Broke up with ex-gf after 1 year 4 months, *ASIAN ADVICE NEEDED*

McMuffin · 03-08-2011, 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by persian54

Single can be boring

Dating women is fun; someone to be there when you're down, someone to be there when you're horny, someone to be there when you want to have fun.

You can date someone monogamously and not get too serious and still enjoy yourselves.

Umm, being single means you can do all that! Just cuz you're single doesn't mean you're not fucking and stuff!

iBoost · 03-08-2011, 05:41 PM

Strippers are your friends

SchlauCow · 03-08-2011, 06:05 PM

is there an asian that doesn't get stomped on in any relationship?

Schm · 03-08-2011, 06:18 PM

Go bone some randos.

persian54 · 03-08-2011, 06:25 PM

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Originally Posted by McMuffin

Umm, being single means you can do all that! Just cuz you're single doesn't mean you're not fucking and stuff!

Sorry I guess you guys didn't understand my wording

To me, when you're seeing either 1 woman or multiple women, you're not really 'single'

You're dating around.

So yes, you're not in a relationship, but you're also not 'single'

Make sense?

All I meant was that being alone sucks; meaning no women in your life; be it a gf, a booty call, dating, or whatever.

Any guy that says they want no women in their life at all...is either lying, in denial, or closet gay.

Just saying.....

I love women and can never go on without one (or more hehe

) in my life.

Kroy · 03-08-2011, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by e92hobear

I'm guessing she's your first serious relationship, cause it sounds a lot like my first relationship (only I was the one giving 10%). As a fellow asian, I know whatsup with our opposite sex. Your girl sounds like one of those teases with a bf that looooooves that attention. It's a classic. Get a bf, but have lots of guy friends that she likes to tease and play so that they have feelings for her (buy her gifts, take her out and what not), and think they have a chance. In reality, she likes the attention and doesn't want the commitment. When she wants commitment, that's where you come in.

Fuck her dude. My last gf was exactly like this, turns out she was a ho and was fucking every guy she met. Luckily I wrapped that shit, but beware dude. I'm also vindictive as fuck, so you can bet there's plenty of pictures/videos (real or fake) of her circling around somewhere hehe..

But if you're not like me, and not vindictive, the path of heartbreak will be long and arduous, buddy. quick remedy is to GET LAID ASAP, but thats not always easy especially when you're trying to get over something heavy. I would recommend club Exchange in LA since the chicks there are drunk and always loose and more often than not, hot b4 drinks. ALWAYS wrap your shit, buddy. Some chicks got the nasty. I sometimes see the same chick I boned a week ago whoring herself on another guy.

summary:
1) are you vindictive? if yes, do something that will REALLLY hurt her, but ONLY if you know for sure she's been fucking with you. if no, see step 2.
2) get laid, get a job, or chill with your single friends. you'd be surprised how much fun it is to be single. if you plan on getting laid, see step 3.
3a) ALWAYS wrap your shit, and NEVER get emotionally attached to the first girl you bone. this step is crucial, last thing you want to do is get diagnosed with herpes, gonorrhea, HPV, or aids. that shit is nasty. want proof? google it. sometimes that shit look like fried bacon.
3b) NEVER get emotionally attached. see video:

lot of info to digest, don't know if anyone will read. disclaimer: seek revenge at your own risk. don't come crying to me if you get arrested, your ass kicked, etc. c'mon, u asian. be smart about it.

no one? really? ok i'll do it then. picsoritdidn'thappen

coh4777 · 03-08-2011, 06:36 PM

I think for most people single means you are not in a serious relationship. People can go on dates and/or screw around and still be considered single.

jeiarneec · 03-08-2011, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by SchlauCow

is there an asian that doesn't get stomped on in any relationship?

lol i agree

on to the next 1!

BMW F22 · 03-08-2011, 11:29 PM

Breaking up is hard. Because you've invested so much in her that when you guys have broken up, it seems like the world just stops spinning. It's very difficult and no one likes to go through it. However, you MUST realize that there are a million other girls/things/etc. out there. That ONE girl ISN'T EVERYTHING!

The one thing you don't deserve is a stubborn gf (or ex-gf). I had an ex that was exactly like that. She NEVER admits when she's wrong. There's always an excuse but when YOU do the same thing she has a problem with it. I put up with it because I really cared about her. However, after her I vowed to never, ever go out with a stubborn girl again. I hate stupid and/or stubborn women. That kind of things would drive me insane!! In any relationship there's gotta be mutual respect, trust and understanding. If any of that is missing you're better off ending it early.

