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      11-21-2010, 02:00 PM   #67
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Keep it simple. Either your mum gave you the wrong amount OR your broke gf took it. Which is more likely?

To me it would be unlikely that your mum gave the wrong amount since she knew exactly how much the ticket was. It is much more likely that the gf took it. I would say that even if she wasnt broke, however, her money situation makes it even more likely.

Im not saying she 101% took it, but I'm saying dont be fooled that because she asked you for money and showed her account to you at the ATM she is telling the truth. Maybe she needed the money so badly to pay bills, charges and money she owes to other people. That would be one reason why it might not be in her account. Plus if she took it she would know that you would eventually get suspicious and all she has to do is put on an act.

On balance, your gf did it.


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She's got two jobs.

She gives her money to her mom every month since they are trying to buy a house right now.
I just seen this now. Bro that just further supports the reason why she took the money. Also, it would explain why its not in her account. She took it and gave it straight to her mum. Even if she didnt give it to her mum she could have done anything with the money and kept it out her account so that when you ask to see her account she can say "look I have nothing"
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      11-21-2010, 02:28 PM   #68
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"She gives her money to her mom every month since they are trying to buy a house right now."

You must be retarded to think that's the smoking gun.
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      11-21-2010, 06:06 PM   #69
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I was about to say you're laying into your girlfriend way too much about it, but after reading all the comments and your other posts, I'm pretty sure she snagged your $600 man; however, in the future make sure you count your money first so that you are 100% sure.
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      11-22-2010, 12:27 PM   #70
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This girl's attitude screams entitlement....good luck wit dat
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      11-22-2010, 12:40 PM   #71
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escorts aren't free you know Sucks man, but nothing you can do about it. If you like the girl drop it sooner than later and just watch out better in the future.
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can't your mom just check her bank account to see how much she withdraw?

i'm willing to bet the b1tch took it. LOL
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      11-22-2010, 04:21 PM   #73
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OP, didn't your mom confirm for you that she did give you the right amount? Then why would you suspect she's wrong? Do you think your mom set up a trap so you could lose your money and not fly to Asia for the holidays? I think not likely.

You made one big mistake, you showed your hand to the girlfriend. If you would have just kept silent and left another money trap for her, you'd have a definite answer. Just admit you failed. Move on. Dump this girl, keep her; choice is up to you man, you already paid for it.
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      11-22-2010, 05:43 PM   #74
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Wow is all I can say. Saw there was an update and expected anything but what I read.
First off, if either of my kids thought their mom was at fault with something like this they would never hear the end of it from me and she and I don't even talk. She's family, she's your mom fool. If she says she gave you 2900 she did.
You've had tons of advice in here and you seem to just avoid it, why confront the GF, do you seriously think she would say "Yep I took it" and provide some half baked rationale. I mean come on, how the hell old are you?
Bottom line, you're missing 600 and no matter what you do it is not coming back so move on. If you suspect the GF in any way, you've got to move on.
No Dick Tracy sting operation is going to change that period. Classic case of pussy on the pedestal. Life could get really difficult for you with that attitude.
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      11-22-2010, 06:33 PM   #75
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Does no one else see the elephant in the room? You drive a 335, yet missing $600 (from your mother) is going to cause you to miss a payment? Maybe you should be driving a used Hyundai instead? You're also a punk for accusing your girlfriend of stealing when you have absolutely no evidence. Don't you think that your tests are a bit manipulative and juvenile at best?
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      11-22-2010, 07:52 PM   #76
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Didn't see the elephant to be honest.
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gf took it

I don't like to stereotype, but poor people are more likely to steal and then lie about it
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take out another large amount of money and place it in common area, set up a camera. dont touch it for days, weeks or however long. If your gf ask you why is there money there or whose money is that or is that the money u lost... simply say you dont even know there's money there or you dont know whose it is...


eventually... wait for the bitch to strike one day
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