What are my boundaries as a friend?

Kiemyster · 11-26-2007, 05:39 PM

roomates.com -- start looking.

'nuff said

T-MC-G · 11-27-2007, 08:01 AM

if his parents are going to help him pay the rent then you have nothing to worry about when it comes to paying the rent.

So here are the 2 situations as I see it,

A: He doesn't get a new expensive car and continues to spend cash supporting a lifestyle he is used to, bar nights, dinners out, new toys etc.

B: He does buy a car and cuts back on everything above and makes the car payment every month.

I go with B since in 5 years he will have a paid for used Lexus under his belt!! Option A gives him nothing... Buying the car sounds like the better thing to do!

MCS · 11-27-2007, 01:04 PM

put his car on lien. If he misses rent - its yours

smog · 11-27-2007, 11:23 PM

great him a hot girlfriend.. convince him to move in with her, then it becomes her 'problem'

mpimping · 11-27-2007, 11:32 PM

tell him to get a preowned a4 2006 @ 299 a month and keep the cash... or some at least

Comet · 11-28-2007, 05:22 AM

there is a saying in french "les bons comptes font les bons amis"

anyways, so long as u get ur rent money, it's none of ur business especially if u have confronted him about it as a friend

I used to try and help all my friends out financially considering I'm better off than them... got me nothing but trouble... now it's their problem... not mine

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11-27-2007, 08:01 AM	#24
T-MC-G Captain 76 Rep 671 Posts Drives: e90 325i Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Trier, Germany iTrader: (5)	if his parents are going to help him pay the rent then you have nothing to worry about when it comes to paying the rent. So here are the 2 situations as I see it, A: He doesn't get a new expensive car and continues to spend cash supporting a lifestyle he is used to, bar nights, dinners out, new toys etc. B: He does buy a car and cuts back on everything above and makes the car payment every month. I go with B since in 5 years he will have a paid for used Lexus under his belt!! Option A gives him nothing... Buying the car sounds like the better thing to do! __________________ "tell me what you don't like about yourself..."
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11-27-2007, 01:04 PM	#25
MCS e90 newbie 38 Rep 448 Posts Drives: 2012 M3 E93 Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Northern NJ iTrader: (2) Garage List 2006 330i [0.00]	put his car on lien. If he misses rent - its yours __________________ E93 IL Blue M3 ZPP, ZCW
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11-27-2007, 11:23 PM	#26
smog Private First Class 3 Rep 120 Posts Drives: E90 Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: santa clara iTrader: (0)	great him a hot girlfriend.. convince him to move in with her, then it becomes her 'problem'
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11-27-2007, 11:32 PM	#27
mpimping Banned 876 Rep 336 Posts Drives: gti Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: ny,ny iTrader: (0)	tell him to get a preowned a4 2006 @ 299 a month and keep the cash... or some at least
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11-28-2007, 05:22 AM	#28
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