[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Sara

King Rudi he said yes aahhhh just when I think he can’t get any better, he does. Is this normal or is he just above and beyond? I found my unicorn

Is he taking your last name?

I kid. Most normal guys are this way. Not trying to steal his thunder, but it's typically the douchebags that give most guys a bad name....oddly because that is typically what women are attracted to. It's a vicious cycle I tell you.

Relax, enjoy it and just have a good time.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Is he taking your last name?

I kid. Most normal guys are this way. Not trying to steal his thunder, but it's typically the douchebags that give most guys a bad name....oddly because that is typically what women are attracted to. It's a vicious cycle I tell you.

Relax, enjoy it and just have a good time.

Ha, apparently he was curious to know if I would take his. I told you he asked me this, right?

I keep waiting for him to get comfortable and stop being so charming, hasn't happened yet

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Sara

Ha, apparently he was curious to know if I would take his. I told you he asked me this, right?

I keep waiting for him to get comfortable and stop being so charming, hasn't happened yet

Maybe this is his comfortable. Do you really want it to stop?

[UncleWede]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

Maybe this is his comfortable. Do you really want it to stop?

Come now, you know she DOES. You alluded to it with the douchenozzle comment.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Sara

Maybe it'll change once he goes to this party with me Saturday night.


In all seriousness, I'm going to enjoy the time I have left with him. I now have access to his house when he's not there. That's a pretty big step.

That is a big step. There are only a handful of people that access to my home when I'm not there. The gf wasn't one of them for a good long while. He's too trusting too quickly.....so don't trust it. I'm kidding.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

That is a big step. There are only a handful of people that access to my home when I'm not there. The gf wasn't one of them for a good long while. He's too trusting too quickly.....so don't trust it. I'm kidding.

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[King Rudi]

[Chihuahua]

Originally Posted by Sara

In all seriousness, I'm going to enjoy the time I have left with him. I now have access to his house when he's not there. That's a pretty big step.

I'm confused. Does he not live near you? Is this just a temporary fling?

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Chihuahua

I'm confused. Does he not live near you? Is this just a temporary fling?

He's about 4 miles from me. I don't know how long it'll last, so far it's wonderful.

It's the elephant in the room that I'm ignoring and I'm just enjoying the time I have with him. He's military. As of right now, he's here for 3 years....after that, who knows.

[Tommy-G]

Originally Posted by Onesie

How does he size up?

I think she answered way to quickly and straight forward to get your drift....how ever I will say its likely his testes are large if hes a fighter pilot.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Tommy-G

I think she answered way to quickly and straight forward to get your drift....how ever I will say its likely his testes are large if hes a fighter pilot.

I have some photos of his action shots. It's pretty badass.

[Chihuahua]

Originally Posted by Sara

He's about 4 miles from me. I don't know how long it'll last, so far it's wonderful.

It's the elephant in the room that I'm ignoring and I'm just enjoying the time I have with him. He's military. As of right now, he's here for 3 years....after that, who knows.

He's told me what he wants for his future. He wants a wife, he wants that life, but military can be tough for that. I try not to think about what's going to happen when/if he leaves.

If you keep telling yourself that this is temporary, it will be. Self-fulfilling prophecy.

Let's be honest, you've had douche-nozzles orbiting you since many of us got into this thread; maybe you finally found your dude. It sounds like you have your guard up; if you keep yourself in self-protect mode you'll eventually drive him away and you'll be back to square one. I know making yourself vulnerable to someone isn't easy, but that's how you connect with someone on a deep level and things really start to get fun. He's military, I get it. But I'm a firm believer that if you really want something, you'll figure out a way to make it happen.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Chihuahua

If you keep telling yourself that this is temporary, it will be. Self-fulfilling prophecy.

Let's be honest, you've had douche-nozzles orbiting you since many of us got into this thread; maybe you finally found your dude. It sounds like you have your guard up; if you keep yourself in self-protect mode you'll eventually drive him away and you'll be back to square one. I know making yourself vulnerable to someone isn't easy, but that's how you connect with someone on a deep level and things really start to get fun. He's military, I get it. But I'm a firm believer that if you really want something, you'll figure out a way to make it happen.

