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01-16-2011, 07:38 PM | #47 |
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if its an innocuous type of relationship then it shouldn't bother her husband if you tell him,
so that means that telling him certainly wouldn't hurt, it could only help |
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01-16-2011, 07:44 PM | #48 |
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It's funny...they had a discussion on this on a local radio station just a few days ago. It was brought up because the movie "the dilemma" was coming out. So pretty much everyone (hosts and callers) said that they wouldn't tell...I was thinking "really? so if you're being cheated on you wouldn't want to know about it???"
Some callers said that they've said something in the past and it ended up ruining the relationships between them and their friends. If that's true then those people have some serious fucking issues. I mean someone is giving you a heads up and you're gonna get mad at them?? I would definitely want to know and I would definitely tell my friend if he/she is being cheated on. Period. |
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01-16-2011, 08:11 PM | #49 | |
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01-16-2011, 08:15 PM | #50 |
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My point exactly. I just don't understand how you can ruin friendships by telling your friends something like that. What's worse: telling them early or letting them find out much later that you knew but didn't say anything?? IMO the latter is much worse.
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01-16-2011, 10:57 PM | #53 |
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I saw them together on Friday night kissing at the theater. I did remember that my buddy mentioned his wife was out of town for the weekend. He asked me to come over to play Black Ops but I went to the movies instead. I didn't approach her but I did gave him some hint and hope he found out by himself. I don't want to be the person that break up the marriage. If he does not find out in two weeks than I'll get some evidence and send it to his house. I hope this will be the best approach as I can't stand to see how devastated he will get if I told him.
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01-17-2011, 01:32 AM | #54 | |
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01-17-2011, 02:48 AM | #55 | |
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And OP don't be a bitch by sending anonymous pictures or a letter. Tell your friend what you saw and let him have his way with the bitch. Married woman lied about being out of town for the weekend so she can have a nonstop 48 hour fuck sesh at a hotel with someone else? fuuuuck that |
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01-17-2011, 04:10 AM | #56 | |
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01-17-2011, 04:17 AM | #57 |
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I'd walk up to them and be all like "hey herp! how are you?" and then introduce myself to the guy and be all like "I'm her husband's friend! which reminds me, I wanted to talk to him!"
and I pick up the phone "hey derp, I'm at the movies and I just ran into herp and melvin! anyways, I wanted to ask you.." and make up some BS reason to call him
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01-17-2011, 08:54 AM | #58 |
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Well, If he was my friend or just an acquaintance I would say nothing. But, if he was my best friend, then she would know me quite well also. In that case, damn right I would stay something to him and she would know that I would do that without any confrontation at the movie theater. I would make sure she saw me at the movies though, so she knew I saw her as well.
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01-17-2011, 11:01 AM | #62 |
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I would walk up to the woman and her date and talk to them. It would quickly become obvious if she'd been caught doing something wrong or not. What I'd do after that would depend on how I think my friend would take the news that I'd caught his wife cheating. I might tell her to cut the shit, go home to her husband, and never fucking do that again. That would be if I thought my friend would fall apart if I told him. If I thought my friend was strong then I'd tell him, straight up.
Either way, I'd make sure I knew what was going on before saying anything. It could just as easily be a relative of hers or something else innocent. You don't want to fuck up a happy marriage because you jumped to the wrong conclusion. |
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01-17-2011, 11:19 AM | #63 | |
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I am not a person who believes women have to ditch their guy friends simply because they got married. I believe it is a guy being possessive if they force the wife/GF to stop seeing their guy friends. Vice versa as well. Last edited by quagmire; 01-17-2011 at 11:24 AM.. |
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01-17-2011, 11:37 AM | #64 |
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That does not matter. The dude could stay home and collect unemployment checks. If she wants out then she should do it the right way and get a divorce.
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01-17-2011, 11:47 AM | #65 | |
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01-17-2011, 12:04 PM | #66 | |
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If the wife/husband want to do it on their own, fine. But, if they still want to see and hang out with their male/female friends, let them. A husband/wife should not try to force their SO to ditch their female/male friends. That's what I am basically trying to say. |
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