Too soon?

sdorn · 03-20-2006, 10:38 PM

Poor guy. You need to let him know how you really feel before he gets hurt even worse. And don't be subtle or try and give him hints, just come straight out and tell him how you really feel. You shouldn't treat people like that.

shimshimhada · 03-20-2006, 11:18 PM

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Originally Posted by sharp1183

Shim, I gotta tell ya, I absolutely love that new third picture in your sig

It will be replaced when I get a proper orange girl.

mava330 · 03-21-2006, 12:39 AM

Doods this has got to be one of the most entertaining threads EVER on e90post! Forget TV. I'm tuning into this each night!

Oh and regarding the dood that closed in too fast for Bella and didn't let her "pounce" Dork. Missed out on some pouncing from a hot-blooded sagittarian Italian. Can't get any hotter than that.

D O R K

BellasBmw · 03-21-2006, 03:52 AM

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Originally Posted by NaTuReB0Y

i don't think she swallows........

Haha survey says.... Spit or swallow??

BellasBmw · 03-21-2006, 03:55 AM

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Originally Posted by mava330

Doods this has got to be one of the most entertaining threads EVER on e90post! Forget TV. I'm tuning into this each night!

Oh and regarding the dood that closed in too fast for Bella and didn't let her "pounce" Dork. Missed out on some pouncing from a hot-blooded sagittarian Italian. Can't get any hotter than that.

D O R K

Thanks Mav..

I knew we got along for a reason

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Sdorn-Poor guy. You need to let him know how you really feel before he gets hurt even worse. And don't be subtle or try and give him hints, just come straight out and tell him how you really feel. You shouldn't treat people like that.

Sdorn- Im not telling this guy that i like him, that i cant wait to be with him again. Im being completly laid back. Im not giving him mixed signals. Just cause a girl is friendly to a guy, its like everyone assumes i'm trying to nail him. Sure the thought was in my mind. Of course when you try to get close to the opposite sex, hooking up is always a factor. However, men should know that most women like a challenge. I shouldnt be treating people this way..puhleeze

. Men have done way worse shit.. atleast i didnt sleep with him and not call for days and days. And in that case, most men would be happy .. haha

sdorn · 03-21-2006, 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

Sdorn- Im not telling this guy that i like him, that i cant wait to be with him again. Im being completly laid back. Im not giving him mixed signals. Just cause a girl is friendly to a guy, its like everyone assumes i'm trying to nail him. Sure the thought was in my mind. Of course when you try to get close to the opposite sex, hooking up is always a factor. However, men should know that most women like a challenge. I shouldnt be treating people this way..puhleeze

. Men have done way worse shit.. atleast i didnt sleep with him and not call for days and days. And in that case, most men would be happy .. haha

What I meant when I said you shouldn't treat him like that was if you didn't make it absolutely clear going forward how you really feel about him. You know how he feels about you. If you don't make your feelings clear, you are leading him on regardless of how laid back you have been so far. I won't argue that men do things way worse than this to women, but that is no excuse for mistreating someone.

shimshimhada · 03-21-2006, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

Haha survey says.... Spit or swallow??

Survey says...cold sore ftl.

BiggieJ · 03-21-2006, 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by sdorn

What I meant when I said you shouldn't treat him like that was if you didn't make it absolutely clear going forward how you really feel about him. You know how he feels about you. If you don't make your feelings clear, you are leading him on regardless of how laid back you have been so far. I won't argue that men do things way worse than this to women, but that is no excuse for mistreating someone.

well i think guys have a harder time telling the difference between being friendly and being interested. plus her feelings could have changed (which kinda did) she has no commitment to this guy or his feelings. also itll be kinda weird for her to have a "serious" talk so early in the game by telling him exactly where he stands.

as for the spit or swallow...who cares! you just got some and its not like its in your mouth!

sorry

NaTuReB0Y · 03-21-2006, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

Haha survey says.... Spit or swallow??

what the hell is that? someone's roll-up foreskin?

shimshimhada · 03-21-2006, 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by NaTuReB0Y

what the hell is that? someone's roll-up foreskin?

WTF?!

