Living in an Apt Driving a BMW?

John Tanglewood · 03-10-2010, 01:18 AM

I think the OP was saying, would you live in a less expensive place if it meant keeping a high priced car?

Example: I have always told my mom that I loved cars so much that I would rather drive a Ferrari and live in a trailer home, rather than have a nice house and an econobox.

Sure, doesn't have to be those 2 extremes, but you get it.

CRWaaa · 03-10-2010, 01:29 AM

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Originally Posted by John Tanglewood

I think the OP was saying, would you live in a less expensive place if it meant keeping a high priced car?

Example: I have always told my mom that I loved cars so much that I would rather drive a Ferrari and live in a trailer home, rather than have a nice house and an econobox.

Sure, doesn't have to be those 2 extremes, but you get it.

More than you can afford pal...

jlstyle · 03-10-2010, 02:06 AM

What's with all these people these days asking about "what occupation they should do to drive M3" or "people should respect my 3er being over $50k" or "devastating news about his non approval of loan for his new bmw".....
And now we get this question whether if people living in apt is ok to drive the bimmer...

Quit what people are thinking about your life.
But you shouldn't be suffering just to afford your car...that will be sad...
I guess all these bmw's aggressive marketing and bargain deals are making people more materialistic and make them live out of their means.

punky8d · 03-10-2010, 02:30 AM

As long as you're happy with it and not regret or remorse in the end..
I know some people that kept saving and not really enjoyed life because their trying to "live with their means" and apparently when they died(around 40s..early? yeah), their children are the ones who enjoyed it instead... Ummm just my 2c.

Arriv3d · 03-10-2010, 07:58 AM

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Originally Posted by jayjaybelbel

Good luck on nursing school...you won't regret it...

Thanks! are you an RN or BSN?

BayMoWe335 · 03-10-2010, 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by CRWaaa

As long as its a nice apartment in a decent area with a garage, then its so having an expensive car.

I've only been out of college a couple year so Im under 30 but I've already owned two BMWs (04 E46, 08 E92) and lived in apartments.

Should I be saving for a house, probably, but I looked at it like this...I'll probably get a house when I get married and when I get married I won't be able to just go out and upgrade BMWs every few years due to a wife. So I might as well have fun now and drive an expensive car.

How will you ever buy a house if you don't save for it? It's not like getting married automatically puts money in your account. Now would be the time to save...before you have a family.

Not trying to tell you how to live, but your statement was pretty comical.

jt335i · 03-10-2010, 08:54 AM

It's a free country. They can do what they want. If they can afford to drive a BMW and pay the rent and living expenses for an apartment, more power to them.

Me, I live in a condo and currnently paying a 30 year mortgage.
I own 4 cars (2010 335i, 2005 Stang GT, 1997 Corolla, 1983 380SL Benz).
Fortunately, I'm single, never married, nor have kids so I don't have a lot expenses other than providing for my own living expenses.
I have a good job and manage my money very well so I can afford to live a pretty comfortable lifestyle and enjoy driving my cars.

CRWaaa · 03-10-2010, 09:02 AM

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Originally Posted by BayMoWe335

How will you ever buy a house if you don't save for it? It's not like getting married automatically puts money in your account. Now would be the time to save...before you have a family.

Not trying to tell you how to live, but your statement was pretty comical.

Finally, I was starting to wonder if any saw the large layer of sarcasm in what im my statement

gonzo · 03-10-2010, 09:26 AM

i'll live in a 1000 sq. ft. apt on Rodeo drive in beverly hills for $1500 / mo. versus living in a 2000 sq. ft house in COMPTON or South Central LA for the same price.

That is quite the deal for that area is it not? I thought $3 a sf was more the norm.

Bailed from a 4000 sf home to a 1300 sf town home where they mow for me. My dad is the proud owner of my old lawnmower.

Ghost151 · 03-10-2010, 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by BayMoWe335

How will you ever buy a house if you don't save for it? It's not like getting married automatically puts money in your account. Now would be the time to save...before you have a family.

