Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

Never_Enough · 10-31-2018, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Depends. For me the reward at the end of a good chase makes it even more satisfying. After all, isn't being bold/confident with women considered chasing them? Many of them want to be liked, chased, etc.

Playing games and trying to get someone to like you who obviously doesn't is different though, not worth your time.

Any woman that requires chasing, etc is not worth chasing. Just say no to drama

Turkish Pickle · 10-31-2018, 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Depends. For me the reward at the end of a good chase makes it even more satisfying. After all, isn't being bold/confident with women considered chasing them? Many of them want to be liked, chased, etc.

Playing games and trying to get someone to like you who obviously doesn't is different though, not worth your time.

100%
"men desire women, women desire that desire for them" or something along those lines, i don't remember the quote

i think Never_Enough means chasing as in trying to convince someone to sleep with you whereas you're looking at it from a "she is interested but probably won't take the first step" angle?

Never_Enough · 10-31-2018, 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

100%
"men desire women, women desire that desire for them" or something along those lines, i don't remember the quote

i think Never_Enough means chasing as in trying to convince someone to sleep with you whereas you're looking at it from a "she is interested but probably won't take the first step" angle?

No, not talking about chasing for sex. I'm talking about any of the chase bs. I'm older so YMMV. I'm done with that bs.

Turkish Pickle · 10-31-2018, 09:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Never_Enough

No, not talking about chasing for sex. I'm talking about any of the chase bs. I'm older so YMMV. I'm done with that bs.

ah okay - i sadly don't look like a greek god so the girls that approach me aren't usually "preferable" so i do have to "chase" a bit...

Never_Enough · 10-31-2018, 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

ah okay - i sadly don't look like a greek god so the girls that approach me aren't usually "preferable" so i do have to "chase" a bit...

Guarantee you are better looking than me. Just make em laugh & toss in a little mysteriousness. You'll be golden.

CTinline-six · 10-31-2018, 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

100%
"men desire women, women desire that desire for them" or something along those lines, i don't remember the quote

i think Never_Enough means chasing as in trying to convince someone to sleep with you whereas you're looking at it from a "she is interested but probably won't take the first step" angle?

Yup, that's what I meant. Avoid drama for sure. Drama doesn't get far with me, I have enough stress to deal with already. You shouldn't have to convince anyone to do anything with you.

My definition of chasing would be like upstatedoc and Danielle. Playful flirting back and forth then going in and making the move.

CTinline-six · 10-31-2018, 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Never_Enough

Guarantee you are better looking than me. Just make em laugh & toss in a little mysteriousness. You'll be golden.

Make them laugh and tease them. Playful sarcasm is also a big turn on usually. Be mindful of what is playful teasing and what is an insult, especially at the beginning when they still might not be 100% comfortable.

Never_Enough · 10-31-2018, 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Make them laugh and tease them. Playful sarcasm is also a big turn on usually. Be mindful of what is playful teasing and what is an insult, especially at the beginning when they still might not be 100% comfortable.

I have found that most don't get and/or like sarcasm. I'm a sarcastic person and that part doesn't work most of the time

Never_Enough · 10-31-2018, 10:11 AM

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Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Yup, that's what I meant. Avoid drama for sure. Drama doesn't get far with me, I have enough stress to deal with already. You shouldn't have to convince anyone to do anything with you.

My definition of chasing would be like upstatedoc and Danielle. Playful flirting back and forth then going in and making the move.

So not like doc then since he won't make a move.

CTinline-six · 10-31-2018, 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Never_Enough

I have found that most don't get and/or like sarcasm. I'm a sarcastic person and that part doesn't work most of the time

Yeah those who live on Facebook and don't interact with real people seem to have that problem.

CTinline-six · 10-31-2018, 10:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Never_Enough

So not like doc then since he won't make a move.

I'm confident he will.

At least I hope he does.

Never_Enough · 10-31-2018, 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by CTinline-six

I'm confident he will.

At least I hope he does.

Turkish Pickle · 10-31-2018, 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Yup, that's what I meant. Avoid drama for sure. Drama doesn't get far with me, I have enough stress to deal with already. You shouldn't have to convince anyone to do anything with you.

