Effin Aye

nunavut · 06-20-2008, 07:09 PM

I haven't been around on the forum long enough to be known, but I need some help from the fellas.

I've been talking to this girl for the past few months, on and off. We've known each other since we were kids. We never really saw each other in that special way till now. She lives 5 hours away now, but she's planning on moving to NY after she graduates in the fall. She'll be 16+ hours away then!

We've talked and the distance is the one thing holding her back. We really connect and click together. We're also at separate points in our lives. She's graduating and I've got business commitments here in town. She's the girl I really want to have in my life and I don't know what to do..

What do I do?

Thanks,

-JR

!Xoible · 06-20-2008, 07:11 PM

move on

there's plenty of fish in the sea.

reason why im gonna discourage you from ditching ur work and moving where she is, or making her move where u are, or maintain a long distance relationship is coz u guys havent really been together. if ur actually together u might not like it. it's just bigger risk to take such a commitment like moving or something.

jumpingjz · 06-20-2008, 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by ///Mantis

move on

there's plenty of fish in the sea.

reason why im gonna discourage you from ditching ur work and moving where she is, or making her move where u are, or maintain a long distance relationship is coz u guys havent really been together. if ur actually together u might not like it. it's just bigger risk to take such a commitment like moving or something.

oh wow wise words from the mantis...+1

JZ

solefald · 06-20-2008, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by ///Mantis

move on

there's plenty of fish in the sea.

reason why im gonna discourage you from ditching ur work and moving where she is, or making her move where u are, or maintain a long distance relationship is coz u guys havent really been together. if ur actually together u might not like it. it's just bigger risk to take such a commitment like moving or something.

i could not agree more. stop being a chump and making your life more difficult. im willing to bet money that there are hundreds of beautiful girls that you will click with, who live in your town.

nunavut · 06-22-2008, 01:14 PM

Sorry I was having a "chump" moment- Mod, delete thread if possible. Sorry to be a whiny- I guess I'm having nervous tension waiting for my M!

ksfrogman · 06-22-2008, 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by nunavut

Sorry I was having a "chump" moment- Mod, delete thread if possible. Sorry to be a whiny- I guess I'm having nervous tension waiting for my M!

Don't worry, that M3 will make it all feel better. Ask Mantis.

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nunavut Private First Class 13 Rep 131 Posts Drives: 2008 BMW M3 - SG/FR Join Date: May 2008 Location: Brentwood, TN iTrader: (2)	Sorry I was having a "chump" moment- Mod, delete thread if possible. Sorry to be a whiny- I guess I'm having nervous tension waiting for my M!
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