depressed

PLAYON · 01-10-2009, 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Bmoney2K4

MALE, of course.

are you drinking right now?

Bobby_Light · 01-10-2009, 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Bmoney2K4

just google it, effects of masturbation or search on yahoo. I do eat and sleep. I'm just trying to not drink anymore, too. I don't want to gain any more weight. I wish I were150 again.

Do you eat well though? Or is it fast food, soda, junk, etc.?

Blake · 01-10-2009, 08:41 PM

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Originally Posted by MCMLXXXIX

i just dont know how people on this site can help you if you cant help us understand your situation better

http://www.m3post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=197755

BMWM3DREAM · 01-10-2009, 08:41 PM

Thanks for the reply. It's good to find people here with integrity and class.

BMWM3DREAM · 01-10-2009, 08:42 PM

No, I'm not drinking. I'm really not a big drinker but I have had some bad situations that normal people have been through happen to me.

Shazmonkee · 01-10-2009, 08:43 PM

What am I depressed about... Hmm.. I have different levels of this "depression", but if you're talking about your level, I don't have any. I was once in that state, but I managed to straighten that out by fully dedicating myself to change.

Although, I'm not exactly sure why you're depressed. You did say "because society will never accept me", but that could honestly be anything..acception varies from culture to culture as well--if you're really in LA, I'm very curious as to what it is about you that society can't accept because I've practically seen everything in LA.. o_O

BMWM3DREAM · 01-10-2009, 08:45 PM

I basically feel like I have no control and make poor eating choices. My weight gain is a result of trying to hide myself and not get attention from people. I guess I have acted dumb but I don't learn do I?

Shazmonkee · 01-10-2009, 08:45 PM

So your depression is from the fact that you're overweight?

BMWM3DREAM · 01-10-2009, 08:47 PM

No, the weight gain is a symtom but has also become another cause of depression and worry.

Shazmonkee · 01-10-2009, 08:48 PM

Sorry if I'm to make quick judgments, but honestly, if anyone's to at least point you in a direction, we need to know what it is exactly that's making you depressed. I don't want to be the one to tell you to do this or that, but I'm curious--and there are probably plenty of places in SoCal that could help you.

BMWM3DREAM · 01-10-2009, 08:48 PM

In all seriousness, Im in really big trouble, I mean think of the most embarassing things. I have a long list, what can I say? Who can I talk to? Why would I be lying, spending my days on the internet and lying to people for what--there is nothing to lie about the truth always comes out

radix · 01-10-2009, 08:49 PM

OP, since you've been depressed for months now and nothing seems to be working, try this. For everything you do, decide what you are going to do via your normal decision making process, then do the opposite (within reason). Keep going to your shrink. Run this idea by your shrink and see what he/she thinks.

E.g. if you're wondering should I stay inside or should I go out... the depressed part of you will almost certainly decide on staying in. Overrule that part of you that came to that decision and go out anyway. Give it a try, if you're not happy with who you are, try being someone else for a while.

Shazmonkee · 01-10-2009, 08:51 PM

We're not saying that you're lying or making anything up--as you can tell there are some very concerned people on here because depression isn't something to tease someone about--but, honestly, this isn't the place that you should be coming to for help.

BMWM3DREAM · 01-10-2009, 08:52 PM

Incredible shame, man, I dont know how what else to say...real hurt not just bs real...

BMWM3DREAM · 01-10-2009, 08:52 PM

i just need to hear anything reassuring, thats all even any of you hate what i have to say, thats okay. im trying to be honest...

Shazmonkee · 01-10-2009, 08:56 PM

Well life is how you make it. That's how I live my life. I'm more of an optimist (of course I know when I need to be realistic as well), so I try to see the brighter side of life, which includes going out as much as possible, keeping myself busy, meeting new people, etc. etc. Of course, I do give myself some solitude to give myself some time to myself to think, but it's not what i do all the time. I gotta go now, but I hope everything gets better for you. Everything can be okay...but it's how you make it.

