quick q...

E90-4life · 12-25-2005, 11:21 PM

is it a bad or good thing if a girl is always asking a guy to call her?

nabutes · 12-25-2005, 11:34 PM

like a booty call?

E90-4life · 12-25-2005, 11:59 PM

That's a no brainer, NO. More like every time you're through talking after a chat or a quick hello...

NaTuReB0Y · 12-26-2005, 12:02 AM

What can I get for $10 dollaaaaaar?

Enroutte · 12-26-2005, 01:03 AM

bad.she's too needy. if she wants to talk to him she should take the initiative to call instead of always asking him

northerncalguy · 12-26-2005, 01:50 AM

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Originally Posted by E90-4life

is it a bad or good thing if a girl is always asking a guy to call her?

Have you seen that movie Fatal Attraction?

I hear the guy get's stalked.

Nikki · 12-26-2005, 01:56 AM

it may be a game to see if you like her enough to actually do it. not that i do games like that, i just know the evil tricks of women.

northerncalguy · 12-26-2005, 03:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Nikki

it may be a game to see if you like her enough to actually do it. not that i do games like that, i just know the evil tricks of women.

Or it could be a test. Refer to Men's Rules and give her a piece of your mind. (http://www.e90post.com/forums/showpo...89&postcount=1)

BMW F22 · 12-26-2005, 03:24 AM

yeah She might be too needy. Probably expects you to do everything if you guys start dating...

BeemMeUp · 12-26-2005, 04:04 AM

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Originally Posted by E90-4life

is it a bad or good thing if a girl is always asking a guy to call her?

I think it's a bad thing. There is nothing worse then some one being too pushy. If he is interested in you, he will call on his own. Now that doesn't mean you can't call him sometimes. Good Luck

BMW F22 · 12-26-2005, 04:10 AM

lol E90 4life is a dude

BeemMeUp · 12-26-2005, 04:18 AM

Sorry.........

No offence ment.

Enroutte · 12-26-2005, 08:50 AM

lol i laughed

Compos Mentis · 12-26-2005, 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Enroutte

lol i laughed

LOL.

I'm glad you changed your picture. Much better.

JamieA · 12-26-2005, 10:16 AM

Sounds like insecurity and clingyness to me.

Personally the minute someone seems to be dependent on me, and clingy, I run for the hills. I don't like the thought of my partner disempowering themselves by being so needy. I like to be with an equal who is secure in their own skin.

Whether it is good or bad really depends on how it makes you feel. Do you feel happy that she loves you? It is good. Do you feel trapped and a heavy sense of obligation to her, or a foreboding sense that if you don't do what she asks there will be trouble and emotional blackmail? It is very bad.

Your gut will tell you whether to cut and run or stay with her. Listen to that, not us...

ksfrogman · 12-26-2005, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by E90-4life

is it a bad or good thing if a girl is always asking a guy to call her?

Requests like this are not as clear-cut as they may seem. She is simply asking for more attention. Just tweak your psychic abilities.

What she says: "What do you think of this nice diamond bracelet?"
What the guy hears: "What do you think of this diamond bracelet?"
What she wants him to hear: "Can you please buy me this nice diamond bracelet?"

What she says: "Would you like to go to bed?"
What the guy hears: "Would you like to go to bed?"
What she wants him to hear: "I am feeling frisky."

What she says: "Why don't you call me more often?"
What the guy hears: "Blah Blah Blah."
What she wants him to hear: "Don't you find me more interesting than your BMW?"

Broken1 · 12-26-2005, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by ksfrogman

Requests like this are not as clear-cut as they may seem. She is simply asking for more attention. Just tweak your psychic abilities.

What she says: "What do you think of this nice diamond bracelet?"
What the guy hears: "What do you think of this diamond bracelet?"
What she wants him to hear: "Can you please buy me this nice diamond bracelet?"

What she says: "Would you like to go to bed?"
What the guy hears: "Would you like to go to bed?"
What she wants him to hear: "I am feeling frisky."

What she says: "Why don't you call me more often?"
What the guy hears: "Blah Blah Blah."
What she wants him to hear: "Don't you find me more interesting than your BMW?"

So true....soooo true

Oz · 12-26-2005, 03:23 PM

It's good thing. Good luck

ward · 12-26-2005, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by E90-4life

is it a bad or good thing if a girl is always asking a guy to call her?

depends on if she's hot and how annoying she is

E90-4life · 12-26-2005, 03:58 PM

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Originally Posted by ward

depends on if she's hot and how annoying she is

Haha, you and ksfrogman made the two best replies in this thread so far. I think I have a better angle on the situation now, and it's quite different from all of the opinions shared here. Thanks for the feedback.

db17k · 12-26-2005, 10:13 PM

WTF are you guys even talking about?! dude your question is to vague for any kind of intelligent response.

Jay_328 · 12-26-2005, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by db17k

WTF are you guys even talking about?! dude your question is to vague for any kind of intelligent response.

I agree!

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