I don't think I have my guard up much. I hold his hand in public everywhere. I sit next to him and either hold his hand or he has his arm around me. He expects me to stay every time I'm at his house, and I do. He calls me baby, I call him babe. He's meeting my aunt and my cousins in two days. I feel like this is how a normal relationship works It's only been since August and we've done a lot together. I'm not opposed to letting more happen between us.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Onesie

You'd likely be banned if you posted that stuff here.

We don't need to see it, we just wanted to know how he measures up.

[Chihuahua]

Originally Posted by Sara

I don't think I have my guard up much. I hold his hand in public everywhere. I sit next to him and either hold his hand or he has his arm around me. He expects me to stay every time I'm at his house, and I do. He calls me baby, I call him babe. He's meeting my aunt and my cousins in two days. I feel like this is how a normal relationship works It's only been since August and we've done a lot together. I'm not opposed to letting more happen between us.

Good! I wish the best for you.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Chihuahua

Good! I wish the best for you.

Thank you

[Tommy-G]

Originally Posted by Onesie

You'd likely be banned if you posted that stuff here.

We don't need to see it, we just wanted to know how he measures up.

Ya know, I’m slightly interested but the point of view must be correct or I’m out…na’ mean?

[Dang3r]

Originally Posted by Sara

Well he's a fighter pilot...so far so good.

An incredible job, miss it sometimes sooo much.

Originally Posted by Sara

I don't think I have my guard up much. I hold his hand in public everywhere. I sit next to him and either hold his hand or he has his arm around me. He expects me to stay every time I'm at his house, and I do. He calls me baby, I call him babe. He's meeting my aunt and my cousins in two days. I feel like this is how a normal relationship works It's only been since August and we've done a lot together. I'm not opposed to letting more happen between us.

You know what, I am really happy for you that this is working fine and your flying half, as far as described exactly my suggstions of a good going relationship and shown feelings without exaggerations are the best expression of deep feelings.
All fingers crossed that this lasts for a long time

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Dang3r

An incredible job, miss it sometimes sooo much.



You know what, I am really happy for you that this is working fine and your flying half, as far as described exactly my suggstions of a good going relationship and shown feelings without exaggerations are the best expression of deep feelings.
All fingers crossed that this lasts for a long time

Cool isn't it?

Thank you

[Turkish Pickle]

Canceled on a date 2hr before the time we set.

Yesterday it hit me: I'd never date her, there's just nothing holding us together other than accessible sex... The vibes I got wasn't what I was willing to reciprocate just yet (or honestly, with her). Told her I am not comfortable with going on two dinner dates back to back but I'd be down to hang, just not to date.

I am proud of myself, I am growing up. Even though Confucious say "there's no dry streak only high standard", I'm ok with this than having to swallow my pride so someone can swallow my kids.






On an unrelated note: how is everyone? there's lots of new names and not a lot of older names I remember.

[Tommy-G]

Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle

Canceled on a date 2hr before the time we set.

Yesterday it hit me: I'd never date her, there's just nothing holding us together other than accessible sex... The vibes I got wasn't what I was willing to reciprocate just yet (or honestly, with her). Told her I am not comfortable with going on two dinner dates back to back but I'd be down to hang, just not to date.

I am proud of myself, I am growing up. Even though Confucious say "there's no dry streak only high standard", I'm ok with this than having to swallow my pride so someone can swallow my kids.






On an unrelated note: how is everyone? there's lots of new names and not a lot of older names I remember.

Wait, help me to understand this. It’s hard because I haven’t dated in 17 years. What is wrong with sharing someone’s company at dinner? You’re willing to “hang” but not hang at dinner? Maybe I’m just missing something.
I think bc going out to dinner is one of my fave things, I wouldn’t mind anyones company

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by Tommy-G

Wait, help me to understand this. It’s hard because I haven’t dated in 17 years. What is wrong with sharing someone’s company at dinner? You’re willing to “hang” but not hang at dinner? Maybe I’m just missing something.
I think bc going out to dinner is one of my fave things, I wouldn’t mind anyones company

No same here! I missed going on dates, last week with her was a nice refresher. I just didn't feel like I'd want to girlfriend her so I didn't want to continue seeing her and waste both our resources bc i got the vibe that she was looking for something a little more serious with me. I don't necessarily miss my ex but it felt like I was going from a bmw to a hyundai. Probably not great of me to compare people but someone higher quality in general is what I'm looking for, not someone who I'm just attracted to physically.

And by hang I completely meant meaningless sex for the sake of having sex.