Spoolin335 · 01-10-2009, 09:13 PM

how old are you? whats so embarrassing? small dick?

whatever!

go to the gym lose that flubber, and hit on some hotties while your at it.
sitting at home all day is not going to help you.
join some sport teams, anything to get out into society. its not society thats not accepting you, its you thats not fitting into society.

ie. if you like eating people, and the rest of the world doesnt, does that mean society is not accepting that? or you are just fucked up?

i dunno man, theres no reason to be depressed! you live in the states LA to be exact, there is way worse places to be. you could be drinking water from a fucking bucket, living in a mud hut. you always have summer, hot days, beaches, hot chicks, fuck what else do you need man? its -20C and cold as shit her, i wish i could have summer all the time.
if your depressed when its nice out, id hate for you to live through winter. gloomy, and cold for 4-6 months!

you drive 50K$ cars, and probably live in a nice place. grow up and stop acting like everyone hates you. life is unfair, get over it.

samwoo2go · 01-10-2009, 09:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Spoolin335

how old are you? whats so embarrassing? small dick?

whatever!

go to the gym lose that flubber, and hit on some hotties while your at it.
sitting at home all day is not going to help you.
join some sport teams, anything to get out into society. its not society thats not accepting you, its you thats not fitting into society.

ie. if you like eating people, and the rest of the world doesnt, does that mean society is not accepting that? or you are just fucked up?

i dunno man, theres no reason to be depressed! you live in the states LA to be exact, there is way worse places to be. you could be drinking water from a fucking bucket, living in a mud hut. you always have summer, hot days, beaches, hot chicks, fuck what else do you need man? its -20C and cold as shit her, i wish i could have summer all the time.
if your depressed when its nice out, id hate for you to live through winter. gloomy, and cold for 4-6 months!

you drive 50K$ cars, and probably live in a nice place. grow up and stop acting like everyone hates you. life is unfair, get over it.

dude you would make a horrible shrink man

PLAYON · 01-10-2009, 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Bmoney2K4

i just need to hear anything reassuring, thats all even any of you hate what i have to say, thats okay. im trying to be honest...

As my dad used to say, "You want me to give you something to cry about". . .

that would always snap me out of my temper tantrum. . .you just need a figure like that in your life. . .personally i'm not into that S&M type stuff but if you contact a guy name "Blake" he'll take care of you.

josephr25 · 01-10-2009, 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by samwoo2go

dude you would make a horrible shrink man

He has a point though... there's much worse than the OP's situation.

The OP just needs to stop feeling sorry for himself. To OP, get to the gym... take a cardio kickboxing class... if you're really hungry snack on a banana or some almonds... maintain a good diet and limit yourself to maybe one cheat meal (something like pizza or a cheeseburger) to once a week. Most important, stick to a plan, regardless if it sucks donkey balls. To kickstart everything, pick up a copy of Men's Health. I did all this and was able to lose 20 lbs although I am not done yet... I was at an average weight for my size but I want to push myself for that "perfect" weight. Rewards are much sweeter with more sacrifice put in.

Don't worry about what other people think either (within reason).

EURpower · 01-10-2009, 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Bmoney2K4

i just need to hear anything reassuring, thats all even any of you hate what i have to say, thats okay. im trying to be honest...

I'm not telling you to run away from your problems, but take some time away the surroundings that are making you depressed. Take a vacation somewhere out of the states, and out of your comfort zone. I remember going to Egypt last summer, and it really made me appreciate life a lot more.

Spoolin335 · 01-10-2009, 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted by samwoo2go

dude you would make a horrible shrink man

yah i guess im not very sympathetic. but neither is most of the population.