Not trying to tell you how to live, but your statement was pretty comical.

Buying a house is not the end all be all life affirming goal for everyone.

I bought my first house a couple of years ago at age 35. New construction, new neighborhood and all that in what was supposed to be a safe area that everyone said had never flooded in over 100 years. It was even listed as not being in a flood zone by FEMA. 9 months later Hurricane Ike comes along and floods not only my house but 95% of the town, something everyone said could never happen.

Luckily I couldn't see not buying flood insurance for $260 a year. I was not going to be one of those fools on TV proclaiming that mother nature is not going to defeat me and I will rebuild so I took the money and got the hell out. Back to apartment living for me. No worries, no headaches, no property taxes, no outrageous flood and windstorm and homeowners insurance premiums (post hurricane) and no stressing every hurricane season when a storm kicks up in the Gulf, waiting to see where it is going to make landfall. I figured I won't have the house so I will have a nice car instead and I am able to garage it at the apartments so no worries there.

ragingclue · 03-10-2010, 09:32 AM

I went from college to the Corps, where for 7 years I lived in barracks, squad bays, and sometimes tents. If I had been single when getting out, I'm sure I would have been just fine with an apartment, as a house would have just been a waste for me. I wouldn't really need too much space or isolation if I didn't have a family.

That being said, you can buy a house in Detroit for $500 so having a house vs an apartment isn't necessarily autmatically better.

scorcherjf · 03-10-2010, 10:42 AM

If you live and work in a city downtown I think an apartment/condo is the only option... and I see 911's, gallardos, and even a mercedes mclaren in my garage.

Couch · 03-10-2010, 11:04 AM

I'm choosing to live in an apartment because I'm not ready to own a home. There's a lot changing in my life everyday and the last thing I need to is to buy a home when I may have to sell it in the near future.

OP, your posts reek of you being a stereotypical BMW owner prick. Thanks for the living up to the stereotype.

KingOfJericho · 03-10-2010, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Couch

OP, your posts reek of you being a stereotypical BMW owner prick. Thanks for the living up to the stereotype.

Agreed.

I think it's also funny that people insist that a BMW has to live in a garage... come on. I used to park my Exige outside and never thought twice about it. There were also 2 Elise's in the lot as well. They are just cars... The OP makes apartments sound like a prison sentence. I happen to really enjoy apartment living.

gonzo · 03-10-2010, 11:19 AM

Who is to say?

shipill · 03-10-2010, 11:23 AM

I live in a tent

gonzo · 03-10-2010, 11:56 AM

Well I'm gonna to go then. And I don't need any of this. I don't need this stuff, and I don't need you. I don't need anything except this.
[picks up an ashtray]
And that's it and that's the only thing I need, is this. I don't need this or this. Just this ashtray. And this paddle game, the ashtray and the paddle game and that's all I need. And this remote control. The ashtray, the paddle game, and the remote control, and that's all I need. And these matches. The ashtray, and these matches, and the remote control and the paddle ball. And this lamp. The ashtray, this paddle game and the remote control and the lamp and that's all I need. And that's all I need too. I don't need one other thing, not one - I need this. The paddle game, and the chair, and the remote control, and the matches, for sure. And this. And that's all I need. The ashtray, the remote control, the paddle game, this magazine and the chair.
[walking outside]
And I don't need one other thing, except my dog.
[dog barks]
I don't need my dog.

punky8d · 03-10-2010, 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by BayMoWe335

How will you ever buy a house if you don't save for it? It's not like getting married automatically puts money in your account. Now would be the time to save...before you have a family.

Not trying to tell you how to live, but your statement was pretty comical.

I don't know how you live your life either.. I assume it's not comical and maybe boring... But people would have different perspectives and priorities.. Some people are trying to live their life and enjoy day by day and some are trying to kept trying to plan for the future and somewhat neglecting to enjoy the present and sometimes they don't achive the future or some just got eventually what they want... It's just a matter of choice.. Maybe comical choice??

