so my brother just told me he was gay...

2009BMW335 · 02-12-2007, 02:02 PM

j/k

cm3rc · 02-12-2007, 02:24 PM

its cool bro one of my homies is gay. yet we dont find him different.

NaTuReB0Y · 02-12-2007, 02:33 PM

my cousin was married and had 4 kids before coming out of the closet........

obviously, he's no longer married.....and his wife remarried.

we always knew he was gay while growing up....

his parents never excepted the idea until he came out!

2009BMW335 · 02-12-2007, 02:41 PM

my parents were perfectly ok with it. my dad's a doctor so obviously he told him to be pretty careful in that sense, but otherwise they were just happy he was comfortable enough in telling us, since obviously it mustve taken a lot to do that

darkcloud · 02-12-2007, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by NaTuReB0Y

my cousin was married and had 4 kids before coming out of the closet........

obviously, he's no longer married.....and his wife remarried.

we always knew he was gay while growing up....

his parents never excepted the idea until he came out!

That sounds like the future of my one friend haha. He acts soo gay sometimes yet has a decently hot g/f right now. It's just his manerisms and the way he goes about things that makes someone think he may be gay. I remember in HS his parents told a few friends and I..."to stop playing with Michael's emotions"

. He still hasn't heard the end of that one.

Back on topic though. Good for your brother man. He prolly feels a lot better with himself and thats all that really matters in the end.

FotiosF90M5 · 02-12-2007, 03:09 PM

One of my wifes friends (a girl) is gay and just got married down here on the cape ( wierd wedding..but cool) and everyone supports them,and they are very succesfull too. the only thing that really matters is that your brother knows that you, your family and his friends support him.fuck everyone else. and props for your brother coming out and to you because the way your handling it.Its all good.

picus · 02-12-2007, 03:11 PM

He's lucky to have a family that supports him. Big thumbsup to you and your parents. A lot of families would have reacted differently.

ga-bmwdrvr · 02-12-2007, 03:25 PM

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the only thing that really matters is that your brother knows that you, your family and his friends support him.fuck everyone else. and props for your brother coming out and to you because the way your handling it.Its all good.

+1, it sounds like he already has the support he needs, the one that really matters

cm3rc · 02-12-2007, 03:48 PM

^ +2

enwhykiid · 02-12-2007, 03:59 PM

i cant say that i have any gay relatives but i have friends that are gay, i treat them no different than the others and when were around them they act no differently than before they came out

Dmitriy@AUTOcouture · 02-12-2007, 04:05 PM

I never understood why some people hate on gay people. A couple of my coworkers are gay and they are just as normal as anybody else...

BMW F22 · 02-12-2007, 06:19 PM

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I never understood why some people hate on gay people. A couple of my coworkers are gay and they are just as normal as anybody else...

I think it's just the way society brought some of us up to be that way. I personally dont have anything against gay peeps. Although I dont know anyone that's gay, I dont see how it's justifiable to treat those peeps differently.

Jaws · 02-12-2007, 08:32 PM

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I think it's just the way society brought some of us up to be that way. I personally dont have anything against gay peeps. Although I dont know anyone that's gay, I dont see how it's justifiable to treat those peeps differently.

You know someone who is gay, it's statistically impossible not to. They just haven't come out yet.

longtran · 02-12-2007, 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by cm3rc

its cool bro one of my homies is gay. yet we dont find him different.

not one of the 2 guys that was at the meet?

Nikki · 02-12-2007, 08:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Jaws

You know someone who is gay, it's statistically impossible not to. They just haven't come out yet.

especially if he lives in san francisco lol

BMW F22 · 02-12-2007, 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Nikki

especially if he lives in san francisco lol

lol I dont live in SF. But what's with that SF thing?? I've heard a lot of about it but just thought it was a joke.

SES_D · 02-12-2007, 09:50 PM

omg...will you all stop with the SF thing. lol. IT'S ONE PART OF SF DAMMIT! Known as the CASTRO district...so please referr to it as CASTRO in SF! lol.

But yeah...gay peepz are normally hella cooler and chill then straights. Freals.

2009BMW335 · 02-13-2007, 10:12 AM

yea, i'm a lot less shocked than i was a few days ago. life goes on and it's really not that big of a deal. it's nice to see a lot of you are tolerant

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