why do females think it's okay to have an irrational answer in an argument

Oregano123 · 07-12-2010, 03:20 AM

I ask them very probing questions and here are some that I remember off the cuff:

- I wouldn't like it, that's just it.
- I really like it. No reason though.
- Because that's how I feel.

and the most deftly used one:
- It's a personal choice.

Dan in PA · 07-12-2010, 03:44 AM

For the same reason we can use "GB2Kitchen" to end an argument.

templarklimek · 07-12-2010, 04:01 AM

women live in a world of situational ethics. meaing they have none. They tend to feel rather than think. Not knowing or caring if such feelings are based on childhood, past experiences or cultural programming.

ChineseGuy · 07-12-2010, 04:40 AM

Man have a need to make sense.

Woman, on the other hand, do not.

ybbiz34 · 07-12-2010, 10:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ChineseGuy

Man have a need to make sense.

Woman, on the other hand, do not.

Maestro · 07-12-2010, 10:19 AM

Actually it is not irrational answers but the irrational questions they ask, or the question which is design to have no right or rational answer so you loose no matter how you answer it.

One thing I gave gotten very good at over the years is asking what I call the a women question. Do it sometime to a women and watch them freak out especially when they fire back a question and you provide one of those irrational answers.

number335 · 07-12-2010, 10:28 AM

they do that so they can tell their girl friends how fucked up you are for not understanding them.

bolinp78 · 07-12-2010, 10:32 AM

If you aren't married yet, just wait. Whole lotta not making sense.

Feyd · 07-12-2010, 11:03 AM

You gotta set the precident early with women that you aren't going to put up with their their mindfuck shit. I always told girls that I dated right up front that if you want me to answer, quit asking loaded questions.

Just don't play their game man, it isn't worth it.

Oh, and it helps if you have a huge dick too... they tend to be more "willing" to accept defeat.

MisterSkiMask · 07-12-2010, 11:13 AM

Your question is flawed, "why do females think it's okay to have an irrational answer in an argument"

They don't think, they either 'do' or 'do not do' with no reason. Often times there is no correlation between thinking, discussing, agreeing to do, and doing.

I think they operate more on instinct and feeling then logic, or rational thought. Don’t waste your time trying to figure it out. Pick your battles, and try to adjust your environment and habits to keep yourself from going crazy.

For example, my wife will not turn off a light, this makes me crazy. The bathroom lights are the biggest offenders, so I put in motion sensitive lights in the bathroom, problem solved argument avoided.

Feyd · 07-12-2010, 11:45 AM

@ :50

MisterSkiMask · 07-12-2010, 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Feyd

@ :50

Yup, I was thinking about that movie when I read the thread title

one of the greatist movie lines

335e92tx · 07-12-2010, 12:29 PM

Actually, its not that simple (what normally is? ), my wife is very rational and practical. But its when emotions cloud thinking that all that goes out the window. Men also do what is called 'compartmentalizing' (excessively in some cases), so these things don't really influence other actions.

OC Guy · 07-12-2010, 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by bmwhype

I ask them very probing questions and here are some that I remember off the cuff:

- I wouldn't like it, that's just it.
- I really like it. No reason though.
- Because that's how I feel.

and the most deftly used one:
- It's a personal choice.

You trying to PITTB?

Feyd · 07-12-2010, 01:00 PM

I thought this same thing when I read the first post.

ideliver · 07-12-2010, 01:28 PM

because they have breasts and a vagina that you want to see and touch

number335 · 07-12-2010, 01:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by OC 335i

You trying to PITTB?

lol. He did say it was a probing question.

OC Guy · 07-12-2010, 01:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by number335

lol. He did say it was a probing question.

Verbiage · 07-12-2010, 01:42 PM

Women have vaginas. They say what they want.

Feyd · 07-12-2010, 02:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by OC 335i

LOLGROSS

OC Guy · 07-12-2010, 02:10 PM

ya i know i was lazy. google images and i didnt go past page 2 lol.

py335 · 07-12-2010, 02:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ChineseGuy

Man have a need to make sense.

Woman, on the other hand, do not.

This

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Maestro Major 1083 Rep 1,268 Posts Drives: 2007 335i Sedan, 2021 X3 Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Philadelphia iTrader: (0)	Actually it is not irrational answers but the irrational questions they ask, or the question which is design to have no right or rational answer so you loose no matter how you answer it. One thing I gave gotten very good at over the years is asking what I call the a women question. Do it sometime to a women and watch them freak out especially when they fire back a question and you provide one of those irrational answers.
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MisterSkiMask Banned 151 Rep 2,014 Posts Drives: I Can not say Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: you must not know iTrader: (0)	Your question is flawed, "why do females think it's okay to have an irrational answer in an argument" They don't think, they either 'do' or 'do not do' with no reason. Often times there is no correlation between thinking, discussing, agreeing to do, and doing. I think they operate more on instinct and feeling then logic, or rational thought. Don’t waste your time trying to figure it out. Pick your battles, and try to adjust your environment and habits to keep yourself from going crazy. For example, my wife will not turn off a light, this makes me crazy. The bathroom lights are the biggest offenders, so I put in motion sensitive lights in the bathroom, problem solved argument avoided.
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