My definition of chasing would be like upstatedoc and Danielle. Playful flirting back and forth then going in and making the move.

Yeha I feel you, my dad says "problems are like dicks, everyone thinks they have the biggest one" but I 100% agree with you, I have enough shit going on in my life to not want to deal with another person - also agree on the last part, I see that as "chasing" too. Sadly for me I'm in it for the thrill of the chase, I'm definitely not a relationship guy. Maybe because of my age, idk, but I haven't had a relationship last for more than 3 months...

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Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Make them laugh and tease them. Playful sarcasm is also a big turn on usually. Be mindful of what is playful teasing and what is an insult, especially at the beginning when they still might not be 100% comfortable.

Story time: I'm out with my friends, waiting in line to get in to a bar. A random girl with some fries is trying to sell it for $9, no one of course is budging. Her friends are in front of us; she tries hella to sell it and no one is buying. Drops the price and still no one is interested, finally ends us giving the fries for free. I said "Megan, thanks for the fries that you've been trying to sell for $9 for the last 10 mins for free" and extended my hand for a handshake - all my boys lost their minds laughing

I like giving shit for the sake of giving shit, sometimes I overdo it (especially when I have multiple drinks in me, my inner piece of shit can come out) but sometimes it works...

Never_Enough · 10-31-2018, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

Yeha I feel you, my dad says "problems are like dicks, everyone thinks they have the biggest one" but I 100% agree with you, I have enough shit going on in my life to not want to deal with another person - also agree on the last part, I see that as "chasing" too. Sadly for me I'm in it for the thrill of the chase, I'm definitely not a relationship guy. Maybe because of my age, idk, but I haven't had a relationship last for more than 3 months...

Story time: I'm out with my friends, waiting in line to get in to a bar. A random girl with some fries is trying to sell it for $9, no one of course is budging. Her friends are in front of us; she tries hella to sell it and no one is buying. Drops the price and still no one is interested, finally ends us giving the fries for free. I said "Megan, thanks for the fries that you've been trying to sell for $9 for the last 10 mins for free" and extended my hand for a handshake - all my boys lost their minds laughing

I like giving shit for the sake of giving shit, sometimes I overdo it (especially when I have multiple drinks in me, my inner piece of shit can come out) but sometimes it works...

We should definitely hang out, but if you say "hella" in front of me, I will dick punch you.

Turkish Pickle · 10-31-2018, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Never_Enough

We should definitely hang out, but if you say "hella" in front of me, I will dick punch you.

I don't know how/why that stuck tbh, "hella" is definitely NOT a midwest thing and I don't know too many people here from Cali... :I

But I'm definitely down, if you ever swing by Chicago after March 2019 (or before, but I won't be 21 until then) let me know so we can grab drinks

upstatedoc · 10-31-2018, 12:05 PM

bromance?

Never_Enough · 10-31-2018, 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by OnerDriver

Jealous? Is that why you can't make a move with Danielle?

Shots fired!

King Rudi · 10-31-2018, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Never_Enough

Shots fired!

awaiting return fire!

upstatedoc · 10-31-2018, 12:11 PM

so danielle doesnt know if she has her son tonight because her ex is a dick, if she doesnt then shes coming over and i told her that if she does shes getting a face massage and she said "Yes!"

King Rudi · 10-31-2018, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by upstatedoc

so danielle doesnt know if she has her son tonight because her ex is a dick, if she doesnt then shes coming over and i told her that if she does shes getting a face massage and she said "Yes!"

face massage = facial?

Turkish Pickle · 10-31-2018, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by upstatedoc

so danielle doesnt know if she has her son tonight because her ex is a dick, if she doesnt then shes coming over and i told her that if she does shes getting a face massage and she said "Yes!"

happy for you my man! hope by massage you mean a facial...

Never_Enough · 10-31-2018, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by upstatedoc

so danielle doesnt know if she has her son tonight because her ex is a dick, if she doesnt then shes coming over and i told her that if she does shes getting a face massage and she said "Yes!"

Women love to use kids/ex drama as an excuse.

Also, "face massage"? If, as Jody said, is not code for facial then wtf man? #nogame

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