Who should pay?

808six · 02-09-2010, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Derek Zoolander

A woman is like 3/5ths of a person. They should pay 3 out of 5 times.

OH MY :O

ghosthi32 · 02-09-2010, 05:06 PM

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Originally Posted by DougLikesBMW

Sir, you have found yourself a keeper.

I expected this bullshit from a female. You lot only want equality when it suits your situation. Fucking hypocrites.

Pathetic...time to grow a sack, guys.

those plano people... :shifty

Kensta335 · 02-09-2010, 05:07 PM

Depends on the relationship. If it's a new relationship, I would say the guy pays almost all the time. Once things gets comfortable then it should be close to 50/50.

c0nstant · 02-09-2010, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by DougLikesBMW

Deep down you know I'm right.

eh? no, not really. there is no 'right'. your subjective view =/= the only way things should be.

DougLikesBMW · 02-09-2010, 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by jh valley

eh? no, not really. there is no 'right'. your subjective view =/= the only way things should be.

Women want equal paychecks.
Women want equality.

By her paying it also shows that she isn't just riding on free meals either. It sets a precedent for a possible future relationship. When y'all are together you should pay for x dinner and then she should pay for the next, etc...and then you treat her on special occasions, unless it's your birthday.

Yeah, I'm right.

c0nstant · 02-09-2010, 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by DougLikesBMW

Women want equal paychecks.
Women want equality.

By her paying it also shows that she isn't just riding on free meals either. It sets a precedent for a possible future relationship. When y'all are together you should pay for x dinner and then she should pay for the next, etc...and then you treat her on special occasions, unless it's your birthday.

Yeah, I'm right.

quit thinking holes into everything. all i ever see you do here is criticize other people, essentially putting yourself on some pedestal that no one gives a shit about. let people do their thing.

DougLikesBMW · 02-09-2010, 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by jh valley

quit thinking holes into everything. all i ever see you do here is criticize other people, essentially putting yourself on some pedestal that no one gives a shit about. let people do their thing.

Not really.

c0nstant · 02-09-2010, 05:18 PM

there are always exceptions, too. if i reach for the check and she insists to pay, i wont be like, 'YO BITCH, U BETTER LET ME PAY 4 U OR IMMA HIT YOU'. same thing with opening doors for her and offering a jacket when she looks cold as shit. if she opens her own door or says, 'its alright, im fine' then shit, ok. i dont care. i do these things because thats how i am, not because i feel obligated to.

DougLikesBMW · 02-09-2010, 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by jh valley

there are always exceptions, too. if i reach for the check and she insists to pay, i wont be like, 'YO BITCH, U BETTER LET ME PAY 4 U OR IMMA HIT YOU'. same thing with opening doors for her and offering a jacket when she looks cold as shit. if she opens her own door or says, 'its alright, im fine' then shit, ok. i dont care. i do these things because thats how i am, not because i feel obligated to.

That exception makes sense to me. And opening doors, offering her a jacket...all plusses in my book.

c0nstant · 02-09-2010, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by DougLikesBMW

That exception makes sense to me. And opening doors, offering her a jacket...all plusses in my book.

c0nstant · 02-09-2010, 05:23 PM

i dont do valentines day dinners though, strictly because thats cliche and played-out as shit.

Year's_End · 02-09-2010, 05:32 PM

I do like 80/20.

Year's_End · 02-09-2010, 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by jh valley

if i reach for the check and she insists to pay, i wont be like, 'YO BITCH, U BETTER LET ME PAY 4 U OR IMMA HIT YOU'.

Blake · 02-09-2010, 05:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Nikkahtropolis

I do like 80/20.

so when you buy her that 5 piece at wendy's, you make her cough up 20 cents. now that's keepin' it real

BMWM3DREAM · 02-09-2010, 08:19 PM

I'm not trying to thread jack, but how much do you guys usually pay with tax and tip at a restaurant when you take a lady out for dinner?

Peanuto · 02-09-2010, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Bmoney2K4

I'm not trying to thread jack, but how much do you guys usually pay with tax and tip at a restaurant when you take a lady out for dinner?

Average dinner 60-125 special purpose who knows

Scorpion · 02-09-2010, 08:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Blake

so when you buy her that 5 piece at wendy's, you make her cough up 20 cents. now that's keepin' it real

LOL

Year's_End · 02-09-2010, 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Blake

so when you buy her that 5 piece at wendy's, you make her cough up 20 cents. now that's keepin' it real

nah i meant like i pay for most meals, like i usually pay for lunch and dinner. she'll randomly demand to treat me to a snack or something random like milkshakes.

Year's_End · 02-09-2010, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Bmoney2K4

I'm not trying to thread jack, but how much do you guys usually pay with tax and tip at a restaurant when you take a lady out for dinner?

$25-50.

Sara · 02-09-2010, 10:01 PM

He always pays. Even when I try to reach for the bill, he never lets me pay.

c0nstant · 02-09-2010, 10:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Sara504

He always pays. Even when I try to reach for the bill, he never lets me pay.

ohhhhhh wah wah wee wah

Year's_End · 02-09-2010, 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by jh valley

ohhhhhh wah wah wee wah

seriously, WTF is that thing in your sig?

View Poll Results: Who should pay?
Guy ALWAYS pays!	28	35.90%
Split 50/50	20	25.64%
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02-09-2010, 05:07 PM	#47
Kensta335 Brigadier General 167 REP 3,637 Posts Drives: 335i Coupe Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: So Cal 626 iTrader: (4)	Depends on the relationship. If it's a new relationship, I would say the guy pays almost all the time. Once things gets comfortable then it should be close to 50/50.
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c0nstant Lieutenant General 1,893 REP 17,322 Posts Drives: G80 M3 Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Los Angeles iTrader: (1)	there are always exceptions, too. if i reach for the check and she insists to pay, i wont be like, 'YO BITCH, U BETTER LET ME PAY 4 U OR IMMA HIT YOU'. same thing with opening doors for her and offering a jacket when she looks cold as shit. if she opens her own door or says, 'its alright, im fine' then shit, ok. i dont care. i do these things because thats how i am, not because i feel obligated to.
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c0nstant Lieutenant General 1,893 REP 17,322 Posts Drives: G80 M3 Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Los Angeles iTrader: (1)	i dont do valentines day dinners though, strictly because thats cliche and played-out as shit.
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Year's_End Lieutenant General 1,269 REP 12,446 Posts Drives: 2020 Shelby GT350 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: FL iTrader: (0)	I do like 80/20. __________________ Past: '08 E92 335i\|ZPP\|ZSP\|6AT Past: '15 Mustang GT\|401A\|PP\|6MT Current: '20 Shelby GT350\|6MT Last edited by Year's_End; 02-09-2010 at 05:38 PM..
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BMWM3DREAM Captain 207 REP 908 Posts Drives: 2016 535i Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Los Angeles, California iTrader: (0)	I'm not trying to thread jack, but how much do you guys usually pay with tax and tip at a restaurant when you take a lady out for dinner?
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02-09-2010, 10:01 PM	#64
Sara Lieutenant General 5,878 REP 17,879 Posts Drives: A car Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Nola iTrader: (6)	He always pays. Even when I try to reach for the bill, he never lets me pay.
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