E90-4life · 03-21-2006, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by BiggieJ

well i think guys have a harder time telling the difference between being friendly and being interested. plus her feelings could have changed (which kinda did) she has no commitment to this guy or his feelings. also itll be kinda weird for her to have a "serious" talk so early in the game by telling him exactly where he stands.

as for the spit or swallow...who cares! you just got some and its not like its in your mouth!

sorry

Agreed on both points.

You really can't blame a spicy lil' Italian gal for wanting to have her piece of the cake and eat it too. Just sucks that it's not the right kind of cake, for her that is.

There's always the Carmel Chocolate Moose Bella!!! And you can't turn that away.

red_wagen · 03-21-2006, 10:48 PM

Didn't you watch "When Harry Met Sally"?
Men and women can never be friends...

Squawks · 03-21-2006, 11:16 PM

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Originally Posted by red_wagen

Didn't you watch "When Harry Met Sally"?
Men and women can never be friends...

Harry met Sally? That's back in the cavemen days. Now today there are dykes, queers, and trannies. So yeah, men and women can be friends.

eshamas21 · 03-21-2006, 11:50 PM

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Originally Posted by ase2dais

In a man's mind... there is no such thing as "Just Friends" between a man and a woman, for something always gets in the way. <GRIN>

NOT TRUE!!! my best friend in high school was a girl and there was no attraction to eachother what so ever... and i knew she was a really pretty girl but i never felt that way about her... and she had a bf during the time we were best friends... and NOOO IM NOT GAY!... i know most of u r thinkin that now... lol... but yes its possible to be just friends ... but i think it has to happen where both people get a long very well and no attraction towards each other at all...

BMW F22 · 03-21-2006, 11:53 PM

Im sure there was attraction somewhere along the road. Just that it was never developed into anything greater than just friendship.

red_wagen · 03-22-2006, 12:09 AM

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Originally Posted by BMWE90

Im sure there was attraction somewhere along the road. Just that it was never developed into anything greater than just friendship.

Yep plus she had a bf at the time so you prolly just suppressed your feelings. You're gonna need therapy...

deutschmann59 · 03-22-2006, 12:17 AM

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Originally Posted by eshamas21

NOT TRUE!!! my best friend in high school was a girl and there was no attraction to eachother what so ever... and i knew she was a really pretty girl but i never felt that way about her... and she had a bf during the time we were best friends... and NOOO IM NOT GAY!... i know most of u r thinkin that now... lol... but yes its possible to be just friends ... but i think it has to happen where both people get a long very well and no attraction towards each other at all...

Nah, I was the same way in high school. I had tons of friends that were girls in high school. I never had a "best friend" that was a girl, but some of them were pretty close. But for some reason, I never went after the ones I kind of thought I could have...I always went for the ones that would instantly turn me down.

It's funny because now that I look back on it, I can think of about 10 girls I could have probably gone out with if I would have went for them, but instead I went for the "royalty" of the school and got shot down everytime.

The reason I say I can't be friends with a girl now a days is because now a days, I'm not looking for just a friend. Right now, it's hard for me to even imagine having a girl that's "just a friend"....there's like no point

mava330 · 03-22-2006, 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

Haha survey says.... Spit or swallow??

What??

That's not a spit or swallow moment... That's FOREPLAY man!

Come on you got the finger thing going on... got the tongue action... the booze... whipped cream... KLASSIC foreplay in my book.

mava330 · 03-22-2006, 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by NaTuReB0Y

what the hell is that? someone's roll-up foreskin?

Dood Kevin. WTF??!!!

DOOD!

Foreskin? That's soooooo jacked. (no pun intended)

krndanic307 · 03-22-2006, 12:41 AM

MAVAAAAAa get ur away msg off =P

BellasBmw · 03-22-2006, 01:02 AM

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Originally Posted by NaTuReB0Y

what the hell is that? someone's roll-up foreskin?

Haha it was a chocolate covered strawberry dipped in whipped cream.. So good

GoRomeo · 03-22-2006, 01:05 AM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

Hahah yea i got class with him today, but im not going. Me and my best friend are gonna hang out today and do errands. Funny, a week ago i couldnt wait to see him at class. Now im like eek.. Damn why did he ruin it, why did he tell me how mch he likes me, why did he get all affectionate, and start asking me out all the time. Booo..

well well well... Bella all i can tell you is that once a girl feels sorry for a guy its all downhill...period...now can i get a chance??

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