What to ask father marry Daughter

Grail05 · 07-07-2011, 10:26 AM

Ok i have been engage for almost a year but her dad does not know it yet... We have been together for almost 6 years and NOW ITS TIME TO ASK HER DAD for hes blessing to marry his daughter... NOW we are planning on getting married next year.

OK a little about hes dad... Hes old Fashion, old and a bit scary and intimidating. BUT he likes me. no problem what so ever... although he is not in the country and rarely comes only visit twice or 3 times a year, now this is going to be a phone call and i know hes expecting me to call...

now im clueless on what to say i know i have to tell him how much i love his daughter and that i will do everything in my power to make her happy...

but im just clueless... any suggestion ....

KingOfJericho · 07-07-2011, 10:30 AM

Speak from your heart, bro.

In all seriousness I had to do this in the fall to her parents who do not speak English so don't try and tell me your situation is difficult. Use your words. Tell him how much she means to you and how happy she makes you and that you would like his permission to marry her. In the great words of Steve Brule, "isss not that hard!"

Quick6EF · 07-07-2011, 10:32 AM

Ignorance is bliss. Dont call

Grail05 · 07-07-2011, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by KingOfJericho

Speak from your heart, bro.

In all seriousness I had to do this in the fall to her parents who do not speak English so don't try and tell me your situation is difficult. Use your words. Tell him how much she means to you and how happy she makes you and that you would like his permission to marry her. In the great words of Steve Brule, "isss not that hard!"

thanks bro, i guess ill try to just call and say it all instead of having a piece of paper and rehears... maybe its the best way.... well i have about 8 hours to do this...

panicos81 · 07-07-2011, 10:36 AM

emm hello sir,i´m sure you know i´ve been having sex with your daughter for the past six years.. well i have decided to make it official!!!

KingOfJericho · 07-07-2011, 10:38 AM

You shouldn't need a piece of paper to remember a few key lines:

I just wanted to let you know that I love and care for your daughter very much and she really means the world to me. She makes me happier than anyone ever has which is why I would like to ask you permission to marry her and spend the rest of my life with her.

BOOM HEADSHOT.

Grail05 · 07-07-2011, 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by KingOfJericho

You shouldn't need a piece of paper to remember a few key lines:

I just wanted to let you know that I love and care for your daughter very much and she really means the world to me. She makes me happier than anyone ever has which is why I would like to ask you permission to marry her and spend the rest of my life with her.

BOOM HEADSHOT.

dang thats pretty darn straight... nice and simple... i like.. it...

Grail05 · 07-07-2011, 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by panicos81

emm hello sir,i´m sure you know i´ve been having sex with your daughter for the past six years.. well i have decided to make it official!!!

OH if i do i will get the beating of my life... TRUST ME.. he beat the crap out of her sisters husband... LOL hes a fawking A HOLE..

Comet · 07-07-2011, 10:54 AM

so long as you don't email him, because I don't think you know how to use "he", "his", "her", "he's" very well

just speak your heart

chungdae · 07-07-2011, 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Sean05

OH if i do i will get the beating of my life... TRUST ME.. he beat the crap out of he sisters husband... LOL hes a fawking A HOLE..

Um..

Grail05 · 07-07-2011, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Comet

so long as you don't email him, because I don't think you know how to use "he", "his", "her", "he's" very well

just speak your heart

as long as i dont email him its fine.. right..

Kiemyster · 07-07-2011, 11:11 AM

Its simple. invite him out to dinner one night, just you and him. He may not like that fact that your already engaged for 6 months and didnt tell him... But just ask him for his permission to marry his daughter, and explain to him that your not playing any games. let him know its for real. remember, ask him for his permission, dont tell him. he will appriciate that and blessings will be given.

good luck, and let us know how this goes for you.

but do you really want to marry her? how does she look now, compared to her mother? is she going to age well? do you want to wake up next to her 30 years from now? you know how these questions go.

good luck and god speed.

Wraith. · 07-07-2011, 12:13 PM

Why doesn't he know that you 2 are already engaed?? That's your first obstacle.

Kiemyster · 07-07-2011, 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Wraith.

Why doesn't he know that you 2 are already engaed?? That's your first obstacle.

i guess he jumped the gun, or didnt want to ask for permission yet, or maybe forgot alltogether that he had to ask permission first and its kinda late now for take backs lol.

but def. the first obstacle. 2 choices: pretend like it never happened, or tell him whats really been going on and youve been waiting to ask him for permission to proceed.

