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      03-16-2016, 11:55 AM   #243
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At least it wasn't a purple drank/grape soda black people joke.



Don't mind the plates.
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      03-16-2016, 11:58 AM   #244
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At least it wasn't a purple drank/grape soda black people joke.



Don't mind the plates.
Dammit. I forgot I was racist. My people are going to revoke my card now...

I thought maybe the plate was missing a T

TURNTUP
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      03-16-2016, 12:00 PM   #245
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Dammit. I forgot I was racist. My people are going to revoke my card now...

I thought maybe the plate was missing a T

TURNTUP
I ordered it without the extra T, and it's a good thing I did, because I saw a Scion FRS () with the TURNTUP plates.


My plates are more a request/invitation, as opposed to a declaration of drunkenness. Fitting for a ruined BMW.
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And it will NOT be receiving any sort of ridiculous stance treatment. The 335i actually didn't last very long in this stage.
Sounds lame :
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Since you probably hadn't seen her since you rolled her fenders many years ago. Had some bubble lipped RS's built and ran them for a couple months before I got tired of not being able to drive normally.
Unfriend.
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      03-16-2016, 12:06 PM   #248
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Sounds lame :
Lol you should have seen how I had to maneuver that damn car. 18x11 et11 and 18x12 et11. Even on 16kg/28.5kg rates from Broadway Static, it was a dead mission....just like anywhere I tried to go, reasonably.
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It was a phase. #noghey
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      03-16-2016, 12:09 PM   #250
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      03-16-2016, 12:11 PM   #251
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Can you not read? I clearly said I'd say yes to anything he got me shit I'd say yes to a ringpop. All I said was if I wanted to help purchase something I would like to see on my finger I don't see anything wrong with that I'm not putting it all on his shoulders kinda a win win if you ask me but you're entitled to your opinions as well

What if your significant other wanted to buy you a car and she could only afford a 320i but you'd really like to be in a m3 and you choose to put some of your money into the purchase now with her money and your money you get an m3. Sounds good to me
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I would like to input a woman's opinion, I read through most of the comments telling him to dump her if she wants an expensive nice ring. I disagree This is something she will wear on her finger every day for the rest of her life it should be what she wants,
Didn't want your head bit off, you should've simply posted the latter portion of your post there. The "buts" afterward mean precisely crap to me. This first part told me everything about how you truly feel.
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      03-16-2016, 12:30 PM   #253
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Did you buy the car out right? did you buy a house out right with cash? if the answer to those is a no then they are irrelevant.

You can't compare those thing together. The only time I pay attention to money spent ratio is for the house. I won't spend 3k on the m3 and then cheap out on things the house needs. example while I was gone the washer went out. So I bought a platinum whirl pool set of washer and dryer for the house.

If the amount you spend on a hobby you love is compared to that of a ring which is suppose to stand for something else you need to take notice.

But if you are willing to spend 15k for a watch and not a ring then I could see her point. but again a ring is a gift, the price of it isn't the point.
This, my friend. I would prioritize the ring than the watch and parts for the car.
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Dude! I was on the waiting list for an M2 and dealers across the nation are haggling! Like, $10-15K atop MSRP WTF! So I said screw that and switched my deposit to place an order for an F80.


Needless to say, I'm much happier now. And it will NOT be receiving any sort of ridiculous stance treatment. The 335i actually didn't last very long in this stage.
Word. I've been over the stance game for a while. Now I'm in the diamond game lol. I parted my car out in prep to sell it, but decided to keep it as it's a perfect daily, though I do miss my KWs. I drove a customer's 2016 M3 and omg they're awesome. Enjoy!
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OP, you may never be able to keep up with the lifestyle to which she is accustom. If the two of you are not in sync with that reality there will be problems. Building a happy, healthy, loving relationships is hard enough without throwing money issues/lifestyle expectations into the mix.

If she is not ready to live a less luxurious life and be okay with it, including not worrying about what her family thinks and what her friends think, then you are in for misery. If you get her a high quality 1ct ring it's less than $10k. If she is troubled by that, the issues I mentioned will magnify as the marriage heads toward the the highly-likely crash.

I recommend you sit down with her and share discuss this issue like two grown ups. Buying a ridiculously expensive ring is not about showing your love, its about showing off. If she is embarrassed socially by a smaller than expected ring, that is really only just the beginning of the issues.

Better yet, go through the responses to to your post with her and discuss in detail. You will quickly get an idea where her head is at by her reaction to the advice you are getting from your caring BMW friends.

Whatever you decide, good luck!
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Word. I've been over the stance game for a while. Now I'm in the diamond game lol. I parted my car out in prep to sell it, but decided to keep it as it's a perfect daily, though I do miss my KWs. I drove a customer's 2016 M3 and omg they're awesome. Enjoy!
Haha, nice! Sounds good man, your car was very clean from what I remember of it. At least you're still around the car/BMW scene, somewhat.

The new BMW's are indeed something else. It was good to hear from you!
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      03-16-2016, 02:27 PM   #258
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Man I'm way late to this thread and I'm going to have fun reading it.
This brainwashing herd mentality about diamond rings really gets on my ***s.
Plus the whole, 'oh but her husband did this and she has that and they asked me why i don't have this and why you only did this...' blah blah blah!

I can see where this is going to go.

Couldn't help thinking when seeing this image though that I hope it's always the guy in the back who ejects first!
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Didn't want your head bit off, you should've simply posted the latter portion of your post there. The "buts" afterward mean precisely crap to me. This first part told me everything about how you truly feel.
glad you know how I truly feel, I wonder how you got into my heart/head to figure that out. Sorry but you know nothing you're simply just assuming I'm a gold digging spoiled b*tch who wants all the nice things in life provided by some guy.
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glad you know how I truly feel, I wonder how you got into my heart/head to figure that out. Sorry but you know nothing you're simply just assuming I'm a gold digging spoiled b*tch who wants all the nice things in life provided by some guy.
Nah. Not even that much effort to understand you, but your generosity in assuming some level of sincerity is heartwarming.
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Should have taken picture with owner. With that kind of aesthetic taste, she was probably pretty.
Yeah? Pretty what?!?!!
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^ "Well, why didn't you ask in the Merc forums?"
No need...from the, 'What other forums are talking about', thread:


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Technically any assets and debts brought into the marriage belong to the person that brought it into the marriage. Whether you won a million bucks in the lottery or you owe a million bucks going into the marriage, that's yours alone and your spouse doesn't get half a million bucks nor does she have to pay half a million if you get divorced.

Once you're married it's a different story when it comes to money made while you're married or debts incurred while you're married, unless you have a prenup.

I'll never have joint finances again, it cost me way too much in my last divorce.
Are you married? Do you have a prenup? If yes to being married, still not following how you keep the finances separated and how big bills/purchases work. Kids are going to college, honey I need your portion? Then she says sorry because she hasn't been saving anything?

I think the amount of money/debt you brought into the marriage and what happens when you divorce depends on where you live, the prenup and how long you were together.
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