If I take a woman to the gym with me...

BForbes · 11-23-2009, 10:25 AM

Does that send the signal that I'm into her?

I mean a girl would be pretty useless spotting a 1XX lb weight over my upper body.

dr.jay · 11-23-2009, 10:33 AM

Hmmmm, I met a girl once at a club, the next day I was going to the gym and jokingly I asked if she wanted to come along... she did and I fucked her after at her place(showered first) Hope this helps

Cosmop · 11-23-2009, 10:35 AM

It means you think she's fat

zaxjax · 11-23-2009, 11:52 AM

No, but I'm sure you just want to see her boobs jiggle a little and the spandex camel toe

angrybaker · 11-23-2009, 11:58 AM

if she is under 115, then yes
if she is over 140 then no

darkcloud · 11-23-2009, 12:03 PM

My wife likes to go together. I fucking hate it. She's annoying, talks too much, complains and doesn't know what she's doing so I constantly have to stop what I'm doing to help her. The bitch won't learn either

so I'm explaining the same stuff all the time.

Only time I don't mind is when she signs up for a class. The she's some other dudes problem for an hour or so

Not the same as some chick you may like but taking her to the gym might drive you crazy. Expecially if you have a routine and don't really like to be bothered while working out.

RambleJ · 11-23-2009, 12:14 PM

My girlfriend goes with me a couple times a week. But when we go together, as soon we walk through the door, we don't see eachother till its time to go home. That's the way it should be, she has no business spotting me.

montreal red · 11-23-2009, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by RambleJ

My girlfriend goes with me a couple times a week. But when we go together, as soon we walk through the door, we don't see eachother till its time to go home. That's the way it should be, she has no business spotting me.

+1
the few times i go with my gf, we dont really do the same exercises so its fine... she doesnt bother me. and we leave together when we're both done. sometimes i wait for her and other times she waits for me... so no problems.

Spec 1 · 11-23-2009, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by angrybaker

if she is under 115, then yes
if she is over 140 then no

I like this answer

Have had a couple girls try to start coming to the gym with me. One of them wanted some and the other didn't. I guess it's like saying "If I take a woman to the swimming pool does that mean I'm into her?" It is what you make of it. Simple as that.

MontegoGoGoGo · 11-23-2009, 02:10 PM

Women love nice bodies, but seeing you sweat and grunt and be stinky probably isn't the biggest turn-on. (I'm not speaking for all women.)

Especially if they don't know you very well, you might end up looking a little douchey, like you're trying to show off to her TOO much.

It's like eating a hamburger, the meat tastes great, but we don't want to see how it got to the plate.

Take her to get a spa treatment together. That way she will definitely know you're into her and you can show off your bod!

UncleWede · 11-23-2009, 02:26 PM

I didn't dig the couple spa treatment.

1) *I* should have had my greasy hands all over her body

2) Massuese didn't even OFFER a happy ending

Best regards,
Wede

Memphis1 · 11-23-2009, 02:40 PM

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Originally Posted by MontegoGoGoGo

It's like eating a hamburger, the meat tastes great, but we don't want to see how it got to the plate.

LOL, my girls usually want to take me to yoga classes but never want to go to the "real" gym with me. unless the girl wants to go I usually don't ask...

BForbes · 11-23-2009, 03:01 PM

Thanks guys. 50% says yes and the other says no so far. Damn. I'll just go with my gut.

FOXYCaymanS · 11-23-2009, 03:07 PM

Hahahhahahaa.

Hawkeye · 11-23-2009, 03:09 PM

Why wouldn't a girl be able to spot you? Are you some noob that stops trying once they can't get the weight on their own? You should easily be able to do 2 reps past your max with even a female spotter...

And yes, it means you are interested and you think she is cute, or you are already dating her and think she is fat.

JYehO · 11-25-2009, 07:30 PM

Get all sweaty. Then show her how you really lay the pipe down in the shower.

number335 · 11-25-2009, 07:40 PM

she'll flirt with you if she wants some. if not she will jump on the elliptical with her ipod and ignore you.

ctgazer · 11-27-2009, 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by angrybaker

if she is under 115, then yes
if she is over 140 then no

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spec 1

I like this answer

Have had a couple girls try to start coming to the gym with me. One of them wanted some and the other didn't. I guess it's like saying "If I take a woman to the swimming pool does that mean I'm into her?" It is what you make of it. Simple as that.

lols...what about the inbetweens?

Spec 1 · 11-27-2009, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by ctgazer

lols...what about the inbetweens?

Banished to purgatory.

deamon32 · 11-29-2009, 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Cosmop

It means you think she's fat

+1

MontegoGoGoGo · 11-29-2009, 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by angrybaker

if she is under 115, then yes
if she is over 140 then no

LOL, that is funny. BUT...

I'm 5'8" and weigh 143, size 10/12.

But in some cases, those numbers don't mean anything. I just have a big frame, broad shoulders, lots of muscle. I could never, ever in a million years fit into a size 4 - it's just how I'm built. I could weigh 100 pounds and still not fit.

I have a 4-pack, big arms, probably not the kinda girl you are all attracted to, lol. I'm built like the Williams sisters, but not as big.

So, weight doesn't necessarily have to do with physical fitness!

Just sayin' - so...did you get any? lol

11-30-2009, 08:16 AM

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