Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

dinonz · 03-10-2021, 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

No bueno. Well hopefully you at least got your crazy lady friend to hit the road

Yeah - just me and the miniature murder mutt now.

Tambohamilton · 03-11-2021, 02:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

This dude's Bumble profile reads:

Prompt: Perfect first date
His answer: Steak and BJ

Prompt: Turn offs
His answer: Squirters

Like WTF........ how do these guys ever expect someone to swipe right

This chap is a keeper. He is clearly 100% honest, and speaks his mind

I understand your issue with his answers, but really I think he's just after a different thing than you. Swipe left and move on

Lady Jane · 03-11-2021, 06:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Trust me, you don’t want to catfish a woman. Chance of sex would be 0%

And that is why when I date, it's someone that is within arm's reach. I know who they are and how they look. Guys that I've met peripherally either through work, hobbies or sports. Attachment 2549444

Chihuahua · 03-11-2021, 07:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

And then there are the ones with charming profiles and pictures, you meet them and they just want to fuck. Why are guys such fuck boys?! I’m over it. .

Go old school. Get off of the dating site/apps and go out into the real world.

King Rudi · 03-11-2021, 08:16 AM

To chime in here, let's not forget what we are and who we are. Men are simple creatures, whose genetic make up programs us to spread the seed and procreate....it seriously comes down to just this. Women are more complex creatures that are genetically programed to attract males, bear children and nurture. Everything else is a façade that we have built in our minds to only get to this point.

I'm not saying the methods used on either side are always desirable by the other, but this is what it comes down to. Men deal with this as well, but in other manners. Women can be extremely aggressive in getting what they want and aren't always necessarily honest about who they are or their intentions. This is the complexity end. Men fall for it every time because we simple and need to procreate.

cmyx6go · 03-11-2021, 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Chihuahua

Go old school. Get off of the dating site/apps and go out into the real world.

Oh, the horror *gasp*

JP10 · 03-11-2021, 08:49 AM

Not to veer completely off topic, but I'm not a huge steak guy. Don't get me wrong, I really enjoy a solid steak. But 99 times out of 100, if I am at a restaurant I will not be ordering steak. As for the rest, at least he speaks his mind lol - if there are issues with that then it is an easy swipe for the onlookers - both parties win haha.

Tommy-G · 03-11-2021, 09:04 AM

OK, so for the ladies...If he posted this instead

Perfect date:
Swanky restaurant
and after my head between your legs until you cant stand up

Would it change things at all?

Chihuahua · 03-11-2021, 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by cmyx6go

Oh, the horror *gasp*

I know right? It's a miracle the human race was able to procreate for hundreds of thousands of years without Tinder and a WiFi connection.

Tommy-G · 03-11-2021, 09:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Chihuahua

I know right? It's a miracle the human race was able to procreate for hundreds of thousands of years without Tinder and a WiFi connection.

Just sayin

King Rudi · 03-11-2021, 09:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Chihuahua

I know right? It's a miracle the human race was able to procreate for hundreds of thousands of years without Tinder and a WiFi connection.

King Rudi · 03-11-2021, 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by TommyG-inFlaNow

Just sayin

I'm offended!!!

Sara · 03-11-2021, 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Chihuahua

Go old school. Get off of the dating site/apps and go out into the real world.

That's pretty much what happened on Sunday night. I actually when to a bar with a girlfriend. Had real guys approach us and sit at the bar with us (New Orleans is open and you can sit at bars like it was 2019). It then became too much for my girlfriend and I and I texted Mr. Fuckboy, who used a 2016 photo of himself come to "rescue us."

He showed up and I will not be reaching out to him again. Not my cup of tea.

Oh well. I tried. I can't seem to get it right on the apps or let it happen organically.

Sara · 03-11-2021, 09:46 AM

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Originally Posted by TommyG-inFlaNow

OK, so for the ladies...If he posted this instead

Perfect date:
Swanky restaurant
and after my head between your legs until you cant stand up

Would it change things at all?

Ew no!

It's fine to think that and do that eventually, but you cannot post that! Automatic swipe left, I don't care how gorgeous you are. Just no.

dinonz · 03-11-2021, 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by King Rudi

I'm offended!!!

At least he's pulling her by her hair. If you pull them by their feet they fill up with sand

CTinline-six · 03-11-2021, 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by TommyG-inFlaNow

OK, so for the ladies...If he posted this instead

Perfect date:
Swanky restaurant
and after my head between your legs until you cant stand up

Would it change things at all?

My bet would be no, and he would still sound like a sleazebag. If you approach women in a sexual way right off the bat, 90% of the time it's a turn off. They want a respectful, confident guy who will treat them right, including in the bedroom, but not as a first impression.

dinonz · 03-11-2021, 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by CTinline-six

My bet would be no, and he would still sound like a sleazebag. If you approach women in a sexual way right off the bat, 90% of the time it's a turn off. They want a respectful, confident guy who will treat them right, including in the bedroom, but not as a first impression.

But as you said, 90% of the time. His target market are the 10% who are not turned off, might be horny, and think - why not - what have I got to lose?

Sara · 03-11-2021, 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by dinonz

But as you said, 90% of the time. His target market are the 10% who are not turned off, might be horny, and think - why not - what have I got to lose?

Those 10% are not going to be classy winners you bring home to the parents....

dinonz · 03-11-2021, 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Those 10% are not going to be classy winners you bring home to the parents....

No - but nobody who responds to his ad is. And clearly that's not what he wants anyway.

swagon · 03-11-2021, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Chihuahua

I know right? It's a miracle the human race was able to procreate for hundreds of thousands of years without Tinder and a WiFi connection.

crazy how nature do dat.

I used to exactly the below

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Originally Posted by Sara504

Had real guys approach us and sit at the bar with us.

a couple years back in bars or clubs, either alone or with me mates. But I'm more introverted than in the past; I've also become sober and resentful of being around drunk people. And it's all just too many loud folks at once. Just can't relax in there.

So dating apps have been a godsend to me. Apart from one catfish, I've never had any bad experiences - always do your due diligence: get the number, get the IG, look through the pics (don't forget the tagged pics!) and just send it.

Also, might be the age group in this thread, but women in their 20s sure are fuckbois. "No hookups" in the bio is just a shit test to weed out horny creeps whom they find unattractive.

3PM - "sure, let's go do a picnic in the park on Saturday!"
11PM - "so cold in my room, the heating's broken..."

sure, lemme get my pipe wrench ready.

Tommy-G · 03-11-2021, 10:22 AM

I'm just saying, he took the focus off himself and at least made an attempt (hypothetically) to take care of the woman....I know its not what 90% of the woman will want as their initial conversation but for the most part, the end game is all the same.

Companionship and Sex!

Lady Jane · 03-11-2021, 10:24 AM

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