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04-07-2006, 05:10 PM | #25 |
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To those that say be nice and caring etc. obviously miss the distinction between insulting someone and setting standards for yourself. Plus you have to accept reality and move away from the ideals of a utopian world. What works works. These are the same people that say money doesn't bring happiness, etc.
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Society is based on a series of social interactions, causing the results of those interactions to program one's mind. If one method of character yields considerably higher results than another, how is it in anybody's best interest to go against it?
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Why the hell did you ask us to critique your character if you're gonna come up w/ all kinds of rebuttles for every individual that disagrees your actions? Get over yourself first, then get over it.
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04-07-2006, 05:27 PM | #34 |
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It's fine to play games and have "strategies" and "tactics" when you are young (to a limit).
But when you are ready to have a meaningful, long-term relationship, you'd be wise to just be yourself. Otherwise, you're going to wake up one day when you're 40 with a lot of notches in your belt and nobody next to you.
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04-07-2006, 05:42 PM | #35 |
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its funny were a bunch of guys talking about how/what women like/dislike. and its funny people are getting heated over this.
where are our three (i think?) resident girls on the board? lets here what they have to say. to me i think its pretty simple... girls want what they cant have. its in their nature to compete. and slubu is just "playing the game." and that shouldnt really refelct on his character. its just how things are weather we like it or not. its just adopting to the enviornment. hes not in his 40's or anything he's young let him have his fun. and im not saying 40 is old im just saying they have different priorities. and thats his game. and we all have ours. some are similar and some are different. but we all have the same goal. whats the big deal? |
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04-07-2006, 05:48 PM | #37 |
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Maybe people have had bad experiences with all this fake, plastic, game-playing, BS?
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but if there was someone to blame its all those damn girls...damn evil girls, looking all good. and dont even get me started with alcohol and dating... ...you know who invented beer right? an ugly girl. |
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I guess I'll chime in here. It's cool to tease a girl but not pick on her all the time. You dont wanna be nice all the time cus they'll walk all over you. As for when she asked you whether you've cleaned your house to impress her, you coulda been a little nicer. I've heard a lot about these "games" people are playing but I've never seen it played out. Im personally not a fan of these "games". Unless you're in it for the thrill, there's no point of playing it. It's all fun and games 'til somebody gets hurt.
PS- Seems like Slubu doesnt care/doesnt want to get into anything serious. He's just going with the flow. |
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04-07-2006, 06:06 PM | #41 |
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--Many young women make dramatic changes in their self-images and their behavior. Carol Gilligan, a Harvard researcher, has called this process "hitting the wall," which is made of blocks containing all the negative messages young women receive from society about their bodies, their minds, and their worth. Through this process, they begin to recognize that the world functions in terms of power dynamics and that it is women who do not possess the power (Debold, Wilson, and Malave 1993, p. 14).--
Thats great - lets keep women down by treating them how they have been treated for thousands of years. Maybe you are mature enough to imagine it was your daughter that was dating someone like you - do you really think what you are doing is right. I personally think you are experiencing cognitive dissonance - hence the post here for validation. |
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04-07-2006, 06:07 PM | #42 | |
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I never told you to stop or advised against it. I don't knock anyone trying to hustle. I just think you're way to happy with yourself over something so minor. I just don't think it's notable, no big deal.
If it worked for you, isn't that all that matters? Why do you need anyone else to critique you? Like I said, just sounds like your all too happy over something so little. Take is easy there playa. Bottom line, you only got what she was willing to give. As much as we men like to think we're in the driver seat, the girl gets the final say. That's why I think you should get over it already. Just do it. There's no parade for you here. Btw, you're in Newport so trust it that you check out Peirce St. Annex? Total meat market and you'd understand that what you're doing is no big deal. |
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