Do you fight with your SO for bed space?

Lady Jane · 11-21-2021, 08:37 AM

And also get blanket burn?

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cmyx6go · 11-21-2021, 09:24 AM

I used to. My ex husband would sleep all the way over on my side of the king size bed or lay diagonal. Drove me nuts.

Buug959 · 11-21-2021, 09:26 AM

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I used to. My ex husband would sleep all the way over on my side of the king size bed or lay diagonal. Drove me nuts.

Hence "Ex" husband.

wtwo3 · 11-21-2021, 09:29 AM

We're pretty good about bed space. She's small, 5' nothing, so our king size is more than enough space.

It's the 4 year old monster that comes running into our room every night at 3am and then decides to lay horizontally that ruins things.

F32Fleet · 11-21-2021, 09:52 AM

funny. I knew a couple who slept in different beds. They were born in the 1960's.

Tommy-G · 11-21-2021, 10:09 AM

only fighting for space is with this guy

bvrider1 · 11-21-2021, 10:21 AM

I fight for space to get away from her. I like to sleep cold.

DocL · 11-21-2021, 10:27 AM

The wife and I don't fight for bed space. It the two dogs who we fight with and neither dog is over 20lbs lol.

M_Six · 11-21-2021, 12:05 PM

Wifey sleeps along the center line of the bed, but luckily I'm an edge sleeper, so we rarely lack for individual space.

Alfisti · 11-21-2021, 03:00 PM

We are polar opposites with bedding, i use very little and she absolutely LOADS up so there's this massive fort between us. Well there was, I have been using the spare rom for a while now, we are both horrible sleepers and we keep waking each other up in the same room, further reducing our sleep.

ntg44 · 11-21-2021, 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by F32Fleet

funny. I knew a couple who slept in different beds. They were born in the 1960's.

My wife and I sleep in different beds. Makes life so much easier.

vreihen16 · 11-21-2021, 04:09 PM

I have to deal with heat-seeking feet a few times per week. Even with my reduced circulation, they still subconsciously lock onto my feet and push them off of the bed and onto the floor. I usually move to the couch until the next nature call strikes, which is enough time for the heat-seeking feet to lock onto OCD psycho dog and free my side of the bed back up again.

You have no idea how difficult it is for me to avoid tossing a few ice packs or bags of frozen veggies into the bed to reclaim my spot on some nights.....

upstatedoc · 11-21-2021, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Alfisti

We are polar opposites with bedding, i use very little and she absolutely LOADS up so there's this massive fort between us. Well there was, I have been using the spare rom for a while now, we are both horrible sleepers and we keep waking each other up in the same room, further reducing our sleep.

Alf, this sounds eerily familiar, like before my divorce

Alfisti · 11-21-2021, 04:39 PM

We'd prefer to be in the same bed but we have both regressed sleeping wise, we shuffle about a lot, we both bathroom break often. We were getting maybe 3 to 4 hrs a night in the same bed. We are also both ABSOLUTELY HORIBLE at falling back asleep after waking, can take hrs.

Dino GT · 11-21-2021, 06:39 PM

We have a King size bed and we are both edge sleepers, sometimes I have to feel around to see if the wife is in bed

RickFLM4 · 11-21-2021, 06:55 PM

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Originally Posted by DocL

The wife and I don't fight for bed space. It the two dogs who we fight with and neither dog is over 20lbs lol.

x2

Sara · 11-21-2021, 07:43 PM

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Originally Posted by wtwo3

We're pretty good about bed space. She's small, 5' nothing, so our king size is more than enough space.

It's the 4 year old monster that comes running into our room every night at 3am and then decides to lay horizontally that ruins things.

+1

My 7 yr old flops around like a fish. She has to be touching me. It was cute as an infant, not so much now.

unluky · 11-21-2021, 07:43 PM

We both sleep great most nights. Of course most nights we sleep in different states from each other, so that could be the reason........

wtwo3 · 11-21-2021, 08:01 PM

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+1

My 7 yr old flops around like a fish. She has to be touching me. It was cute as an infant, not so much now.

Oh man.... are you saying I have at least another 3 years of this?? Was hoping she'd grow out of this phase by 5...

gunsmoker · 11-21-2021, 08:08 PM

We have a queen size bed and we spoon. Have been for 25 years.

Sara · 11-21-2021, 08:12 PM

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Oh man.... are you saying I have at least another 3 years of this?? Was hoping she'd grow out of this phase by 5...

I allow it, so maybe you’ll have better luck if you tell your daughter no

tranquility · 11-21-2021, 08:16 PM

How are some of you guys still married? Haha.

We don't move around much and sleep in a king so no prbs at all.

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Alfisti Brigadier General 7058 Rep 3,325 Posts Drives: 2008 Saab 9-3 Combi Join Date: Nov 2014 Location: Toronto, Canada iTrader: (0)	We are polar opposites with bedding, i use very little and she absolutely LOADS up so there's this massive fort between us. Well there was, I have been using the spare rom for a while now, we are both horrible sleepers and we keep waking each other up in the same room, further reducing our sleep.
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