02-09-2011, 04:36 PM | #1 |
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don't take this too seriously
This is just a rant, and does not apply to all women. I'm going to sound very misogynistic but just bear with me.
We all have work, we all have stress, we all have that stuck up boss who makes more money than us but has the intellectual capacity as a box of popcorn. We all have trials and tribulations, pasts that eat away at us, feelings that we hide. But why is it that women have so much trouble channeling this stress into a more positive energy? I work out when I'm stressed. I go for a run, lift weights, shoot some hoops, any sort of hobby to get my mind off the negatives of school and work. It's called extra-carricular activities and is very healthy for the mind, body, and soul and is a sound way to deal with everyday stress. All the women in my life just can't seem to understand why men can be so laid-back about shit. It's not that we don't care, we just don't see it as a problem worth talking about. It's an inevitable element of life, so why cry over spilled milk? My boss bitches, I don't complain. I got loads of homework and midterm stress but I keep it up in silent serenity. I see my goals in life and understand that the stressful workload I experience today will make me stronger in the future. It's called motivation and determination, something that allows people to excel and progress in life. Why do women want equal rights, yet do not understand the separation of negative emotion is key in obtaining your goals? Being sour, reluctant, vocal, or petty about your problems isn't going to make anyone feel sorry for you, it's just going to PISS THEM OFF. You have a problem? Deal with that shit. Find a solution, don't just stand around and cry. I understand that there's a lot of independent women out there who do have aspirations and are able to maintain them with two kids while studying for their bachelors. I'm not talking about you. I'm talking about the women who rant about equal rights, equal pay, etc. etc. but get their panties all up in a bunch when they feel they're getting fucked by the big dick of the man. Don't talk about the same problems day after day after day if you're not even at the least try to find a solution. If you don't have a solution to your problem, and can't find a healthy way to channel your aggression (you're too tired, boo fucking hoo we're ALL tired) then stfu you're too stupid and should give the fuck up. This is America, where you have to work hard to get what you want. If you want to be a complaining piece of shit then move your ass to Italy or France where the unemployment pay is higher than minimum wage. Otherwise, bite your lip, shut the fuck up, and find a solution. Just had to get that off my chest. /rant
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Though I hate generalizations, if I had to make a similar observation, based upon my interactions (which are completely anecdotal), it's that females tend to seek empathy whilst males tend to seek solutions. So for men, the response to stress from work is to attempt to alleviate that stress. For women, it's to talk about it, which often comes across as bitching or complaining but at least in my experiences they just seem to be wired to talk about shit and get it off their chest, while men will just take it for what it is, gain nothing from talking about it with an unrelated party (unless it's a specific piece of advice they're asking for), and go about what makes them feel better.
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I would never hit a female, but it did feel good just writing this rant haha
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02-09-2011, 05:03 PM | #7 |
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Guys get pissed(i.e. a thread gets created like this one) when they forget that women are not guys. Women live by their emotions and heart. Guys live by their logic and brain. You cannot be logical when you are emotional. Therefore, women are illogical.
Problem solved. Next thread. Last edited by nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn; 02-09-2011 at 06:40 PM.. |
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OP if you get pissed about it now, shat aint going to change anytime soon. All that emotional shat comes along on the extra x chromosome.
The sooner you realize this, the better off you will be in the long run. Some battles ARE NOT WORTH FIGHTING!!!!! |
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not bitching, just labeling it as an inevitability
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i've accepted it.. because switching sides and dating men (or lesbians) is not an option. thx for the words, e90post
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i'm all for equal rights between men and women, but the reality is is that it's merely selective equality they want, women want all the pros but none of the cons...
they want the bigger paycheck, but don't want to lift the heavier weight... |
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02-09-2011, 06:42 PM | #18 |
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I had a teacher who was a feminist, and she did not appreciate me debating this subject. I'd laugh after I get her really worked up about it.
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