01-10-2009, 08:41 PM	#26
BMWM3DREAM Captain 201 Rep 904 Posts Drives: 2016 535i Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Los Angeles, California iTrader: (0)	Thanks for the reply. It's good to find people here with integrity and class.
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01-10-2009, 08:42 PM	#27
BMWM3DREAM Captain 201 Rep 904 Posts Drives: 2016 535i Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Los Angeles, California iTrader: (0)	No, I'm not drinking. I'm really not a big drinker but I have had some bad situations that normal people have been through happen to me.
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01-10-2009, 08:43 PM	#28
Shazmonkee 115 Rep 2,455 Posts Drives: BMW E92 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: United States iTrader: (11) Garage List 2007 BMW 328i E92 C ... [0.00]	What am I depressed about... Hmm.. I have different levels of this "depression", but if you're talking about your level, I don't have any. I was once in that state, but I managed to straighten that out by fully dedicating myself to change. Although, I'm not exactly sure why you're depressed. You did say "because society will never accept me", but that could honestly be anything..acception varies from culture to culture as well--if you're really in LA, I'm very curious as to what it is about you that society can't accept because I've practically seen everything in LA.. o_O
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01-10-2009, 08:45 PM	#29
BMWM3DREAM Captain 201 Rep 904 Posts Drives: 2016 535i Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Los Angeles, California iTrader: (0)	I basically feel like I have no control and make poor eating choices. My weight gain is a result of trying to hide myself and not get attention from people. I guess I have acted dumb but I don't learn do I?
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Shazmonkee 115 Rep 2,455 Posts Drives: BMW E92 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: United States iTrader: (11) Garage List 2007 BMW 328i E92 C ... [0.00]	So your depression is from the fact that you're overweight?
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01-10-2009, 08:47 PM	#31
BMWM3DREAM Captain 201 Rep 904 Posts Drives: 2016 535i Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Los Angeles, California iTrader: (0)	No, the weight gain is a symtom but has also become another cause of depression and worry.
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01-10-2009, 08:48 PM	#32
Shazmonkee 115 Rep 2,455 Posts Drives: BMW E92 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: United States iTrader: (11) Garage List 2007 BMW 328i E92 C ... [0.00]	Sorry if I'm to make quick judgments, but honestly, if anyone's to at least point you in a direction, we need to know what it is exactly that's making you depressed. I don't want to be the one to tell you to do this or that, but I'm curious--and there are probably plenty of places in SoCal that could help you.
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01-10-2009, 08:49 PM	#34
radix you know he kills little girls like you 398 Rep 892 Posts Drives: - Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: - iTrader: (0)	OP, since you've been depressed for months now and nothing seems to be working, try this. For everything you do, decide what you are going to do via your normal decision making process, then do the opposite (within reason). Keep going to your shrink. Run this idea by your shrink and see what he/she thinks. E.g. if you're wondering should I stay inside or should I go out... the depressed part of you will almost certainly decide on staying in. Overrule that part of you that came to that decision and go out anyway. Give it a try, if you're not happy with who you are, try being someone else for a while.
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01-10-2009, 08:51 PM	#35
Shazmonkee 115 Rep 2,455 Posts Drives: BMW E92 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: United States iTrader: (11) Garage List 2007 BMW 328i E92 C ... [0.00]	We're not saying that you're lying or making anything up--as you can tell there are some very concerned people on here because depression isn't something to tease someone about--but, honestly, this isn't the place that you should be coming to for help.
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01-10-2009, 08:52 PM	#36
BMWM3DREAM Captain 201 Rep 904 Posts Drives: 2016 535i Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Los Angeles, California iTrader: (0)	Incredible shame, man, I dont know how what else to say...real hurt not just bs real...
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01-10-2009, 08:56 PM	#38
Shazmonkee 115 Rep 2,455 Posts Drives: BMW E92 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: United States iTrader: (11) Garage List 2007 BMW 328i E92 C ... [0.00]	Well life is how you make it. That's how I live my life. I'm more of an optimist (of course I know when I need to be realistic as well), so I try to see the brighter side of life, which includes going out as much as possible, keeping myself busy, meeting new people, etc. etc. Of course, I do give myself some solitude to give myself some time to myself to think, but it's not what i do all the time. I gotta go now, but I hope everything gets better for you. Everything can be okay...but it's how you make it.
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Spoolin335 Justin Herass 359 Rep 1,205 Posts Drives: X6M / M3 Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Canada iTrader: (7) Garage List 2015 BMW M3 [0.00] 2012 Audi TTRS [10.00] 2012 BMW X6M [9.00] 2007 BMW 335i [9.00]	how old are you? whats so embarrassing? small dick? whatever! go to the gym lose that flubber, and hit on some hotties while your at it. sitting at home all day is not going to help you. join some sport teams, anything to get out into society. its not society thats not accepting you, its you thats not fitting into society. ie. if you like eating people, and the rest of the world doesnt, does that mean society is not accepting that? or you are just fucked up? i dunno man, theres no reason to be depressed! you live in the states LA to be exact, there is way worse places to be. you could be drinking water from a fucking bucket, living in a mud hut. you always have summer, hot days, beaches, hot chicks, fuck what else do you need man? its -20C and cold as shit her, i wish i could have summer all the time. if your depressed when its nice out, id hate for you to live through winter. gloomy, and cold for 4-6 months! you drive 50K$ cars, and probably live in a nice place. grow up and stop acting like everyone hates you. life is unfair, get over it.
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