Infidelity

skinnycow · 03-21-2011, 01:45 PM

writing a paper on infidelity.

please answer to which suits your situation best, thanks guys.

yakev724 · 03-21-2011, 01:51 PM

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infidelity

surprised at how extensive the wiki article is; gl

nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn · 03-21-2011, 01:54 PM

What is it when you break a couple up for your own personal gain?

Hypothetically speaking, that is...

CasperSYTFU · 03-21-2011, 01:56 PM

^douche bag move? lol

voted.

Tondtar · 03-21-2011, 02:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ferrari355fi

What is it when you break a couple up for your own personal gain?

Hypothetically speaking, that is...

Quote:

Originally Posted by CasperSYTFU

^douche bag move? lol

voted.

Really? ...I thought it was another "Survival of the Fittest" moves.

Augenbrauezug · 03-21-2011, 02:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ferrari355fi

What is it when you break a couple up for your own personal gain?

Hypothetically speaking, that is...

Smart move

CollinsE90 · 03-21-2011, 02:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ferrari355fi

What is it when you break a couple up for your own personal gain?

Hypothetically speaking, that is...

A guarantee she will slob another guys joystick later when you are dating her

nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn · 03-21-2011, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by CollinsE90

A guarantee she will slob another guys joystick later when you are dating her

who said anything about dating

skinnycow · 03-21-2011, 02:15 PM

"once a cheater always a cheater" do you guys think this statement is true?

CollinsE90 · 03-21-2011, 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by ferrari355fi

who said anything about dating

Then I feel sorry for the other guy, because she would of done it with another guy if it wasn't you. Douchebag for doing it, but not entirely to blame for it either.

nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn · 03-21-2011, 02:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by skinnycow

"once a cheater always a cheater" do you guys think this statement is true?

yes

Blake · 03-21-2011, 02:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by skinnycow

"once a cheater always a cheater" do you guys think this statement is true?

not necessarily.

ideliver · 03-21-2011, 02:18 PM

Women cheat because they are unhappy in their current relationship and have unmet needs

Men cheat because of opportunity

/thread

CollinsE90 · 03-21-2011, 02:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by skinnycow

"once a cheater always a cheater" do you guys think this statement is true?

IMO, yes

Verbiage · 03-21-2011, 02:18 PM

Looks like a lot of dudes got played. Am I seriously one of two dudes who have cheated but have never gotten cheated on?

Verbiage · 03-21-2011, 02:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ideliver

Women cheat because they are unhappy in their current relationship and have unmet needs

Men cheat because of opportunity

/thread

This. Unless the woman is a whore.

stimpy · 03-21-2011, 02:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by skinnycow

"once a cheater always a cheater" do you guys think this statement is true?

Absolutely not although I'm sure that's the case most of the time.

I've cheated once a long time ago and I felt like a complete tool and vowed to never do it again.

CollinsE90 · 03-21-2011, 02:32 PM

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Originally Posted by stimpy

Absolutely not although I'm sure that's the case most of the time.

I've cheated once a long time ago and I felt like a complete tool and vowed to never do it again.

There are always exceptions to anything, but as an overall consensus I believe it to be true. Because to me cheating isnt an act, its a mindset. If you are the person who would cheat in a heartbeat but put in a location with zero chance, you wouldnt cheat, but put that person in an area where it is easy, they will. Same with a person who would never cheat, you put them in a scenario they could cheat all day, but have the mental strength and morals to turn it down, they of course wouldnt. Just because you havent cheated, doesnt mean you wouldnt if you had the chance, the chance just might have not came yet, and vice versa.

Say you and your wife in the future turn for the worse relationship wise, and the option of cheating arises, most likely you would still do it because you were able to let yourself do it in the past.

Personally, I couldnt let myself go through with it.

skinnycow · 03-21-2011, 02:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CollinsE90

There are always exceptions to anything, but as an overall consensus I believe it to be true. Because to me cheating isnt an act, its a mindset. If you are the person who would cheat in a heartbeat but put in a location with zero chance, you wouldnt cheat, but put that person in an area where it is easy, they will. Same with a person who would never cheat, you put them in a scenario they could cheat all day, but have the mental strength and morals to turn it down, they of course wouldnt. Just because you havent cheated, doesnt mean you wouldnt if you had the chance, the chance just might have not came yet, and vice versa.

Say you and your wife in the future turn for the worse relationship wise, and the option of cheating arises, most likely you would still do it because you were able to let yourself do it in the past.

Personally, I couldnt let myself go through with it.

some of my friends who's cheated says it's hard not to cheat again once you've cross that line.

Tondtar · 03-21-2011, 02:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by skinnycow

some of my friends who's cheated says it's hard not to cheat again once you've cross the line.

I imagine you get better in hiding it or making it feel more normal but I don't think it gets any easier if you have a conscious.

CasperSYTFU · 03-21-2011, 02:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CollinsE90

There are always exceptions to anything, but as an overall consensus I believe it to be true. Because to me cheating isnt an act, its a mindset. If you are the person who would cheat in a heartbeat but put in a location with zero chance, you wouldnt cheat, but put that person in an area where it is easy, they will. Same with a person who would never cheat, you put them in a scenario they could cheat all day, but have the mental strength and morals to turn it down, they of course wouldnt. Just because you havent cheated, doesnt mean you wouldnt if you had the chance, the chance just might have not came yet, and vice versa.

Say you and your wife in the future turn for the worse relationship wise, and the option of cheating arises, most likely you would still do it because you were able to let yourself do it in the past.

Personally, I couldnt let myself go through with it.

i feel 120% the same.

iBoost · 03-21-2011, 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Tondtar

I imagine you get better in hiding it or making it feel more normal but I don't think it gets any easier if you have a conscious.

THIS! Gotta learn from your mistakes, and not repeat them again.

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