E90SoFlo · 07-07-2011, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Kiemyster

i guess he jumped the gun, or didnt want to ask for permission yet, or maybe forgot alltogether that he had to ask permission first and its kinda late now for take backs lol.

but def. the first obstacle. 2 choices: pretend like it never happened, or tell him whats really been going on and youve been waiting to ask him for permission to proceed.

HAAAAAAAHAAAAAAAAA Made me lol in the office.

Kiemyster · 07-07-2011, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by E90SoFlo

HAAAAAAAHAAAAAAAAA Made me lol in the office.

my pleasure

chungdae · 07-07-2011, 12:24 PM

See what his interests are. If he likes Scotch; bring him a nice gold or green Johnny Walker or Glenfiddich Ancient reserve, if he likes Cigars; a nice Monte Cristo or Cubano, if he likes golf; etc. I don't know what kind of relationship you have with him, but it goes a long way sometimes to suck up a bit. Chances are he already knows and is waiting for you to have the balls to tell him and when you do, he will respect you that much more.

Bobble · 07-07-2011, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Sean05

OH if i do i will get the beating of my life... TRUST ME.. he beat the crap out of her sisters husband... LOL hes a fawking A HOLE..

WTF! He beat him for what? My ex wife's father was a major dick for the 24 years we were together and it got down right stupid towards the end. In hindsight I should have left long before I did would have saved me hundreds of thousands of dollars in the long run.

Personally tell him simply from the heart as someone else said, if the jack hole assualts you I'd end the engagement right there before things get even worse.

E90SoFlo · 07-07-2011, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Bobble

WTF! He beat him for what? My ex wife's father was a major dick for the 24 years we were together and it got down right stupid towards the end. In hindsight I should have left long before I did would have saved me hundreds of thousands of dollars in the long run.

Personally tell him simply from the heart as someone else said, if the jack hole assualts you I'd end the engagement right there before things get even worse.

or just call jimmy the clean up guy... I heard "cleaning" rates are good down at the docks..

Kiemyster · 07-07-2011, 12:46 PM

no but for real OP, get out while you can.

this is how i feel, honestly.

Grail05 · 07-07-2011, 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Wraith.

Why doesn't he know that you 2 are already engaed?? That's your first obstacle.

well he does know it but i just have not made it official since we are getting married next year didnt think it was a RUSH.. but lately i have been thinking a lot and i think hes waiting for me, im pretty sure he knows its just i want to do it out of respect.

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Originally Posted by Kiemyster

i guess he jumped the gun, or didnt want to ask for permission yet, or maybe forgot alltogether that he had to ask permission first and its kinda late now for take backs lol.

but def. the first obstacle. 2 choices: pretend like it never happened, or tell him whats really been going on and youve been waiting to ask him for permission to proceed.

no backing out needed.. shes a keeper hes not in the US and only visits twice or 3 times a year but its already July and he has not yet been back so i guess its better to do it now...

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Originally Posted by chungdae

See what his interests are. If he likes Scotch; bring him a nice gold or green Johnny Walker or Glenfiddich Ancient reserve, if he likes Cigars; a nice Monte Cristo or Cubano, if he likes golf; etc. I don't know what kind of relationship you have with him, but it goes a long way sometimes to suck up a bit. Chances are he already knows and is waiting for you to have the balls to tell him and when you do, he will respect you that much more.

none of the above exactly he is just waiting i now have an idea on what im gonig to say but even though he knows im still a bit scared...

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bobble

WTF! He beat him for what? My ex wife's father was a major dick for the 24 years we were together and it got down right stupid towards the end. In hindsight I should have left long before I did would have saved me hundreds of thousands of dollars in the long run.

Personally tell him simply from the heart as someone else said, if the jack hole assualts you I'd end the engagement right there before things get even worse.

He beat him cause he called the wifey some names, and i think he hit the wifey once... so to give him a lesson... DADDY beat the crap out of him till he was bleeding...

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Originally Posted by Kiemyster

no but for real OP, get out while you can.

this is how i feel, honestly.

nah this is a keeper... she is not like other girls.... its one in a million you can find someone like her... and i know this from experience...

Kiemyster · 07-07-2011, 01:04 PM

^^^ then go marry your woman! get his permission, slip a ring on that finger and never look back!

im currently in the process of getting out of this mess. lol, good luck, and dont end up like me

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