[BLUE LABEL]

Alright sadly the day has come when the playboi has met his match. Im really feelin this one girl that I have been dating for the past month or so. But its so hard for me to figure her out. If shes interested in more than just casual dating or a relationship - im thinking to give it time and things will sort themselves out - but besides the obvious things/signs girls throw out there - whats the weirdest thing a girl has done/shown to display the fact that she is you.

[Rewted]

Ummmm. be forward, ask! Or give me her address. I'll send her a note "Do you like him, check the box yes or no" after gym class.

[renegade]

prolly gonna have to go w/ the passive-aggressive txt msg.'s "what are you up to?", "How you doing?" etc.

she already kicks it w/ you, so just make your move and go for it before it's too late and you enter the friend zone. Try to get more personal space - your apt., one-on-one and see what's good

[BLUE LABEL]

thanks for the advice guys. Yeah already brought her to the pad, she'll crash at my place time to time esp after a night of boozin. She's told me of how shes been hurt in the past, la la la..all that BS so i think she's got commitment phobia or something like that. The girl drives a good distance just to come kick it with me. I guess Ive never really liked a chica, like I do this one and hence why the reason why i double guess myself in this situation.

[derek0480]

bang her

the rest will work itself out

[BLUE LABEL]

if i bang her, i think i might lose interest in her... That will definitely be a sad day..but point noted

[tryangles]

Go with the flow man. Everything else should fall into place. If you feel like you need to find out where her level of commitment is, be honest and tell her how you feel. And if she takes it the wrong way, say - Just kidding ho! - j/p I think you catch my drift. If she is mature about the situation and does care about you, she'll be honest with you and let you know where her place is in it all.

Good luck.

[Rewted]

Originally Posted by BLUE LABEL

thanks for the advice guys. Yeah already brought her to the pad, she'll crash at my place time to time esp after a night of boozin. She's told me of how shes been hurt in the past, la la la..all that BS so i think she's got commitment phobia or something like that. The girl drives a good distance just to come kick it with me. I guess Ive never really liked a chica, like I do this one and hence why the reason why i double guess myself in this situation.

Like I've suggested, put your insecurity aside and just ask her. If you're both on the same page, you've got nothing to loose and everything to gain. Open the conversation then slide in a: "I really enjoy your company and would like to spend more time getting to know you" Then follow up with a: "Where do you think this is heading?"

That is non-abrasive and open ended enough so she can give a simple answer to change the subject if feeling uncomfortable.

[BLUE LABEL]

i think the reason im diggin this girl is the fact that she is providing me a good chase. One of those gazels that wont give in... I will definitely continue the hunt on this one.
This chick cant do much better than what i can offer - i think that makes her feel insecure and the more reluctant in displaying her side. She tells me that it makes her feel uncomfortable discussing or talking about those things. This is where the dilemma comes in - I used to fork that line out to girls when I was just in it for the play/time pass. Dont you hate it when the tables turn.

[BLUE LABEL]

Originally Posted by tyrewt

Like I've suggested, put your insecurity aside and just ask her. If you're both on the same page, you've got nothing to loose and everything to gain. Open the conversation then slide in a: "I really enjoy your company and would like to spend more time getting to know you" Then follow up with a: "Where do you think this is heading?"

That is non-abrasive and open ended enough so she can give a simple answer to change the subject if feeling uncomfortable.

Thats a solid line..gotta remember it next time when the moment is right.

[!Xoible]

do her... then giver her space..

[finallyFI]

Originally Posted by tyrewt

Like I've suggested, put your insecurity aside and just ask her. If you're both on the same page, you've got nothing to loose and everything to gain. Open the conversation then slide in a: "I really enjoy your company and would like to spend more time getting to know you" Then follow up with a: "Where do you think this is heading?"

That is non-abrasive and open ended enough so she can give a simple answer to change the subject if feeling uncomfortable.

Speaking as a woman's point of view. I think this is a good suggestion. Just be honest. But at the same time if she feels uncomfortable talking about it, don't push it and leave it alone. From what I've read it looks like you're doing just fine. Gluck!

Originally Posted by mantis

do her... then giver her space..

[Drive_right]

I know when you first approach a girl they give signs of interest. They tend to touch their hair while they are speaking to you. They smile with teeth showing and if you get close enough to see their eyes their eyes will dialate. I dont know if this is usefull information but from my experience these are the things I look for and worked out for me in the past.
Goodluck!

[NaTuReB0Y]

[335i4u2nv]

[TurboFan]

If she's going out of her way to hang with you, she's obviously interested. Move at a reasonable pace. Have you had her neked yet? Try a little, but be prepared to shut it down if it's too quick. Have a backup plan to keep it from getting awkward.

BTW, how old is she, how old are you?

[TurboFan]

And there's no better way to say your into her than sticking your tongue down her throat and grabbing her tits at the same time.


It just may not go over well, but she'll know you're interested
She may also get you your very own restraining order.

[ArmyBimmerDude]

If you have any kind of game, then she'll let you know. Don't be a total dickhead and just let her come to you. As far as what a girls done to let me know she's into me? The last two girls, out of nowhere, french kissed me and told me to take her back to my place. Now I'm with a columbian chick that I'm crazy about and she feels the same way. You feel stuff like that.

[mpimping]

well i think I have post of the year on this one but won't reveal unless there is a reward. the craziest story u have ever heard. so crazy that most of u probably wouldn't believe it. Great thread by the way....

[Ru$$ell]

Originally Posted by BLUE LABEL

if i bang her, i WILL lose interest in her... That will definitely be a sad day..but point noted

Fixxed

[Jay_328]

It seems like she's digging you so I'm in the "just ask her" corner.

[BLUE LABEL]

you guys are halirious. Ill put a pic up of the specimen Im referring towards. Army dude - I know if i spit game to this one, i can bag her for sure but I actually have interest in this one beyond the chase ( i think? so far atleast) so kinda sparing the game. Dont get me wrong, im still keeping it interesting just trying not to get too much into playing games with her head. But this chick does get jealous around some of my other girl friends, she def smiles, gives me the right body language signs, but the one thing that annoys me is that she expects me to call.
On the issue of cockin her, Im just letting that go at her pace. Keep you all posted on the situation