I don't think that placing higher priority on other stuff such as happiness and bla bla than buying a house is a comical thought for everyone...

KingOfJericho · 03-10-2010, 12:13 PM

I'm busy seeing the world and experiencing new things before I settle down and buy a house. I knew that it would be much more fun to drive a Lotus at 25 than it would at 45 so I bought the car. I have never regretted that decision. Life is too short to always do what is financially responsible. Also, had I bought a house in 2005 when I bought the car, I would have lost much MUCH more money than the total cost of the car. In many ways, the car saved me from one of the biggest financial blunders of my life.

gonzo · 03-10-2010, 12:16 PM

Some of the happiest people I know don't have much more than a pot to piss in and a window to throw it out of.

The are very comfortable with where they are and who they are.

jayjaybelbel · 03-10-2010, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Arriv3d

Thanks! are you an RN or BSN?

RN but i'm planning on going back to get my masters degree that is why i still live in an apt and not a house maybe after i finish my MSN that will be the time i will start planning on purchasing a house..

mogarbage · 03-10-2010, 12:25 PM

this thread is comical.
back in your parent's day, it was a life goal to own a home.
it was instilled in their mindset by their parents.
they worked hard, slaving day in and day out just to say they owned the roof over their head.

it's 2010. wake up and realize owning a home is not a status symbol of any sort, nor is it even priority for a majority of 20somethings.

i live in boston, by no means a cheap city. when you have 2 of the most prestigious schools in the world in your zipcode, and some of the leading industry leaders a few train stops away, you're going to pay.

plan on making 100k+ to get a nice apartment in boston. that's a nice apartment, the same way the bmw is a nice car. neither of them great.

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gonzo Lieutenant General 10337 Rep 14,454 Posts Drives: as many as possible Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: TeXXXas iTrader: (0)	i'll live in a 1000 sq. ft. apt on Rodeo drive in beverly hills for $1500 / mo. versus living in a 2000 sq. ft house in COMPTON or South Central LA for the same price. That is quite the deal for that area is it not? I thought $3 a sf was more the norm. Bailed from a 4000 sf home to a 1300 sf town home where they mow for me. My dad is the proud owner of my old lawnmower. Last edited by gonzo; 03-10-2010 at 09:33 AM..
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gonzo Lieutenant General 10337 Rep 14,454 Posts Drives: as many as possible Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: TeXXXas iTrader: (0)	Well I'm gonna to go then. And I don't need any of this. I don't need this stuff, and I don't need you. I don't need anything except this. [picks up an ashtray] And that's it and that's the only thing I need, is this. I don't need this or this. Just this ashtray. And this paddle game, the ashtray and the paddle game and that's all I need. And this remote control. The ashtray, the paddle game, and the remote control, and that's all I need. And these matches. The ashtray, and these matches, and the remote control and the paddle ball. And this lamp. The ashtray, this paddle game and the remote control and the lamp and that's all I need. And that's all I need too. I don't need one other thing, not one - I need this. The paddle game, and the chair, and the remote control, and the matches, for sure. And this. And that's all I need. The ashtray, the remote control, the paddle game, this magazine and the chair. [walking outside] And I don't need one other thing, except my dog. [dog barks] I don't need my dog.
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mogarbage Private First Class 14 Rep 151 Posts Drives: low and slow. bbq style Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: boston iTrader: (0)	this thread is comical. back in your parent's day, it was a life goal to own a home. it was instilled in their mindset by their parents. they worked hard, slaving day in and day out just to say they owned the roof over their head. it's 2010. wake up and realize owning a home is not a status symbol of any sort, nor is it even priority for a majority of 20somethings. i live in boston, by no means a cheap city. when you have 2 of the most prestigious schools in the world in your zipcode, and some of the leading industry leaders a few train stops away, you're going to pay. plan on making 100k+ to get a nice apartment in boston. that's a nice apartment, the same way the bmw is a nice car. neither of them great.
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