Broke up with ex-gf after 1 year 4 months, *ASIAN ADVICE NEEDED*

JayKay335i · 03-10-2011, 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Bavarian III

Indeed. Or white mixed with anything. That always softens everything.

Nah. no mixes. I dont mix my 93 with 87.

Verbiage · 03-10-2011, 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by JayKay335i

Nah. no mixes. I dont mix my 93 with 87.

ROFL. Now that was a good one. You got it, bro.

elm3 · 03-10-2011, 11:38 AM

One of the reason I keep saying you can't trust women. They don't give a shit about anything. Atleast you found out early and not after you married the bitch. Women are only after what they want and that is it, after they get what they want, they'll drop you like a bad fucking habit. I don't like it when somebody tells me this, but you need to focus on yourself and forget about her, she is not worth it. No woman in this world is worth you hurting and dwelling on. It is easier said than done, but as time pass, you'll feel better and hurt less.

JayKay335i · 03-10-2011, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by elm3

One of the reason I keep saying you can't trust women. They don't give a shit about anything. Atleast you found out early and not after you married the bitch. Women are only after what they want and that is it, after they get what they want, they'll drop you like a bad fucking habit. I don't like it when somebody tells me this, but you need to focus on yourself and forget about her, she is not worth it. No woman in this world is worth you hurting and dwelling on. It is easier said than done, but as time pass, you'll feel better and hurt less.

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elm3 · 03-10-2011, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by JayKay335i

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Yeah, I guess I am bitter. Can't help it, I feel that way, because I've been screwed too.

BTM · 03-10-2011, 12:45 PM

getting screwed is the fun part

achien · 03-10-2011, 02:12 PM

move on, buddy.

she is definitely dating another guy already. the reason you guys were on and off is because she was hedging her bet and she was waiting a commitment from the other guy.

on the bright side, you are now free for another relationship.

Verbiage · 03-10-2011, 02:16 PM

Yo these thread tags are LMFAO.

OC Guy · 03-10-2011, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by achien

move on, buddy.

she is definitely banging another guy already. the reason you guys were on and off is because she was hedging her bet and she was waiting a commitment from the other guy.

on the bright side, you are now free for another relationship.

ftfy

1BMW4fun · 03-10-2011, 02:51 PM

This is a simple case of Asian mentality. The reason why she is one foot out the door is because her family brain washed her that she could do better (thats why she got them "guy friends"). I take it her family is your typical traditional Mandarin (Taiwanese, Shanghai-nese)? They tend to look down on other Asian races or even other provinces. To her dad, you are nothing but a dirty chinese, no matter if you are a doctor or an engineer. Time to move on.

chungdae · 03-10-2011, 02:51 PM

1. I can see why your girlfriend left you. You're a bit too needy, you're a wuss, and too dependent on her; when it should be the other way around. Did you play sports in middle school/high school? Girls like dating men, not other girls. Many girls look for men that know what they want, do what they want, make decisions on what they want, and sometimes putting her in her place when it's needed. Girls want to be dependent on the man. Start being a man; play sports and win, work out and gain some muscle mass, make choices that's good for you, buy a motorcycle, be care free, and make friends with beautiful people. You're girlfriend didn't respect you that's why she did the things she did not care if it bothered you or not. That "makeup" sex was pity sex.

2. Stop dating Asian girls and see what else is out there.

3. Be a man and stop crying.

persian54 · 03-10-2011, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by chungdae

2. Stop dating Asian girls and see what else is out there.

I tired that

I really really really tried.........

elm3 · 03-10-2011, 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by BTM

getting screwed is the fun part

I have to agree with you, but I did not mean that kind of screw....

SpeedRacer69 · 03-10-2011, 05:34 PM

man all of you guys are right, she just posted pics of her ex bf up on facebook. they're hanging out again. wow i bet this whole time she was cheating on me, that's so fucked up.

nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn · 03-10-2011, 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by SpeedRacer69

man all of you guys are right, she just posted pics of her ex bf up on facebook. they're hanging out again. wow i bet this whole time she was cheating on me, that's so fucked up.

Sounds like you need to go get laid... or get a special massage. Ask Jaykay, he probably knows where to go. Or ask Bav, he'll do it for free...

JayKay335i · 03-10-2011, 05:46 PM

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Originally Posted by ferrari355fi

Sounds like you need to go get laid... or get a special massage. Ask Jaykay, he probably knows where to go. Or ask Bav, he'll do it for free...

I know. Get at me brahh.

sam0182 · 03-10-2011, 07:09 PM

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Originally Posted by chungdae

1. I can see why your girlfriend left you. You're a bit too needy, you're a wuss, and too dependent on her; when it should be the other way around. Did you play sports in middle school/high school? Girls like dating men, not other girls. Many girls look for men that know what they want, do what they want, make decisions on what they want, and sometimes putting her in her place when it's needed. Girls want to be dependent on the man. Start being a man; play sports and win, work out and gain some muscle mass, make choices that's good for you, buy a motorcycle, be care free, and make friends with beautiful people. You're girlfriend didn't respect you that's why she did the things she did not care if it bothered you or not. That "makeup" sex was pity sex.

