want to be a good role model eating well and going to the gym multiple times a week to maintain good a athletic physique. |
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09-12-2024, 12:05 PM | #25 | |
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Also, did it detach completely? I don’t recall seeing that but I could be mistaken. A tear does not necessarily mean it’s detached - big difference. lastly, surgeries are never guaranteed to work and always come with an inherent risk. As someone who has partially torn a pec when doing bench press I can tell you there is no loss in strength and only a mild “deformity” when exercising and even then it’s such that most would never notice. Let’s not suddenly say he will look like Quasimodo if he doesn’t get surgery. My comment is more on the risks associated with the surgery than the outright cost - but I was tired I could have explained that more. |
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09-12-2024, 12:32 PM | #28 | |
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I'm a thinker and engineer so I analyze the living crap out of everything. My 5th metatarsal breaks absolutely required surgeries as the bone would never really heal and would likely break many more times. For my shoulders, I researched and asked friends who had surgery and those that passed. Not sure what your doctor said, but when it came to my shoulders, the doctors said that based on the MRI, "It appears to be a tear. We'd like to do surgery and see what's torn or needs fixing". That's the same thing that my other friends were told prior to their surgeries. I'm not a fan of going in blind with the hopes of maybe fixing something. Probably the most convincing thing to me was my discussions with a dad on my daughters club VB team who is a PT with 20 years+ of experience. He said he tracks those that do surgery vs those that don't do surgery when it comes to upper body and lower body/knee ligament tears, what he's seen is that for many people, PT is just as successful if not more successful than surgery. He also said that people need to understand that once you have a serious injury after 30, you'll never quite be the same, surgery or not. I totally agree. With my foot injuries, I must wear ankle wraps and have lost some flexibility in my lower legs/ankles. That has reduced my vertical leap by a few inches and reduced my first step a bit. With my shoulders, I don't quite have the pop on my hit. It is what it is. At least I can still compete. If lifting is your passion and the surgery has a high success rate, then I'd probably go that direction. I would have spent countless hours researching though. LOL. With all that said, YOU MUST follow what the doc's and PT say. Give it time to heal and be patient. With my foot surgeries, I was no load bearing for 6 very long weeks each time, then 2 months in a boot, and then another 3 months of walking before I could do competitive sports. I did everything they told to and I was cleared to play earlier than originally told.
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09-12-2024, 01:43 PM | #29 | |
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But separately and not directed to you, it is amazing how many people in the US bitch about $20 copays and ignore their health (and then blame physicians for their poor health) while blowing $20 a day at Starbucks (the antithesis of good health). To me $5k is cheap for life altering treatment...ever been to BMW dealers for routine service lol. |
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09-12-2024, 02:38 PM | #30 |
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Deformation that will occur from full detachment is enough to get the surgery done.
Will he be able to look at himself in the mirror every day and accept this? We don't know. Loss of strength overloads and over devlelops other regions. OP already knows what he needs to do, and that is surgery 100%. |
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09-12-2024, 05:57 PM | #31 | |
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Not opposed to surgery when necessary but to state he must do so is not necessarily accurate. |
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09-12-2024, 10:34 PM | #32 | |
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I can still move mostly fine for daily stuff because the arm moves due to other muscles and the clavicular pec muscle. I just supposedly loose pressing strength without the sternal attachment to the humerus. Only a week out from injury I haven’t tried doing pushups or anything. It’s still a little painful and can’t put my arm straight over my head or super far behind my back without pain. |
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09-13-2024, 09:36 AM | #33 |
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FWIW, I would get the surgery if it's fully detached. It ain't going to magically reattach without surgery. And I'm an anti-surgery guy.
One of my injuries is a torn labrum, like some others have also said they have. Another is herniation of my L5-S1 disc, and another is chronic bursitis in my left hip. I can't bench or OHP, bicep curl, or squat the weight that I used to. I'm probably at 50% of my top game. Some of that is surely due to age and lifestyle, to be fair. I was fairly depressed about it and finally came to terms with it after a few years. Now the name of the game is to be happy I can even perform those lifts, even if the pain requires me to bail out sooner/lighter than I would like. I still "carry an athletic build" - it doesn't take much to look good when the vast majority of people don't lift. You need to decide how important it is to you to move weight in the gym, really. I'm 40, for reference. The other point I'll make is that I wouldn't count on being back to 100% with the surgery, either. You are surgically repaired - not the same as you were 3 weeks ago. You're not a professional athlete who will spend 100's of thousands and infinite time rehabbing. Presumably you have a job, family, obligations, etc. Manage your expectations as you make the decision. In any case, best wishes either way. Injuries suck! |
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Holy shit. Doctor just called me day before surgery and said he was studying the MRI more and reviewed with the radiologist and they think while it’s a significant size tear it’s focal in the sense it’s not a complete detachment… therefore we can post pone surgery and see how I do with PHysical Therapy first for 4 weeks
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09-16-2024, 10:19 AM | #37 |
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As I said earlier, when considering surgery always get a second opinion. Glad your doctor decided to take a closer look at the imaging before he cut you open.
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