The best way to get over someone is to move on to the next. haha
You should surround yourself with friends and go do things you like to do. Volunteer your time if you're bored. Break-ups are never easy so getting over one is easier said than done but you have to try!!

BTM · 03-09-2011, 12:30 AM

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Originally Posted by SchlauCow

is there an asian that doesn't get stomped on in any relationship?

holy fuck I am lololololol

tha_good_life · 03-09-2011, 12:42 AM

Look, you guys are both young. You have plenty of time to find another gf. Plus, when you do find that one person, it will be better than your last. Just take it as it is and move forward. Surround yourself with good friends and company. Hey, when I was your age, I was hitting up the hostess and strip clubs daily! Good luck bro!

McMuffin · 03-09-2011, 01:42 AM

Post pics or your alleged GF is a guy!

Verbiage · 03-09-2011, 09:33 AM

Wtf tags lolz.

SpeedRacer69 · 03-09-2011, 01:38 PM

damn you guys are right about not taking her friends away. i feel so wrong now

i think a big part of it is because i don't have any girls that are friends. all my friends are guy friends so she doesn't even have to deal with it. i mean, she lets me go to bars and clubs by myself with my buddies, but it's not the same way with her. I'm feeling fucking horrible inside

FDfranklin · 03-09-2011, 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by SpeedRacer69

damn you guys are right about not taking her friends away. i feel so wrong now

i think a big part of it is because i don't have any girls that are friends. all my friends are guy friends so she doesn't even have to deal with it. i mean, she lets me go to bars and clubs by myself with my buddies, but it's not the same way with her. I'm feeling fucking horrible inside

Dude she was dating other guys pretty much.. fuck her go get a new girl

OC Guy · 03-09-2011, 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by SpeedRacer69

damn you guys are right about not taking her friends away. i feel so wrong now

i think a big part of it is because i don't have any girls that are friends. all my friends are guy friends so she doesn't even have to deal with it. i mean, she lets me go to bars and clubs by myself with my buddies, but it's not the same way with her. I'm feeling fucking horrible inside

Maybe she wanted a dick instead of a vagina.

Verbiage · 03-09-2011, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by OC 335i

Maybe she wanted a dick instead of a vagina.

McMuffin · 03-09-2011, 03:15 PM

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Originally Posted by OC 335i

Maybe she wanted a dick instead of a vagina.

Maybe OP just has a small dickl? Just stereotyping

karliejai · 03-09-2011, 03:27 PM

dude wtf? ur prolly like 21 or 22?

you got a whole life ahead of you. this girl sounds like a headache. Shes not even worthy of your time.

omgitselainee · 03-09-2011, 03:35 PM

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Originally Posted by karliejai

dude wtf? ur prolly like 21 or 22?

you got a whole life ahead of you. this girl sounds like a headache. Shes not even worthy of your time.

Not for nothing but ummm ......... i concur with the above !!

persian54 · 03-09-2011, 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by karliejai

dude wtf? ur prolly like 21 or 22?

you got a whole life ahead of you. this girl sounds like a headache. Shes not even worthy of your time.

Hey hey hey I'm 22

No stereotyping based on age

lol

I do agree with the bold though lol

I half agree with the underlined

grieverr · 03-09-2011, 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by SpeedRacer69

damn you guys are right about not taking her friends away. i feel so wrong now

i think a big part of it is because i don't have any girls that are friends. all my friends are guy friends so she doesn't even have to deal with it. i mean, she lets me go to bars and clubs by myself with my buddies, but it's not the same way with her. I'm feeling fucking horrible inside

Ugh.... stop saying that YOU did something wrong. You also agreed with someone who said that she was covering for her parents not liking you.

You see what you're doing there? You're blaming yourself and making it so that she's right. You're gonna go run to her any moment now, I'm predicting it. You will not be able to stay away from her.

I agree that you telling her not to see her guy friends was not a good move. However....
-she mentioned "what if we break up" multiple times. that already tells me her head/heart is not in it.
-she probably (in a way) made it so her family didn't attend your functions, because she was not that in to you and did not want to grow that family bond to someone who she would probably break up with anyway.

I know you've been through school and have a good job and are a productive member of this society. However, you are still young and inexperienced, and your ex-gf much more so. Your views and opinions will change in these next few years. Give it time, and then you'll be able to see what this relationship was and whether it can be something again. But for now at least, let it go.

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