2. Stop dating Asian girls and see what else is out there.

3. Be a man and stop crying.

This.

And what I posted earlier.

Verbiage · 03-10-2011, 07:13 PM

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Originally Posted by ferrari355fi

Sounds like you need to go get laid... or get a special massage. Ask Jaykay, he probably knows where to go. Or ask Bav, he'll do it for free...

Baaaaahhhh..

ScaredOnce · 03-10-2011, 07:51 PM

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Originally Posted by SpeedRacer69

man all of you guys are right, she just posted pics of her ex bf up on facebook. they're hanging out again. wow i bet this whole time she was cheating on me, that's so fucked up.

Have you tried hitting her?

Verbiage · 03-10-2011, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by ScaredOnce

Have you tried hitting her?

This.

M3Bahn · 03-10-2011, 08:00 PM

Couple things.

She's asian - automatically deduct at least five years from her age to get close to her mental age.

She's 20 - WTF? You don't seriously date anyone unless they are at least 25yrs old. Too young for all that drama.

Promise Ring disappears - This shows zero respect to you and gave a clear message to where you guys were headed.

Her family hates you - game over

Constant fighting - chicks will create this tension so they can then say you guys don't get along blah blah blah.

Her hanging out with other guys - Means she is flirting and lining them up for the post break up. Next time you have a gf saying she wants to hangout with guy friends tell fine and you will do same with other chicks and see how she reacts.

She already broke it off with you mentally while back - she was just waiting for you to end it cause she knew you loved her and felt guilty.

Asian chicks are very attractive but they are the highest maintenance types on earth.

I have lived in asia as a westerner(laowai) and trust me this I know very well.

Do yourself a huge favor and go to link below and learn from your mistakes.

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/

persian54 · 03-10-2011, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by M3Bahn

Couple things.

She's asian - automatically deduct at least five years from her age to get close to her mental age.

She's 20 - WTF? You don't seriously date anyone unless they are at least 25yrs old. Too young for all that drama.

I disagree with the first one

If they're fobbing, then yeah.

But otherwise no.

Also.... OP is 20.

and as you can tell, rather inexperienced and not too mature himself.

Women mature faster than most me, and in his case, I doubt any 25 year old would hold much interest.

When I was 19 I dated a 24 year old and it was great and all......but LTR suck

and at 20 I dated a 23 year old. Got better.

Now, at 22 (almost 23) I'm dating a 20 year old and it's the most enjoyable relationship.

She likes to go out and have fun

Though I have to admit she can be naive and immature, especially compared to the older women....

But you can't ask the OP to date someone 25.

I would say if he dated an 18 year old he would be set.

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chungdae The Asian Sensation 59 Rep 708 Posts Drives: 2009 Alpine White M3, S1000RR Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Miami, FL iTrader: (2)	1. I can see why your girlfriend left you. You're a bit too needy, you're a wuss, and too dependent on her; when it should be the other way around. Did you play sports in middle school/high school? Girls like dating men, not other girls. Many girls look for men that know what they want, do what they want, make decisions on what they want, and sometimes putting her in her place when it's needed. Girls want to be dependent on the man. Start being a man; play sports and win, work out and gain some muscle mass, make choices that's good for you, buy a motorcycle, be care free, and make friends with beautiful people. You're girlfriend didn't respect you that's why she did the things she did not care if it bothered you or not. That "makeup" sex was pity sex. 2. Stop dating Asian girls and see what else is out there. 3. Be a man and stop crying. __________________ 2001 Audi S4: RIP 2008, Infiniti G37S: Traded 2009 Honda CBR1000RR Sold 2009 BMW M3: Current 2011 BMW S1000RR: Current
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M3Bahn Lieutenant 335 Rep 483 Posts Drives: M3 Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: ATL iTrader: (0)	Couple things. She's asian - automatically deduct at least five years from her age to get close to her mental age. She's 20 - WTF? You don't seriously date anyone unless they are at least 25yrs old. Too young for all that drama. Promise Ring disappears - This shows zero respect to you and gave a clear message to where you guys were headed. Her family hates you - game over Constant fighting - chicks will create this tension so they can then say you guys don't get along blah blah blah. Her hanging out with other guys - Means she is flirting and lining them up for the post break up. Next time you have a gf saying she wants to hangout with guy friends tell fine and you will do same with other chicks and see how she reacts. She already broke it off with you mentally while back - she was just waiting for you to end it cause she knew you loved her and felt guilty. Asian chicks are very attractive but they are the highest maintenance types on earth. I have lived in asia as a westerner(laowai) and trust me this I know very well. Do yourself a huge favor and go to link below and learn from your mistakes. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/
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