Found the perfect girl.... just one itty bitty problem

STi2Three35i · 08-14-2008, 10:03 AM

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Robertbog · 08-14-2008, 10:11 AM

Try not to be such a pussy, grow some balls, and take some initiative, show some desire. Chicks named Ash want you to make the moves sir, not fumble. Meant in the most caring way possible of course.

satakal · 08-14-2008, 10:12 AM

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iatacs19 · 08-14-2008, 10:12 AM

Text her back and offer to take her to dinner since you actually seem to like this girl. (Don't do lunch) Make the text short and to the point, never ask, always offer.

Then if things go well during dinner, invite her to your friend's birthday party. Don't be discouraged if she says no. You can never know failure unless you try.

MMMazing07 · 08-14-2008, 10:12 AM

dude chill out. she wants to get to know you. just invite her to the party and see how it un-folds.

Park2670 · 08-14-2008, 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted by iatacs19

Text her back and offer to take her to dinner since you actually seem to like this girl. (Don't do lunch) Make the text short and to the point, never ask, always offer.

Then if things go well during dinner, invite her to your friend's birthday party. Don't be discouraged if she says no. You can never know failure unless you try.

I like this suggestion the most. If things truely are going to work out, you just have to be confident, and ask her out. Say lets do dinner, and then just be yourself.

pusha-t325i · 08-14-2008, 10:16 AM

Text her and invite her to the party she only can say 2 things and tell her to bring the friends so your friends at the party can have some people to kick it with also...you also need a womans opinion on this is there any in the forum that can help this homie!!!!

Couch · 08-14-2008, 10:18 AM

I think I would call her on the first attempt and ask if she'd like to grab a cup of coffee or something. Not Starbucks, like a local java house that's not packed and yall can chat.

See where it goes from there.

Note, learn from a past mistake of mine. If I would have just expressed myself to a girl I was into back in college it would have changed a lot of things. Go for it.

MadDog · 08-14-2008, 10:19 AM

Dude, you've taken a LOT of time asking this girl out. WTF is wrong with you ???

wakeboarder109 · 08-14-2008, 10:19 AM

Yea, obviously she wants to get to know you. Man up and call her, texting is a cop out. Make sure and keep it short though

gonzo · 08-14-2008, 10:19 AM

In no way do I approve of the leopard belt, but you get the idea.

Park2670 · 08-14-2008, 10:22 AM

Hmm, that does look quite fun. If you dont man up and do it, Can I have her number?

STi2Three35i · 08-14-2008, 10:29 AM

I havnt done anything yet cause she goes to school in Delaware, I was busy with school here in philly. Plus i didnt want to come off as a stalker ... oh yeah and my dad said that he always sees some young guy pick her up in a CLK430. HAHA my dads got my back like chiropract. SO that sorta discouraged me.

I dont think i can do that whole coffee ordeal. I would rather just go to the party with her. Plus all my friends will be there , a lot of them girls that adore me. So im thinking that would help, cause then she'll see im a BALLERRRRRRR haha

Couch · 08-14-2008, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by STi2Three35i

I havnt done anything yet cause she goes to school in Delaware, I was busy with school here in philly. Plus i didnt want to come off as a stalker ... oh yeah and my dad said that he always sees some young guy pick her up in a CLK430. HAHA my dads got my back like chiropract. SO that sorta discouraged me.

I dont think i can do that whole coffee ordeal. I would rather just go to the party with her. Plus all my friends will be there , a lot of them girls that adore me. So im thinking that would help, cause then she'll see im a BALLERRRRRRR haha

I wasn't saying not go to the party. I was thinking if you had time before or days afterwards to.

gonzo · 08-14-2008, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by STi2Three35i

I havnt done anything yet cause she goes to school in Delaware, I was busy with school here in philly. Plus i didnt want to come off as a stalker ... oh yeah and my dad said that he always sees some young guy pick her up in a CLK430. HAHA my dads got my back like chiropract. SO that sorta discouraged me.

I dont think i can do that whole coffee ordeal. I would rather just go to the party with her. Plus all my friends will be there , a lot of them girls that adore me. So im thinking that would help, cause then she'll see im a BALLERRRRRRR haha

OK, you really need to get over this.....

Park2670 · 08-14-2008, 10:45 AM

Baller or not, its your personality that makes all the difference in the world.

STi2Three35i · 08-14-2008, 10:52 AM

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OK, you really need to get over this.....

Get over what? The girl? your crazy

BMdblU · 08-14-2008, 10:53 AM

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Originally Posted by STi2Three35i

Get over what? The girl? your crazy

no , you being so uber ballaer

STi2Three35i · 08-14-2008, 10:54 AM

haha i was kidding, i was not being serious at all

DimSumBoy · 08-14-2008, 10:58 AM

well, seems like dinner shouldnt be a problem..CPK :P
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Hedges · 08-14-2008, 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Robertbog

Try not to be such a pussy, grow some balls, and take some initiative, show some desire. Chicks named Ash want you to make the moves sir, not fumble. Meant in the most caring way possible of course.

Listen to this man!

I335 · 08-14-2008, 11:22 AM

Too late OP - I just called her and we're going away for the weekend together...

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Couch Colonel 146 Rep 2,900 Posts Drives: E92 335i Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Houston iTrader: (0) Garage List 2007 E92 335i [0.00]	I think I would call her on the first attempt and ask if she'd like to grab a cup of coffee or something. Not Starbucks, like a local java house that's not packed and yall can chat. See where it goes from there. Note, learn from a past mistake of mine. If I would have just expressed myself to a girl I was into back in college it would have changed a lot of things. Go for it.
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MadDog Careful, I Bite..... 157 Rep 504 Posts Drives: 2006 325i Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: S.F. Bay Area iTrader: (0) Garage List 2006 325i [7.50]	Dude, you've taken a LOT of time asking this girl out. WTF is wrong with you ???
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wakeboarder109 Lieutenant Colonel 180 Rep 1,734 Posts Drives: in High Country Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: RVA iTrader: (3)	Yea, obviously she wants to get to know you. Man up and call her, texting is a cop out. Make sure and keep it short though
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Park2670 General 361 Rep 18,218 Posts Drives: Tesla Model 3 Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: UTAH iTrader: (8)	Hmm, that does look quite fun. If you dont man up and do it, Can I have her number?
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STi2Three35i Second Lieutenant 56 Rep 264 Posts Drives: 2008 335i Coupe-J.Black/C.Red Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Philly Burbs - Main Line iTrader: (0)	I havnt done anything yet cause she goes to school in Delaware, I was busy with school here in philly. Plus i didnt want to come off as a stalker ... oh yeah and my dad said that he always sees some young guy pick her up in a CLK430. HAHA my dads got my back like chiropract. SO that sorta discouraged me. I dont think i can do that whole coffee ordeal. I would rather just go to the party with her. Plus all my friends will be there , a lot of them girls that adore me. So im thinking that would help, cause then she'll see im a BALLERRRRRRR haha
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Park2670 General 361 Rep 18,218 Posts Drives: Tesla Model 3 Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: UTAH iTrader: (8)	Baller or not, its your personality that makes all the difference in the world.
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STi2Three35i Second Lieutenant 56 Rep 264 Posts Drives: 2008 335i Coupe-J.Black/C.Red Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Philly Burbs - Main Line iTrader: (0)	haha i was kidding, i was not being serious at all
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I335 Brigadier General 126 Rep 4,248 Posts Drives: '08 335i Coupe Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: New England iTrader: (11)	Too late OP - I just called her and we're going away for the weekend together...
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